<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710</id><updated>2011-11-27T18:56:57.167-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Film Jihadi. Cyber Jihadi. Love Jihadi.</title><subtitle type='html'>This is the LOVEJIHADI blog and I am currently reporting from the cyber-frontlines in Egypt. Follow me on twitter @parvezsharma or join me on Facebook at Parvez Hussein Sharma and try to watch A JIHAD FOR LOVE</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default?start-index=101&amp;max-results=100'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>183</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7968320057763564912</id><published>2011-01-29T19:54:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-29T20:10:36.195-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Breaking News from Mohandessin in Cairo</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;I have another friend Yousry. (Different from the other amazing Yousry I just interviewed for a Mondoweiss exclusive) I have blogged about him in the past 72 hours on &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/egypt-is-burning-and-it-i_b_815605.html"&gt;the Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt; and on &lt;a href="http://mondoweiss.net/"&gt;Mondoweiss&lt;/a&gt; and on the &lt;a href="http://al-bab.com/"&gt;Guardian's Brian Whitaker's blog.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;I have just spoken to his sister who just finished talking to him.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;Yousry and his friends were walking in Mohandessin and this is all still unfolding--so it was recent. They are armed and have guns. A car full of some thugs shot at them but they were not hurt. Seeven men then arrived on motorcycles and attacked them with swords. Yousry and his friends shot back at them making sure they were not killing them and once the shot-at bikers lost control of their bikes--they tied them up to a tree on the roadside.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;Yousry and his friends have contacted several helplines and are trying to contact the army. They are still on the side of the road. The 7 now injured bikers who attacked them with swords are right there as well, tied to the tree.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;This was way too long to tweet so I am putting it here in the hope that you will be able to share it.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;It is becoming impossible to tweet this revolution in 140 characters or less so I am going to stop pretty soon and retire for the night--and try and get my life back--perhaps eat and try and have a shower and also try and save my laptop from eternal damage.&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt; &lt;a href="http://mondoweiss.net/2011/01/muslims-christians-we-are-all-egyptians-scenes-from-a-revolution-as-told-by-one-eyewitness.html"&gt;In any case my very powerful interview with the other Yousry says it much better than any tweet ever could and certainly better than many of the jokers being paraded on cable television in the United States.&lt;/a&gt; It is up on the front page of Mondoweiss right now. I am hoping that the Huffington Post will publish it as well--they have not responded to my emails or posts in the last 24 hours even though &lt;a href="twitter@ariannahuff"&gt;Arianna Huffington&lt;/a&gt; has recommended &lt;a href="http://mondoweiss.net/2011/01/muslims-christians-we-are-all-egyptians-scenes-from-a-revolution-as-told-by-one-eyewitness.html"&gt;Mondoweiss&lt;/a&gt; to her followers for its LOTS OF GOOD RE-TWEETING ABOUT EGYPT GOING ON. I hope she or her staff have noticed that I have been doing about eighty percent of that re-tweeting atleast for the last 48 hours. Write to her though if you feel inspired by Yousry's &lt;a href="http://mondoweiss.net/2011/01/muslims-christians-we-are-all-egyptians-scenes-from-a-revolution-as-told-by-one-eyewitness.html"&gt;Mondoweiss&lt;/a&gt; interview and feel it deserves to be read. If you don't that too is fine ;-)&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;b&gt;Thank You All for your support and interest. &lt;/b&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7968320057763564912?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7968320057763564912/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7968320057763564912&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7968320057763564912'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7968320057763564912'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2011/01/breaking-news-from-mohandessin-in-cairo.html' title='Breaking News from Mohandessin in Cairo'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4860125440220556767</id><published>2011-01-29T12:10:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-02-13T14:02:02.365-05:00</updated><title type='text'>BREAKING NEWS FROM EGYPT/ IN 140 CHARACTERS OR LESS</title><content type='html'>&lt;style&gt;@font-face {   font-family: "Courier New"; }@font-face {   font-family: "Wingdings"; }@font-face {   font-family: "Cambria"; }p.MsoNormal, li.MsoNormal, div.MsoNormal { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }p.MsoListParagraph, li.MsoListParagraph, div.MsoListParagraph { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }p.MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst, li.MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst, div.MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }p.MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle, li.MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle, div.MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }p.MsoListParagraphCxSpLast, li.MsoListParagraphCxSpLast, div.MsoListParagraphCxSpLast { margin: 0in 0in 0.0001pt 0.5in; font-size: 12pt; font-family: "Times New Roman"; }div.Section1 { page: Section1; }ol { margin-bottom: 0in; }ul { margin-bottom: 0in; }&lt;/style&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 180%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;American television networks and an endless parade of mostly white men pundits (brought out and dusted off with their cobwebs) should take lessons from Al-Jazeera in live reportage, in not having pundits talk over the chants of a mass of humanity, in having Arab reporters covering what they know best, in remarkably evocative and courageous camerawork and in just being able to cover history like no other television network has ever been able to do before. And yes, I also mean that CNN during the first Gulf War was not as good as this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;It is so important to remember that the vast MAJORITY of those on the streets around the country do not have the time, the ability, the resources (including smartphones) and certainly no access to working mobile phone service. This revolution is JUST NOT BEING TWITTERED by the people who are actually protesting.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;The only people tweeting are either reporters with huge bureaus and live cameras to back them or people like me reporting from the cyber-frontlines talking to the few friends in Cairo we can reach on their landlines.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;To tweet this revolution and Egypt’s complex back-story in 140 characters or less is impossible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;Interestingly Al-Jazeera which is doing a stellar job is also more interested in covering the revolution (amazingly) in what is essentially wide-shots to show the extent of the chaos. Ayman’s camera is focused on the thousands in Tahrir. Not many correspondents are able to get to neighborhoods like Rihab, Mohandasin, Zamalek, Maadi—which cyber-reporters/tweeters like me are able to do by talking only on landlines (mobiles are not working) to our friends—ordinary citizens. Hopefully this below, is an example of that. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;I must mention that some amazing independent reporters like Ahmed Moor (who is writing for Mondoweiss and sometimes Al-Jazeera English) and  Sharif Koudouss (of Democracy Now—who just flew  into Cairo) are doing remarkable reportage, even though they are not necessarily backed by major news bureaus&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;My friend Fouad was able to get on the landline again. His body and soul are still bruised and yet he has never been more hopeful. His severe anger at Hosni Mubarak’s speech full of lies and his ambivalence about the appointment of Omar Soliman, the head of intelligence as the new vice president. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;It a fragmented conversation on a still functioning landline. And as bullets do rain all around him, here are his bullet points. The thoughts and experiences of an ordinary citizen, not a reporter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoNormal" style="font-family: arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;Mohandaseen is burning—we are surrounded by looters, and the army is just watching&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;They are looting houses and we have no idea who these looters are&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;My parents asked army tank guys and they said we cannot intervene!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;Everyone here is saying that Mubarak is being spiteful-he wants looters so that he can say-&lt;i&gt;Look I gave you calm for 30 years? OK now you want to get rid of me? Well see the chaos my going can bring-Enjoy the unrest and the looting. Only I could have protected all of you!&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;I was driving and 3 men with knives attacked me near Sudan street—I had to sort of run them over&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt; Big rumor that Mubarak is releasing prisoners and arming them so that they can infiltrate neighbourhoods and loot them&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;Maadi, Street number nine-huge vandalism happening—There is looting everywhere in Rihab city, in Mohandasin, in Shubra. In Heliopolis there are plainsclothes police&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;My parents are organizing all the baobabs in our street and making blockades to stop the looters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt; There are Balkageyah (thugs) everywhere—all rich neighborhoods are being attacked &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;I think he is fucked up yaani--He didnt resign---his speech instigated the violence---now looters and the poor think that when you know there is no hope you might as well get as much as you can as long as the chaos lasts--people were hopeful that he would go&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;Maybe in other governates--people are more organized and closer to each other as community members...so they will organize better, perhaps—In Cairo it is difficult to control the chaos and disorder—there are 19 million people in this city who often don’t talk to each other and are so separated by class and money—I am wondering how they can organize together?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;The people in Cairo are fighting two things--they are fighting police forces but also now fighting looters&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;·&lt;span style="font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; line-height: normal;"&gt;      &lt;/span&gt;People prayed the Salat ul Genaza, the funeral prayer after the evening prayers in Tahrir—we carried a body through the crush of thousands—I was crying, so many of us were crying&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="font-family: arial; text-indent: -0.25in;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;    Fouad's mother is now making Molotov cocktails to protect them-She is 60 plus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4860125440220556767?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4860125440220556767/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4860125440220556767&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4860125440220556767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4860125440220556767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2011/01/breaking-news-from-egypt-in-140.html' title='BREAKING NEWS FROM EGYPT/ IN 140 CHARACTERS OR LESS'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3803348972782051350</id><published>2011-01-28T11:29:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-01-28T12:06:20.743-05:00</updated><title type='text'>EGYPT RIGHT NOW</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;font-size:180%;" &gt;FOLLOW ME ON TWITTER @parvezsharma where I am live-tweeting the NOT SO JASMINE REVOLUTION currently exploding all over EGYPT&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I HAVE LIVE FEEDS AND ARTICLES ON &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/inshaallah-twitter_b_814709.html"&gt;HUFFPO&lt;/a&gt; ON &lt;a href="http://mondoweiss.net/2011/01/jan28-this-revolution-will-not-be-twittered.html"&gt;MONDOWEIS &lt;/a&gt;and o&lt;a href="http://www.al-bab.com/blog/2011/blog1101d.htm"&gt;n the excellent blog of Guardian Editor Brian Whitaker&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rachel Maddow, Anderson Cooper, Keith Olberman, All of FOX need to take LESSONS IN JOURNALISM 101 FROM AL-JAZEERA, the network which I am ashamed to say--cable providers in New York refuse to carry.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3803348972782051350?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3803348972782051350/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3803348972782051350&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3803348972782051350'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3803348972782051350'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2011/01/egypt-right-now.html' title='EGYPT RIGHT NOW'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8465784337819143791</id><published>2010-12-05T11:32:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T11:49:15.311-05:00</updated><title type='text'>NY TIMES REMOVES OFFENSIVE IMAGE AFTER THESE POSTS AND TWEETS-SEE IMAGE BELOW</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPvAtUnCn7I/AAAAAAAAAGQ/KUI6Ah8JJVY/s1600/NYTIslam.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display: block; margin: 0px auto 10px; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 163px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPvAtUnCn7I/AAAAAAAAAGQ/KUI6Ah8JJVY/s320/NYTIslam.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547239250896002994" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;At about 11:13 am the image (see below and above) was GONE.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;Timeline of events:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;At about 9:15 am I noticed the image. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;At 9:30 ish I posted the fact of its existence on my Facebook home-page.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;By 9:45 I sent them my first email. (I sent three in total after being asked to provide my contact details from an automated response).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;On my Facebook I posted the image at 10:30 am.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;Friends started writing that they were emailing them.&lt;br /&gt;At around 10:45 am I presciently posted the following on my Facebook page saying:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;h3 class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{&amp;quot;type&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;msg&amp;quot;}"&gt;&lt;span class="UIStory_Message"&gt;Here is the offensive NYT Sunday am photo-before they remove it and say it never existed! See thread below for details.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;I even posted a quick column on Huffington Post. (Their young blog editors are probably still hungover from the weekend. Lets see if HuffPo publishes it).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;At 10:40 am or thereabouts I tweeted this below-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;h3  style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" class="UIIntentionalStory_Message" ft="{&amp;quot;type&amp;quot;:&amp;quot;msg&amp;quot;}"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span class="UIStory_Message"&gt;Blatant Islamophobia on display in the NY Times Sunday web-edition @NYTimes &lt;a href="http://bit.ly/hTfU6a" rel="nofollow" target="_blank"&gt;http://bit.ly/hTfU6a&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;This is the power of us watching the media, folks. Thankfully I was able to take a screen grab of the image and hopefully it now exists for posterity and can go viral, as it should. Post your comments here or connect with me and/or the links on Facebook and Twitter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8465784337819143791?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8465784337819143791/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8465784337819143791&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8465784337819143791'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8465784337819143791'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2010/12/ny-times-removes-offensive-image-after.html' title='NY TIMES REMOVES OFFENSIVE IMAGE AFTER THESE POSTS AND TWEETS-SEE IMAGE BELOW'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPvAtUnCn7I/AAAAAAAAAGQ/KUI6Ah8JJVY/s72-c/NYTIslam.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7810403984466771377</id><published>2010-12-05T10:32:00.007-05:00</published><updated>2010-12-05T11:42:54.209-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A *New* New York Times Faux Pas</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPuxSw5gJfI/AAAAAAAAAGI/Ooo3jb1TVjk/s1600/NYTIslam.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="float: left; margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; cursor: pointer; width: 320px; height: 163px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPuxSw5gJfI/AAAAAAAAAGI/Ooo3jb1TVjk/s320/NYTIslam.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5547222301958743538" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The Gray Lady is wearing her Islamophobia on her sleeve this morning.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Sunday morning, like most mornings I opened from years of habit-the  home page of the Times. Peering at the lead story without my glasses I  was horrified to find the image of Muslim men praying near Mecca-next to  a cable excerpt from (the now hard to access) Wikileaks-the Times had  decided this was the top story for us this Sunday.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;However next to the excerpt which began: "Terrorist funding emanating  from Saudi Arabia remains a serious concern...." there was the  unmistakable image of Muslim men praying near Mecca wearing the  requisite&lt;em&gt; Ihram&lt;/em&gt; during pilgrimage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Is the Times saying that all Muslim men who go for the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt; Hajj &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;or &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;Umrah &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;pilgrimages to Mecca are a part of terrorism emanating from Saudi Arabia? Are all Muslims stepping into that holy (and unjustly &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;Wahabi&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; controlled land) getting classes in Terrorism 101 ?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Living in the US, I am now not surprised by the Islamophobia of  others. I cringe when cartoons depict  our (undepictable) Prophet. And  yet as a moderate Muslim, I always fight for freedom of expression (I  usually attach the rider-"with responsibility")&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Throughout history words and images used together convey powerful  meaning. All dictatorships, genocidal regimes and problematic systems of  power know this. Journalists and photo-editors should know this better  than most.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I often defend the NYT to Muslim friends elsewhere who don't trust it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Now, I am not so sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I wonder if I am the only one to notice what I hope is a lapse of judgment and not an editorial decision. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Below is my hurriedly written letter to the Times. The image grab  can be found on my Facebook and if I am able to include it, with this  blog-post as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To the Times.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;As a Muslim writer and filmmaker based in NY, my home-I have  always turned to this paper as my primary source of information. In my  travels through Muslim majority nations, I have also been very aware of  the untrustworthy label easily assigned to your reportage, which I have  often defended. This more from a place of knowing that you are also much  reviled by the right-wing here in America as being part of some  imagined "progressive conspiracy." However, this Sunday morning--like  every Sunday morning when I opened the paper in my web browser I was  horrified to see an image of Muslim men praying during the Hajj, wearing  the requisite "Ihram" next to a  Wikileak cable excerpt that says  "Terrorist funding emanating from Saudi Arabia remains a serious  concern..."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;This is blatant "Islamophobia", which your editors surely know is  currently much in fashion. Surely a less provocative image can be found  to depict a nation, which for many of us moderate Muslims-remains a  place we deride for its hypocrisy and totalitarianism but respect as  being the home of our two holiest cities. I wonder if the current  climate makes it acceptable to use Muslim males in prayer as a suitable  image for them usually being branded "terrorists" or singled out at most  airports in the world.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Words and images together, convey powerful meaning. Your editors,  your web-editors and your photo-editors, I hope know this better than  anyone else.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;In the past I have considered myself fortunate to have been profiled and written about in your paper. Now I am not so sure.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Thank you.&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;br /&gt;New York&lt;br /&gt;December 5, 2010&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7810403984466771377?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7810403984466771377/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7810403984466771377&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7810403984466771377'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7810403984466771377'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2010/12/new-new-york-times-faux-pas.html' title='A *New* New York Times Faux Pas'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/TPuxSw5gJfI/AAAAAAAAAGI/Ooo3jb1TVjk/s72-c/NYTIslam.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4782457348706208816</id><published>2010-09-22T14:21:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-22T14:24:17.716-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My new article in The Guardian</title><content type='html'>I write about the appalling distaste of a "Slum" birthday cake for Bollywood film star Shabana Azmi's 60th birthday in the British newspaper - The Guardian&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2010/sep/22/slumdog-birthday-cake-shabana-azmi"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please comment on their website and the link is here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4782457348706208816?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4782457348706208816/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4782457348706208816&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4782457348706208816'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4782457348706208816'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2010/09/my-new-article-in-guardian.html' title='My new article in The Guardian'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5462256647493300601</id><published>2010-09-22T13:54:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2010-09-22T14:02:07.730-04:00</updated><title type='text'>First Screenings in Arab World, LA Times and Al-Akhbar articles</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I write after a long time and realize now more than ever, how relevant "A Jihad for Love" is. Two weeks ago we returned from Beirut where the Heinrich Boell Foundation organized the first ever public screenings of the film in any Arab nation-there were two screenings-one at The Beirut Art Lounge and the other at Hamra's Zico House. Both were packed and the response was amazing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/babylonbeyond/2010/09/lebanon-gay-muslim-film-sex-parvez-sharma-lesbian-sunni-shiite.html"&gt;There is an interesting and short interview with the LA Times here, and the comments section remains, well, interesting!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.al-akhbar.com/ar/node/204172#comment-59442"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was a strong reaction in the Arab media, as expected and leading Left newspaper Al-Akhbar published a piece here and the comments were not all as friendly (though some were).&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5462256647493300601?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5462256647493300601/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5462256647493300601&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5462256647493300601'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5462256647493300601'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2010/09/first-screenings-in-arab-world-la-times.html' title='First Screenings in Arab World, LA Times and Al-Akhbar articles'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-563096389860504786</id><published>2010-08-22T16:14:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2010-08-22T16:16:51.008-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Why I am against the "Ground Zero Mosque"</title><content type='html'>You can find this entire post at &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/americas-imam-and-his-pro_b_689821.html"&gt;The Huffington Post.&lt;/a&gt; I encourage you to comment &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/americas-imam-and-his-pro_b_689821.html"&gt;there.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had always been taught to believe in the homogeneity of the pious. But  a year after September 11, as I snuck into a Thursday afternoon &lt;em&gt;zikr&lt;/em&gt;  at the Masjid al-Farah twelve blocks from the still smoldering Ground  Zero, I was not so sure. It was Ramadan and the tradition of breaking of  the fast, the &lt;em&gt;iftar&lt;/em&gt; was going to happen after the &lt;em&gt;zikr&lt;/em&gt;, or Sufi chanting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Looking around, I felt this was hippie for the Muslims. It was like the  Muslim Woodstock or Burning Man. Clearly the congregants would prefer  granola bars to kebabs. They wore all manner of what my neighborhood  mosque in Nizamuddin, New Delhi, would consider un-Islamic clothes. Men  and women were together. It was beautiful and affirming and yet  strangely foreign. "Only in America," I thought, "can I enter here as a  gay and Muslim man," and yet I felt no sense of connection with the  place. It was strangely new-agey.  In the center sat the tall Sheikha  Fariha Friedrich, a gaunt Caucasian woman in all white, who was the  first female leader of this order (the &lt;em&gt;Nur Ashki Jerrahi&lt;/em&gt;) in 300 years. It was time for &lt;em&gt;iftar&lt;/em&gt; and all manner of micro-greens and broccoli came out. Used to dates, greasy kebabs and butter-layered &lt;em&gt;rotis&lt;/em&gt; for this kind of meal, I fled.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A few weeks later, I visited the Manhattan apartment of one Imam Feisal  Abdul Rauf and his wife, Daisy Khan. I was a spiritual orphan launching  on a journey of trying to document homophobia within Islam and I was  looking for a home. Imam Faisal was dapper and articulate and spoke in  carefully calibrated soundbites. His wife, Daisy, a lovely host, was  also, it seemed to me at that time, getting ready for prime-time  television. Throughout the &lt;em&gt;zikr&lt;/em&gt; I could not shake off the  feeling of being part of a project that would present Sufi Islam as a  credible alternative to the mindless violence of the Sunni/Wahabis who  had killed three thousand people at what was by now already called  Ground Zero. I did not know how much at that time if America could be  fooled into thinking that Sufis had any credibility with orthodox  Muslims. Traditionally they had been the bastard children of Islam.  Everyone in the room spoke in hushed whispers of an Islam that was a  religion of peace. I was still not at that time sure of this line (I was  able to refine and reach my own conclusions after seven years of study  and travel to Muslim communities around the world, but this was way  before that).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Sure enough, in a few months, whenever there was a PBS special on  Islam--and there were many--Imam Rauf would be paraded about as the face  of moderate Islam. He was not the only one jumping on the Islamic  bandwagon. Islam was hot and sexy and later the success of my own film  on homosexuality and Islam, &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/" target="_hplink"&gt;A Jihad for Love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; benefited from that very sexiness.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Over the years I heard still unconfirmed rumors and whispers of a  vicious power struggle that had raged within this Sufi order between the  Sheikha Fariha and the Imam Feisal, who had been a regular  prayer-leader there since 1983. It was widely believed that the Sheikha  emerged victorious and that Feisal Rauf was thus trying to build his own  following, which he clearly did.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Knowing Islam as intimately as I do, I have always found it extremely  difficult to paint this complex religion of more than a billion  followers with broad brushstrokes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Even after a decade of living here, I still feel relatively  fresh-off-the-boat in this country and, to me, seven years in New York  make me a new New Yorker. Many of the mosques I have experienced, in  more than twelve Islamic nations around the world, do not manufacture  pithy sound bites about peace. I have often had to sit through deranged  diatribes against women and minorities. And yet I love mosques, for the  spiritual sustenance they have always given me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the other hand, most of the Muslims I have encountered in my own  family and elsewhere are just ordinary folk, not really following fatwas  and diktats issued by Islam's self-appointed ruling elites, be they the  Taliban, Al-Qaeda or the predominant Deobandi School of Islam of the  Indian sub-continent (and, ironically, the school of Islam that the  Taliban comes from). Most Muslims seem to be just ordinary people trying  to get by in life and hoping for better futures for their children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I have also lived in America for ten years as an out and proud Muslim. I  have faced "Islamophobia" only twice. Once was in Washington, DC, when a  group of white boys in a speeding SUV yelled "Fucking Arab" at me. I  realized, unshaven as I was and wearing my favorite and trademark &lt;em&gt;kaffiyeh &lt;/em&gt;(Yasser Arafat's distinctive Palestinian scarf), I could pass for Arab pretty easily. The &lt;em&gt;kaffiyeh&lt;/em&gt;  came to haunt me again in 2004 outside a synagogue on 14th Street in  Manhattan, when a bearded, young, Jewish man called me "Palestinian  Terrorist" and then thoughtfully added "Go back." I muttered "I am  Indian" and ran.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The arguments against the xenophobia and the re-victimization of the  "other," the continued demonization of all Muslims and the right wing's  hysterical evisceration of what they think constitutes Islam continue to  be made on cable television and pretty much everywhere else.  Right-wing, anti-Muslim vitriol has been spilled everywhere and in this  hot summer of election politics this "Mosque/Cultural Center" has  clearly become a wedge issue and a potent one at that. So I don't need  to add to the rhetoric emanating from the mostly White men of cable  television, like the Keith Olbermanns of the world, as they tie  themselves up in knots defending the Constitution and the unfortunate  tendency of xenophobia, with righteous anger and pain at the level of  discourse in America. I certainly don't need to add anything to the  fears at &lt;em&gt;Fox and Friends&lt;/em&gt; of a Muslim takeover of this deeply Christian nation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Three weeks ago, in Delhi's old Muslim quarter around the Jama Masjid, I was shopping for my &lt;em&gt;kaffiyehs.&lt;/em&gt;  The controversy of the "Ground Zero mosque" had been raging on my  Facebook messages, already with many asking me to come out and write  against the "right-wing nuts". As the merchant and I bargained about  whether the &lt;em&gt;kaffiyeh&lt;/em&gt; should be a dollar or two, I asked the  older gentleman selling me the scarves why he would want to sell them at  inflated prices to me. "Because you come from 'Amreeka,'" he said. Clad  in &lt;em&gt;kurta pyjama&lt;/em&gt;, without a hint of an American accent (which I  have tried and failed to cultivate) I was surprised he thought I was  "Amreekan." "They can sense it," said my friend accompanying me, sotto  voce. "It's about how you carry yourself now, that you have been away  ten years." Clearly, my demeanor would give me away. I asked him what he  thought of Obama. "Obama," he said with a smile that elongated his  henna-dyed beard substantially, is a bhai, brother. I wondered if this  was just the kind of sentiment I had encountered in Arab countries after  2008, when most discussion about Obama's positive Muslim cred would  stop at his middle name, as if that was enough.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I must confess here that my middle name on Facebook since October 2008,  when a particular voter with questionable hair-drying techniques spat  out "&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3c-Ijky95dc" target="_hplink"&gt;He's an Arab&lt;/a&gt;!"  at John Mc Cain, has been Hussein. I have proudly proclaimed to my  Facebook friends that the moment I lose faith in him, the middle name  will go. I haven't yet.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Fact is that any discussion of Obama's religious affiliations makes me  deeply uncomfortable. I am profoundly proud of this president and have  personally experienced how people in Muslim communities around the world  treat my choice to continue living in America differently after his  election.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I also know the Islamic laws of patriarchy rather well. They have  been used to disabuse me of my own Muslim identity, by so many fellow  Muslims in the past.  Obama, unlike me, was born to a Muslim father who  may or may not have been religious. But for some who narrowly interpret  Islam's laws of patriarchy, this means that at best he is a Muslim and  at worst, a murtad, or apostate. Obama has made his preference for Jesus  over Muhammad rather well-known, in which case I guess for the  "right-wing nuts" in Islam, he would deserve the death penalty for  abandoning the religion he was born into.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Meanwhile, in the mindless chatter of cable television news, mostly  White men sit around these days throwing about poll numbers in which one  in four Americans apparently think that their President is a Muslim.   Occasionally the ones on the Left (read MSNBC) will parade a "Muslim"  guest like Irshad Manji--to many moderate Muslims I know, she is a much  reviled figure and an "Islamophobe" herself--who will speak in pithy  soundbites, with usually American, Canadian or British accents, about a  cultural universe they may know little about, having grown up Muslim in  the first world. (And this I have always said-there is a huge difference  between North American/ "accented"/ "first-world" Muslims and people  like Usman, who you meet below or the &lt;em&gt;kaffiyeh&lt;/em&gt; seller in Delhi).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Rarely do we hear from fresh-off-the-boat Muslim immigrants who do not  have the invisibility of their accents, the types who populate the halal  food carts that can be found on every corner of Manhattan now.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I spoke to one on Sixth Avenue. Usman is a rather handsome, young,  Egyptian man whose audio system belts out Beiruti diva Fairouz's lyrics  from his halal Food cart in this very commercial district, as he churns  out lamb gyro platters. "I don't want this mosque," he says. "I have one  in Queens. We pray in a basement and we are happy and left alone." He  adds, "How can I go and pray in a place that will cause so much pain to  so many people?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Usman, I wish you were on cable television instead of Irshad Manji and  all the other North American Muslims brought to air this political  season.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Usman, I agree with you. It's simple, really.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I, a mosque-loving Muslim, am against this mosque. (And like many of you  I detest Sarah Palin's rhetoric but at the same time have little  patience for Keith Olbermann's theatrics on this issue.) This leaves me  in a very uncomfortable (and probably not popular) middle.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Within the discipline of prayer and the sense of brotherhood and awe I  have felt in mosques around the world, I have discovered whatever little  spirituality I still possess. At the same time in America, I have also  been vocal and critical about everything that ails modern Islam and have  certainly had no time for the hateful rhetoric of the Rush Limbaughs of  the world that paints all Muslims with the same terrorist-red  brushstrokes.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I still remain undecided about whether post-September 11 rhetoric in  America is just simply Islamophobic and whether this fundamentally is a  Christian nation.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What I am certain about is this: I do know that the mostly tolerant  fabric of the city, which is now my home, is being damaged, irrevocably  perhaps, in this discussion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Only in New York can I take the 1 train downtown and have a Rabbi with  his Torah sitting close to a North African man clutching a pocket Quran  with a scantily dressed Columbia University student reading Proust  sandwiched in the middle of them. But this same New York is now divided  around this rather expensive Cultural Center aka Mosque aka Culinary  school, two blocks from Ground Zero.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In a nation that is notably short on history (compared to many of the  Islamic civilizations that predate it), Ground Zero definitely is sacred  ground. It is also a unique American space, where what seemed like  hours after the attacks, T-shirts and models of the towers were to be  found for gawking tourists, who eagerly posed for photographs amidst the  destruction.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My father always says there is a time and a place. My mosque-loving Muslim self doesn't feel this is the time or the place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I don't want to give the lunatic fringe of Islam (the Al-Qaedas and the  Talibans) reason to gloat. I do not want America's mostly tolerant  fabric destroyed by a structure so divisive that it will be hard for  someone like to me even go there and pray during Ramadan.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I come from a nation where Hindu-Muslim "communal" riots have been part  of life and where more than a thousand Muslims were massacred in their  ghettos in the Gujarati city of Ahmedabad by angry Hindu mobs in 2002. I  wonder how the Muslims of those neighborhoods would react to a prime  real estate Hindu temple being built in the vicinity of their ravaged  homes and lives?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Truth is that the media-savvy Imam Rauf, of Cordoba Initiative fame, has  come upon a public-relations gold mine. I have not met him for years  and am sure he would not even remember me. But I wonder if becoming a  nationally discussed and debated figure is such a bad thing for anybody.  He could well become "America's Imam," just as a certain former mayor  of New York has appointed himself America's spokesperson for all things  9/11.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-563096389860504786?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/563096389860504786/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=563096389860504786&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/563096389860504786'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/563096389860504786'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2010/08/why-i-am-against-ground-zero-mosque.html' title='Why I am against the &quot;Ground Zero Mosque&quot;'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3987041692639444064</id><published>2009-12-21T08:00:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-12-21T08:03:38.267-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Public Screening in Dhaka !</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;For some time now, the film has been widely shown in Muslim countries-including a multi-city tour in Indonesia, where even protesters showed up at a screening and a hugely successful screening in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia attended by many including the former Prime Minister's daughter, who was reduced to tears.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;The latest is the following screening in Dhaka, Bangladesh-where I had filmed as well.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;If you are in Bangladesh, please go and tell all your friends to go as well.Click on this link below for details.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.goethe.de/ins/bd/dha/ver/en5423244v.htm"&gt;A Jihad for Love in Dhaka, Bangladesh&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3987041692639444064?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3987041692639444064/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3987041692639444064&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3987041692639444064'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3987041692639444064'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/12/public-screening-in-dhaka.html' title='Public Screening in Dhaka !'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1716458766228338787</id><published>2009-10-19T09:40:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-10-19T09:42:27.972-04:00</updated><title type='text'>50 Visionaries Who are Changing Your World</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I am honoured and excited to be named one of 50 visionaries by the leading progressive journal, UTNE Reader. The list which includes people far more deserving than me is headed by the Dalai Lama.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.utne.com/Arts/Parvez-Sharma-Filmmaker-Gay-Lesbian-Muslim-Islam.aspx"&gt;Read more about it here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1716458766228338787?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1716458766228338787/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1716458766228338787&amp;isPopup=true' title='9 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1716458766228338787'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1716458766228338787'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/10/50-visionaries-who-are-changing-your.html' title='50 Visionaries Who are Changing Your World'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>9</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8246807292906451514</id><published>2009-09-22T13:50:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-09-22T13:53:02.045-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Lost in (translation) in Bishkek!</title><content type='html'>Yes, I am in Bishkek, Kyrgyzstan!&lt;br /&gt;Will update when I can find the internet-&lt;br /&gt;For now-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="profile_status"&gt;&lt;span id="status_text"&gt;Sweet Sixties bar in Bishkek- My bar buddies-An Uzbek couple, a Mongolian filmmaker, a Serb, a Russian and a Croatian Czech-scintillating conversation veers from Putin's sexiness to Balkan politics to Brezhnev to Shashtri's statue in Tashkent to Obama's unpopularity in the CIS-this is the life ;-) Coming up tomorrow-Horse meat for lunch! On TV now-Church TV!!! (The only English language channels are Church TV and "Fox Crime&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;")-and yes Russian MTV, Russian News or Putin News, and Tajik TV, and Turkmen TV and Kyrgyz TV.&lt;br /&gt;Got to love it.&lt;br /&gt;My ethnic Russian-Kyrgyz translator informed me how much locals (especially the older ones) long for a return to Soviet times. I can see why.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8246807292906451514?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8246807292906451514/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8246807292906451514&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8246807292906451514'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8246807292906451514'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/09/lost-in-translation-in-bishkek.html' title='Lost in (translation) in Bishkek!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1614245897991216867</id><published>2009-08-16T23:07:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-18T13:32:01.280-04:00</updated><title type='text'>GET JIHAD AND ROCK YOUR CAMPUS!</title><content type='html'>&lt;h3 class="post-title entry-title"&gt; &lt;/h3&gt;  &lt;div class="post-body entry-content"&gt; &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thousands of students across the United States have participated in fierce and urgent discussions and engaged in an amazing learning process with "A Jihad for Love" accompanied by filmmaker Parvez Sharma. These lecture/town hall screenings take students and faculty into a surprising world of an Islam that is poetic and erotic and sensual and dogmatic at the same time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;In his inimitable style Parvez takes the audiences through a riveting journey at breakneck speeds through 14 centuries of Islamic history!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.kepplerspeakers.com/speakers.aspx?name=Parvez+Sharma"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CLICK HERE AND BOOK THE FILM NOW FOR FALL 2009&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new;" href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-08-16/iraqs-anti-gay-pogrom/?cid=hp:mainpromo2"&gt;&lt;span style="text-decoration: underline;"&gt;READ MY LATEST FEATURE ON THE DAILY BEAST HERE ON A SHOCKING NEW REPORT FROM IRAQ&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;THIS IS ALREADY ONE OF THE MOST READ AND SECOND MOST EMAILED STORIES ON THE IMMENSELY POPULAR WEBSITE!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1614245897991216867?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1614245897991216867/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1614245897991216867&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1614245897991216867'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1614245897991216867'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/08/get-jihad-and-rock-your-campus_16.html' title='GET JIHAD AND ROCK YOUR CAMPUS!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8334794124945889031</id><published>2009-08-09T12:55:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-09T12:58:44.795-04:00</updated><title type='text'>My Live Chat on NDTV</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://www.ndtv.com/convergence/ndtv/new/Ndtv-Show-Special.aspx?page=2&amp;amp;ID=257&amp;amp;#surfer"&gt;This is the text of my live chat on NDTV with viewers, a few hours ago. (The abusive questions are not reproduced).&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;NDTV 24X7 is the TV broadcaster that has just shown "A Jihad for Love" to millions of viewers across the world.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;14:30&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;NDTV.com&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33072351"&gt;&lt;span style="color: rgb(128, 0, 0);"&gt;The forum is now closed for questions. But do keep sending us your comments on the film, A Jihad for Love.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt; &lt;div id="row33072092" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;14:06&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33072092"&gt;The DVD can be bought at &lt;a href="http://www.ajihadforlove.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.ajihadforlove.com&lt;/a&gt; where links guide you to buying it outside the US and Canada! All your friends and family need to see it as it is a valuable resource for those who still live in fear or feel that they are alone and have no role models to look up to. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33072081" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;14:05&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33072081"&gt;Thank you everyone! I applaud NDTV's courage and vision for showing a film like this and in generating a debate that is critical. Believe me not many broadcasters would have dared. So you should all support NDTV for its courage and you should please spread the word widely about the film, buy it (it has subtitles in 8 languages including Hindi and Urdu), vsit my blog and the website and if you wish-talk to me on Facebook and Twitter! Thanks again! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33072021" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;14:01&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33072021"&gt;Hey Peter&lt;br /&gt;I certainly think the film tried to cover way too much! Islam is complicated and I wish I had just made the film about the closeted gay Muslim penguin on the beach in South Africa (for those of you who have not seen the film yet, this happens in the first 20 minutes!) But seriously-this is a complex issue and I think the film covers pretty tricky terrain rather well &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071996" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:59&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From peter ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071996"&gt;Did the film try to cover too much? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071950" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071950"&gt;Hey Miraj:&lt;br /&gt;My Jihad continues in many many ways. Do visit my blog all of you at &lt;a href="http://www.ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.ajihadforlove.blogspot.com&lt;/a&gt; and you will see how. I have been doing a lot of work with the situation in Iran as well for example. And tonight (or this morning, after this) there will be a Jihad for sleep ;-) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071922" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:54&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071922"&gt;Hey Deepak! Please watch the film again! Its a documentary-not a fiction film (though sometimes it does seem a little bit unreal!) Its almost 4:30 am here on the East coast in the States, so maybe my tongue is way more in my cheek than it usually is as well! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071891" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:52&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071891"&gt;Hey Rahul&lt;br /&gt;I am not very good at predicting the future! I dont think in our lifetimes we will see a worldwide acceptance of homosexuality, not from the Vatican and certainly not from Islam or even lets say the RSS/BJP gang. Now my own future? Thats way more interesting. There is a book in the works. I travel a lot and speak way too much around the world and people seem to listen so far (so thats a good thing) and honestly I am plotting a return to India to make a subversive Bollywood film-that is if they can deal with a completely out and proud homosexual filmmaker! (so many in that town are completely in the closet ;-)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071851" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:48&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071851"&gt;Hey Komal&lt;br /&gt;The greater Jihad in Islam is the Jihad ul Nafs, or the struggle within the self. This can manifest in many ways and most of them are ones of faith and contemplation. Jihad has been used variously through Islamic history-for example a particularly rich period of Arab (mostlt Egyptian) literature was referred to as the Jihad of the Pen. However there are also those who claim that Jihad is just Holy War and equate that with killing innocent people and that is the kind of interpretation that needs to be challenged by many more Muslims and condemned publicly by more Ulema in the Muslim world. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071811" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:45&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071811"&gt;Hey McLovin: I seem to get a lot of McLovin from most Muslims, most of the time! I am mostly fatwa-free still and there is a reason for that. Unlike "Muslim" opportunists like Irshad Manji I do not attack my own religion and I feel that people value that. There are way too many people like her who have made an industry out of working with right wing conservatives in defaming a 1428 year old religion while having pretty much no understanding of it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071766" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:42&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071766"&gt;Eisha: Islam has a very large heart and more Muslims need to pick up cameras and tell our stories unfiltered! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071742" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:40&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Komal ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071742"&gt;My view-- "jihad" speaks not of holy war but of spiritual struggle...do you agree ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071700" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:38&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Eisha ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071700"&gt;Does islam have room for this kind of cinema &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071691" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:37&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071691"&gt;Hey Athar&lt;br /&gt;A simple google search will correct the many falsehoods in your question. Homosexuality is NOT a major factor in HIV-infact the largest number of infections happen in heterosexual populations. My film DOES NOT show Islam as a backward religion because the people in the film are true believers who love their Islam. And as far as condemning homosexuality as a Muslim goes Athar, I agree that most Muslims think it is wrong. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071642" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:35&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071642"&gt;Tina: Fundraising is a huge challenge and young filmmakers like me struggle a lot. I hope things become easier with the huge success of this, my first film. But independent filmmaking is tough. It took us years to get the big broadcasters on board even though the subject matter for them was "sexy". A record number of foundations also funded this film. And we were extremely lucky to get distribution in theaters in the US and Canada atleast &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071604" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:33&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Tina ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071604"&gt;Hi Parvez, does money ever become a constraint for a young filmmaker like you ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071596" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:33&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071596"&gt;Manisha: I lived through eight years of George Bush when the values of democracy and free speech were a mirage! So America was not the greatest place to be in. Its only now, after Obama that it feels a little bit (and not always) like the promised land again! I even took on Obamas middle name as my Facebook name when he won (and I was not alone). Lets see what he does with Muslim issues. With immigration. With healthcare and yes "gay marriage" &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071594" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:33&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Michelle ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071594"&gt;Any part you wish you had shot differently ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071560" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:31&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071560"&gt;Sure Saurabh: I did feel like running for cover because I was always filming undercover anyway! Whenever I was in tricky situations I was able to bribe the police and found that the bribe system works as well in Cairo as it does in your local police station in Gurgaon! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071540" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:30&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071540"&gt;Hey Yashika&lt;br /&gt;The film has been playing around the world. You can see it on NDTV now and it is also on DVD which you can buy when you click on &lt;a href="http://www.ajihadforlove.com/" target="_blank"&gt;www.ajihadforlove.com&lt;/a&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071521" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:29&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071521"&gt;Vijay:&lt;br /&gt;I agree that calling homosexuality "unnatural" in 2009 makes no sense! However we have to understand that for the majority of people all over the world, cultural and/or religion dictate the heterosexual norm. I am able to understand the other side (and it took me a long time to get there). It is also interesting as I said earlier that Hindu and Muslim "leaders" in India can agree on little, but definitely seem to agree on the sin of homosexualty! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071520" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:29&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Saurabh ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071520"&gt;Hi Parvez, did you while filming at any point in time feel the desperate urge to leave your camera behind and run for cover !! Just a fun question !! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071515" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:28&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Yashika ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071515"&gt;Hey! When does the movie release and where? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071479" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:26&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071479"&gt;Hey Saurabh&lt;br /&gt;The reaction in the West has been amazing! This film has now been seen in 49 countries by more than 4 million people at last count (and I dont have the NDTV numbers yet). I think for Western audiences the film has also been a primer on Islam, almost like an Islam 101 &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071439" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:24&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Saurabh ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071439"&gt;How has the western world reacted to your film ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071434" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:23&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071434"&gt;Lokesh: All three monothesims condemn homosexuality and let us not forget that even in America there are large sections of the country that are deeply moralistic, conservative and Christian-and disapprove of homosexuality in ways that mirror Islamic disapproval. I think the problem lies in a nation like Egypt, where a supposedly "secular" but dictatorial regime carried out a pogrom against gay men and whenever the state starts policing peoples bedrooms we have problems &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071396" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:21&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071396"&gt;Hey Muneera:&lt;br /&gt;Its about time a prehistoric law like 377 was sent to the dustbin of history! Its the worst thing the British left in India,Pakistan, Bangladesh. It is outdated and creates huge problems. I am not sure how this will play out at a governmental level and I am very interested in seeing how the ruling by the Delhi High Court will be seen in Pakistan and Bangladesh especially. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071386" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:20&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Lokesh ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071386"&gt;Parvez, if the world’s most popular religion denounces homosexuality, what sets this brand of anti-gay sentiment apart from others? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071382" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:19&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071382"&gt;Hi Carla: Yes racism and Islamophobia are a way of life in the West, post September 11. Interestingly in Muslim communities/countries I was invisible because I looked like everybody else but it was always coming back to the US when the visas in my passport lead to fun times at the airport! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071363" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:17&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071363"&gt;Hey Roshan: For me the gay Imam in South Africa with the three children was the most intelectually engaging. However the two women you see in Egypt were the most compelling (Maryam and Maha) because their struggle was just so impossible-Maryam infact said repeatedly that in order to feel that she was a good Muslim she felt she needed to be punished. That was tragic and also at the very heart of the film. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071344" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:15&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071344"&gt;Dear Mr Coorg:&lt;br /&gt;I am actually a great defender of Islam! Have you seen my film or read any of my interviews easily available on the web? Infact I think it would be very wrong to compare me to the people you mention. Please see and absorb "A Jihad for Love" and I promise you that your conclusion will be different. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071320" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:14&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Mishi Raina ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071320"&gt;Your film fails to address the issue of how has homophobia evolved in the Muslim world? Could you elaborate? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071309" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:13&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071309"&gt;Hey Rahul: Most filmmakers will look at their work in critical ways and I am no exception ;-) If I was to do the film again I would have done the parts in Iran completely differently and perhaps I would also have let some of my current pessimism shine through a bit more. Because now, after a year of traveling I do not think that there can be a Quranic or theological "solution" to the "problem" of homosexuality (please do note the quotes) that is acceptable to one billion plus Muslims. I also do not think that any religion is going to be "comfortable" with homosexuality in any of our lifetimes. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071276" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:11&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From mr.coorg ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071276"&gt;Those who write against Islam will always become famous! tatz what history tells us! example: salman rushdie, naipul, tasleema and there will be no doubt next in the number will be U, can u please comment on this? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071267" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:11&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Roshan ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071267"&gt;Who was the film's most compelling subject ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071260" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:10&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071260"&gt;Tanmay: I do not feel there is a sense of Muslim brotherhood at all! Islam is way too diverse and for most of the time Muslims cannot agree on most things. I certainly feel no brotherhood with Bin Laden or Kassab. And I think this lack of unity worldwide has created tremendous problems-but the complexity of what is the worlds fastest growing religion (Islam) makes it pretty impossible for there to be any kind of unity &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071212" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:07&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071212"&gt;Shailija: I have traveled very widely around the world with this film, in more countries than I can even remember and yes that travel and exposure to diverse cultures (and also the diversity of Islam) has lead me to believe that one persons terrorist can be another persons freedom fighter. It may not be very kosher to say this in India, but Kashmir is a perfect example where people across the border look at the same situation in completely different ways. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071164" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:04&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071164"&gt;Noopur: In some ways it took a lifetime, of trying and understanding parts of my faith and parts of my mixed heritage and my own sexuality. And in reality I started filming in 2002 right after September 11. I dont live in India anymore, but I do feel it is easier to be gay in India today. I came out at a young age when I was in India, but at that time not many people were able to do so. However strong cultural and religious barriers remain. And isnt it interesting to see right wing Hindus and Muslims speak in the same voice to condemn the Section 377 ruling? I always say-nothing unites Hindus, Muslims and Jews more than their fear of homosexuality! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071116" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:01&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071116"&gt;Imran: Nothing has given me greater pleasure than seeing Western audiences go up to the box office here in the US for example (the film was released in theaters across the country) and say "Can I have two tickets for Jihad please?". This is why I chose the title. To take the discussion of Islam away from just violence. To reclaim some of the true meanings of words that we have been taught to forget and that includes Jihad which really means an inner struggle (Nafs) to be a better Muslim. And to put Jihad and Love right next to each other is a powerful statement for a powerful film. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071080" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname altcaster_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;12:59&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext altcaster_text altcaster_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;img src="http://media.coveritlive.com/media/avitars/phpwWE8L9parvez.JPG" style="margin-right: 5px;" align="left" border="0" height="48" width="48" /&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;td&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Parvez Sharma&lt;/strong&gt;:  &lt;span id="txt33071080"&gt;Salam alaikum Yassir- I have read the Holy Quran very well and do consider myself a good Muslim. Let me ask you this-where in the Quran does Allah swt ask us to judge the faith of other Muslims? Is he not the one who will decide finally? Lets respect the basic tenets of our religion and believe me when you see the film, the respect for Islam is what you see. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33071043" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;12:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Naman ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33071043"&gt;If Islam is okay with polygamy, why not homosexuality? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33070587" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;12:32&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Yasir ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33070587"&gt;I want to ask, just one thing. Have you read the Quran or are you a Muslim just by name? You need to follow Quran and Islam to be called a Muslim. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33070569" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;12:31&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Imran ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33070569"&gt;I want to ask you the sole meaning of keeping this name &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33070261" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;12:11&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Noopur ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33070261"&gt;Parvez how long did it take you to make the film? Do you feel it's easier to be gay in India today as compared to say 7-8 yrs ago? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33062936" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:18&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Surekha ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33062936"&gt;Parvez, even while exploring the religous and cultural differences of the gay community across Islamic countries, how did you manage to retain the commonality in all of them: that of Jihad? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33062283" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:10&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Carla ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33062283"&gt;Have you ever been a victim of racism, manifested mostly in just getting around with your muslim names in western nations ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33062278" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:10&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Shailja ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33062278"&gt;One person’s terrorist is another persons freedom fighter- do you believe that's true ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33062271" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:10&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Tanmay ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33062271"&gt;Parvez, do you believe there still exists a sense of Muslim brotherhood around the world ? Any instance that makes you believe that ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33061810" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:04&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Akshit ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33061810"&gt;Parvez, through this film, could you reclaim the Islamic concept of a greater Jihad? What is Jihad, please explain. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33061802" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:04&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Muneera ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33061802"&gt;Your film comes at a time when Section 377 of the Indian penal code has been successfully challenged. Do you believe acceptance of the film will now come by more easily ? also what's your view on the judgement &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33061789" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:04&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Rahul ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33061789"&gt;Parvez, do you disagree with any part of your film and feel you could have executed it better ? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33058850" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;08:32&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Suhail Ahmed ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33058850"&gt;Kudos to Parvez to highlighted this thorny issue of homosxuality. Its natural desire one cannot deny it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33010664" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;18:52&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From rahul ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33010664"&gt;the film is great. But what's the future? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33000235" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;11:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Nadeem ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33000235"&gt;Almost of third of countries worldwide still criminalises same sex relationships and seven carry the death penalty for the offence. Parvez, what in your opinion will ensure a change in mindset? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33000229" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;11:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Sunaina]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33000229"&gt;Your film is an intelligent and honest appraisal of Islam as a multi-denominational religious experience. Share with us your most memorable thoughts or discoveries while shooting the fim? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33000222" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;11:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Miraj Qureshi ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33000222"&gt;Parvez, we Muslims are members of the world's fastest growing religion, indeed the second largest. We are all waging several jihads within ourselves. Does the Jihad still continue for you? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row33000221" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;11:56&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Manisha ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt33000221"&gt;Values of tolerance, of democracy, of free speech-- is that why you chose America? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row32999308" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;11:07&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From vijay ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt32999308"&gt;I am not sure about what the scriptures say, but both muslims and hindu fundamentalists are against homosexuals, much like Hitler was. We dont know yet if homosexual traits are conditioned or are genetic. Whatever the case may be, calling it un-natural is foolishness. If humans really blv in natural living then we should stop wearing clothes, using technology, cooking food, etc. since all this is un-natural too. What's your take? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row32928567" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;09:49&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Athar ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt32928567"&gt;Well homosexuality is not illegal but prohibited not only in Islam but other major religions like Christianity, hinduism, etc. It is a major factor in rising cases ofHIV/AIDS. So don't know why we are promoting such an evil and that too by using Islam as a scapegoat and displaying it as a backward religion which has not upgraded but in fact it is a way of life decided by the creator (who knows much more than we do) and when HE commands us not to indulge then why do we question it when there are so many scientific proof out there. Parvez why are you trying to show that muslims will have to accept homo stuff, if we want to coexist? What is your take Parvez? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div id="row32859728" class="chatmsg"&gt;&lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;16:19&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From McLovin ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt32859728"&gt;Hi I was wondering how the Muslim community reacts to the fact that you are gay and a Muslim? Considering the fact that homosexuality is illegal in Islam. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;table&gt;&lt;tbody&gt;&lt;tr valign="top"&gt;&lt;td class="chatmsgname viewer_text" nowrap="nowrap"&gt;&lt;div style="width: 45px;"&gt;13:14&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/td&gt;&lt;td class="guestmsgtext viewer_text viewer_text_size" style="background: rgb(255, 255, 255) none repeat scroll 0% 0%; -moz-background-clip: -moz-initial; -moz-background-origin: -moz-initial; -moz-background-inline-policy: -moz-initial;"&gt;[Comment From Deepak ]&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span id="txt32856838"&gt;Parvez does this reflect your own thought with actors playing it out or are they projecting their own struggles? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/td&gt;&lt;/tr&gt;&lt;/tbody&gt;&lt;/table&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8334794124945889031?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8334794124945889031/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8334794124945889031&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8334794124945889031'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8334794124945889031'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/08/my-live-chat-on-ndtv.html' title='My Live Chat on NDTV'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7162440297786851364</id><published>2009-08-07T13:35:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-07T13:39:17.949-04:00</updated><title type='text'>GET JIHAD AND ROCK YOUR CAMPUS!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thousands of students across the United States have participated in fierce and urgent discussions and engaged in an amazing learning process with "A Jihad for Love" accompanied by filmmaker Parvez Sharma. These lecture/town hall screenings take students and faculty into a surprising world of an Islam that is poetic and erotic and sensual and dogmatic at the same time.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;In his inimitable style Parvez takes the audiences through a riveting journey at breakneck speeds through 14 centuries of Islamic history!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.kepplerspeakers.com/speakers.aspx?name=Parvez+Sharma"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;CLICK HERE AND BOOK THE FILM NOW FOR FALL 2009&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7162440297786851364?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7162440297786851364/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7162440297786851364&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7162440297786851364'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7162440297786851364'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/08/get-jihad-and-rock-your-campus.html' title='GET JIHAD AND ROCK YOUR CAMPUS!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8914251908522899172</id><published>2009-08-05T10:47:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-05T10:50:59.850-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Jihad in India, UAE, Africa, Middle East, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh and more!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Hello everyone&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;NDTV 24x7 is doing a great job promoting the second broadcasts of "A Jihad for Love" this coming weekend.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Check it out-visit the site-chat live with me at 1 pm India time on Sunday and much, much more.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Spread the word. This is the first chance that people in many countries will have a chance to see the film and react. For me personally this is very significant as India is my home country and I also know that enormous numbers of Muslims will now be able to watch the film easily. Click on this link below and even see Part 1 in the region (only available for a limited time)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new;" href="http://www.ndtv.com/convergence/ndtv/new/Ndtv-Show-Special.aspx?ID=257"&gt;A Jihad for Love : Being Gay and Muslim ONLY ON NDTV!&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8914251908522899172?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8914251908522899172/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8914251908522899172&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8914251908522899172'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8914251908522899172'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/08/jihad-in-india-uae-africa-middle-east.html' title='Jihad in India, UAE, Africa, Middle East, Sri Lanka, Bangladesh and more!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3161587964186717996</id><published>2009-08-01T08:20:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2009-08-02T17:37:06.206-04:00</updated><title type='text'>STILL ALIVE AS MY FILM DOESN'T ATTACK ISLAM</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;That, my friends, is the screaming headline on the front page of the Bombay newspaper Midday today. I must clarify that there are several misquotes, which is a fact of life I should be getting used to, having spoken to media all around the world. For example, I did not say "Fatwa-fine" but I said "fatwa-free." I did not speak about family at all. The quote, "Leaving it means leaving your food, music," is a simplification of a more complex quote in which I said leaving Islam is like leaving your family, your community, your culture and even seemingly small things like what you eat, the kind of music you listen to, how you view the world, etc.  And there are several more. However, I must also give credit to the journalist who did spend a considerable amount of time with me on the phone, though she did not manage to get all of my quotes just right.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;Here it is; the abusive comments are already on there. Decide for yourselves.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.mid-day.com/whatson/2009/aug/010809-Muslims-Parvez-Sharma-photographs-Jihad-Muslims.htm"&gt;MIDDAY article and interview on the Indian broadcast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;Here are just two of the recent comments:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div  style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" class="discusstopic1" align="left"&gt;       &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;You r an Ignorant and Abnormal person       &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;              &lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;        Dear Parvez &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;NO harsh words but an advice: DONT MESS WITH THE NATURE OR NATURE WILL MESS WITH YOU &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;Have u ever seen a lion mating a donkey? a snake mating a rat????? then why on Earth are you bent on making this obscene act as worthy and ok to carry on???? Go and make the movie but why are u using a religion in between???? May Allah Guide you and Show you the Right Path and give you strength and wisdom to accept and follow the Right Path. amen. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" &gt;and then this, a more positive one.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;       &lt;div  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" class="discusstopic1" align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;       WELL DONE       &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;              &lt;div  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" class="discusstext1" align="left"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; I THINK BIGGEST PROBLEM WITH US IS THAT WE ALL ARE HYPOCRATS.WE DON'T WANT TO FACE THE REAL WORLD.WHATEVER PARVEZ IS SHOWING IT EXIST IN THE SOCIETY AND WE SHOULD APPRECIATE HIS EFFORTS. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;       &lt;div style="float: right; padding-right: 20px;" class="repot"&gt;&lt;a href="javascript:displayBlock('login_39000',1);"&gt;Reply&lt;/a&gt; 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I was humbled to learn the extent of the worldwide impact of this film from delegates from countries we had not been able to easily reach.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;And now-that impact is going to increase a thousand fold when beginning tomorrow you can watch "A Jihad for Love" on one of the most watched networks in Indian Television.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;NDTV 24X7 which has a very large footprint across the Indian sub-continent and the Middle East will be broadcasting "A Jihad for Love" on the following dates and times (Indian time/calculate accordingly for your own region if you get this television channel in your own country). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;This is historic and important in a time when Section 377 of the Indian penal code has been successfully challenged and this will increase the number of viewers and nations this film has been seen in, significantly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Here are the times (all times are Indian Standard Time)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Part 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Aug 1, 2009: 3 - 4 pm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Aug 2, 2009: 1 - 2 pm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Part 2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Aug 8, 2009: 3 - 4 pm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Aug 9, 2009: 1 - 2 pm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;NDTV 24X7 can be seen in India, Bangladesh, Nepal, Sri Lanka, Maldives, UAE (including Sharjah, Dubai and Abu-Dhabi), South Africa, Singapore, Mauritius, Japan, Taiwan, Korea and on many platforms in Australia, New Zealand, Europe, the UK and Canada. Check your local TV/cable listings for your individual countries and times.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Please tune in, in your own countries and spread the word widely. This is a huge opportunity for millions across the world and in many countries we have not been able to reach before, to view the film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div  style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1741628996759562830?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1741628996759562830/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1741628996759562830&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1741628996759562830'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1741628996759562830'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/07/watch-jihad-for-love-on-indian.html' title='Watch &quot;A Jihad for Love&quot; on Indian Television and across Asia, Africa, Middle East!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4789231490073144770</id><published>2009-06-21T12:50:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-21T13:13:01.560-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Iran</title><content type='html'>For the last few days I have been reporting from various sources on the situation inside Tehran.&lt;br /&gt;Some of these reports can be found at the following links.&lt;br /&gt;I even ventured into enemy territory (Fox News) yesterday to try and highlight the stories of these amazing people without punditry. Not being Iranian, I was extremely reluctant to go but also realized that all I really needed to do was report back what I knew.&lt;br /&gt;We need to tell the news broadcasters to stop being arrogant about the unfiltered reports from the streets, which I prefer any day to pontificating stand-ups from reporters.&lt;br /&gt;I urge everyone to also exercise extreme caution in what you post about the situation. Remember that all of us have friends there. Remember that it is very hard for them to send us information. And remember that lives are at risk here&lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-06-20/eyewitness-account-my-brother-was-beaten/?cid=bsa:moreauthor1"&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;"Eyewitness Account: My Brother was Beaten" Daily Beast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-06-18/memo-from-the-streets-of-tehran/?cid=bsa:moreauthor3"&gt;Memo from the Streets of Tehran: Arash Aryan, Part 1, Daily Beast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-06-19/memo-from-the-streets-of-tehran-part-ii/?cid=bsa:moreauthor3"&gt;Memo from the Streets of Tehran: Part 2, Daily Beast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.thedailybeast.com/blogs-and-stories/2009-06-20/memo-from-the-streets-of-tehran-part-iii/?cid=bsa:moreauthor1"&gt;Memo from the Streets of Iran: Part 3, Daily Beast&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the Huffington Post you will find reportage and some opinion (based on real conversations and not punditry) at the following links.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/there-will-be-blood----ex_b_217903.html"&gt;There will be Blood: Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/a-report-from-tehran-this_b_216339.html"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A Report from Inside as Tehran Twitters: Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/the-basij-will-face-retri_b_218311.html"&gt;The Basij will face retribution: Exiled by regime Mohsen Kadivar gives his own sermon: Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/tehelka-in-tehran_b_215581.html"&gt;Tehelka in Tehran: Huffington Post&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If I am not responding to your many emails on facebook, on my personal email and here-it is beacuse I am likely talking to someone there or tracking reliable information to put out there. Reliable is the key word. This is not the time for hysteria or factionalism.&lt;br /&gt;I have not been a reporter for some nine years, but circumstances, dear friends and the messages I could no longer ignore-have made me one in some way, for the time being.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally I leave you with the Surah Fatiha, the first Surah in the Quran, the translation of which may give you some insight on how those fighting the custodians of religion in Tehran are not without faith themselves. Their Allahuakbars (God is Great!) resound louder from the roooftops of Tehran every night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" lang="ar"&gt;بِسْمِ اللّهِ الرَّحْمـَنِ الرَّحِيم&lt;br /&gt;الْحَمْدُ للّهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِين&lt;br /&gt;الرَّحْمـنِ الرَّحِيم&lt;br /&gt;مَـالِكِ يَوْمِ الدِّين&lt;br /&gt;إِيَّاك نَعْبُدُ وإِيَّاكَ نَسْتَعِين&lt;br /&gt;اهدِنَــــا الصِّرَاطَ المُستَقِيمَ&lt;br /&gt;صِرَاطَ الَّذِينَ أَنعَمتَ عَلَيهِمْ غَيرِ المَغضُوبِ عَلَيهِمْ وَلاَ الضَّالِّين&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4789231490073144770?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4789231490073144770/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4789231490073144770&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4789231490073144770'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4789231490073144770'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/06/iran.html' title='Iran'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7528998139330307888</id><published>2009-06-17T14:12:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-06-17T14:13:50.782-04:00</updated><title type='text'>New on Huffington Post: A Report from inside as Tehran twitters</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="entry_body_text"&gt;      &lt;p&gt;Suddenly there is no dearth of Iranian punditry on cable television, with "academics" and "Iran experts" languishing in the dank closets of academia, brought out to air on every US network. Unfortunately none of us can easily watch BBC World or Al-Jazeera here, to even begin to fathom another perspective.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;The results within the limited-attention-span-and-mind-numbing-stupidity of cable news have been mostly laughable. It is admirable that pretty-boy "journalists" like Anderson Cooper can at least start to pronounce Azadi Square right, though the shrill reportage of CNN's Pakistan correspondent Reza Sayah who has a distinct American accent remains humorous. Just yesterday he invoked his knowledge of Tehran geography repeatedly with his Vali Asr sounding like "Wall Ass".&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Ridiculous debates with neo-con Iran "experts" continue and will probably only rise in crescendo in the next hours and days. I almost wish that those in Tehran could watch the spectacle of US "media" falling all over themselves trying to report from behind the Chador, while exclaiming the virtues of Twitter (though those virtues do need to be acknowledged in this case). If for nothing else, the profound discovery they (the US media) have now made of the net-savvy Iranian citizens (better at beating every firewall known to man than most) is a cause for celebration.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;One Iranian friend I managed to get on the phone had an interesting theory about why the Guardian Council would rather hang Ahmadinejad (now conveniently traipsing in Russia) out to dry than see any erosion in their (now uncertain) stranglehold of the country. She also pointed out that it was fascinating to see a loyal servant of the revolution (and certainly not a reformist in his recent past life) Mousavi turn into the "great green hope" for reform. While there is blood on the streets and an amazing energy as well, from my brief conversations with Tehran, there seems to be a surplus of cynicism too, at least from those who are living it, unlike many of us, including me, sitting here and pontificating. (and Iranian punditry, I do not claim-but getting blogs out from people there, is a critical concern for me).&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;However, what happens today with the Assembly of Experts meeting is going to be fascinating. Maybe the abiding principle of the revolution -- the "Valiyat e Faqih" (the guardianship of the "jurists"/the rule of the clerics) is finally under enough threat to warrant such a meeting.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;There are also widespread rumours on the street that Basij-like Arabic speakers are on the street wielding truncheons. If this is true-it is disturbing and alarming because then the regime has flown them in by the planeloads as it had done before, during student unrests in the nineties.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Another friend pointed out that she was not optimistic that this 1388 would bring a revolution -- and her only hope was that all those lovely people in Sabz (green) would be the precursor for a larger movement that will build over the next four Ahmadinejad filled years and finally unseat the Mullahs.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;As I promised, here is a blog report filed in the middle of the night by a dear friend in Tehran.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Negin is a blogger and a filmmaker who works part time with state television -- and as you can see she writes with irony and despair. Negin's tongue usually is firmly in her cheek. English is not Negin's first language and I have decided to reproduce this just as she wrote it.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;blockquote&gt;My mobile phone kept on ringing all day long and I missed most of them because of bad connection. When I arrived home I had more than 20 messages on my answering machine. Friends from all over the world are trying to reach us to get the news and be sure of our safety. The connection is cut or that bad that we have to guess our conversations. But among the entire phone calls one was very clear and that was my mother who was asking for some computer assistance; she has recently joined the facebook and cannot stand the fact that her favorite site is filtered. &lt;p&gt;She seems to be that excited that has stopped complaining my father for following the news day and night. They both are either outside in the middle of the city or have glued to the television to follow their missing news.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Until a few days ago most of the people believed that this is just the voice of suppressed students and youngsters but now we don't believe our eyes. "No fear, no fear...we are together." This is what we all heard today from millions of people from different generation in Tehran. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;When our coordinator from State television studio called me this afternoon to confirm the appointments for the next week, he asked me about the background noise. We hardly could hear each other. He has the image of a typical secret agent to me. He never takes part in any discussion at work. "I got stuck in traffic and a big crowd." This is how I replied. "I got stuck in the same thing last night and went back to the state TV and stayed over the night in my office!" I heard something different in his tone of voice. I guess he wanted to share something but hesitated. "God bless you wherever you are." He said this before hanging up.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;The number of people participated in the demonstration surprised everyone but what has fascinated me is the variety of people in their outfit and social status.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;At the beginning I thought this is going to be the fight between lower class and middle class but what I saw today changed my biased opinion. I saw many old and young women wearing black chador and covered from head to toe shouting and chanting among the demonstrators and joining the young girls in the front line whom were sitting on the ground in the middle of the street to stop Bassij militia walking inside the crowd. I'm happy to say that that image will never wipe away from my mind. Those women with loose colorful scarves had opened their arms ready to be killed in the front line while the others were beaten up at the other side of the street. I didn't need a tear gas; my tears were rolling down already.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;People want to be heard and supported by the rest of the world. They were sending messages to the west in front of the western cameras. Appointing to Obama and Sarkozy they were demanding the free west to not to recognize this government. I saw a few women shouting: "Now it's your turn to support the democracy and human rights." &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;"The fear is gone; nothing seems to be an obstacle anymore, they can filter all the websites and shutdown the internet, sms service or mobile but they cannot shut our mouth." This is what I hear all the time. &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;Late at night everyone wants to share his/her experience with others. Telephones are none stop ringing. Sara my girl friend called me half an hour ago; she had heard the gun fire near her house and had seen many people in blood. Although she was panicked and need to talk to someone, she hanged up the phone to go to the roof to shout, and within a few minutes I heard my neighbors shouting Allaho Akbar (God is great) from their balconies.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;I remember how sometimes irritated I was by hearing the loud prayer call which starts by the same phrase: Allaho Akbar and now this phrase is turned to be the most beautiful one.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p&gt;After a while I called back my mother to help her out with her computer problem. She didn't answer the phone, perhaps she is on the roof too.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;  &lt;p&gt;I have just introduced Negin to a major US newspaper who were looking for voices out of Tehran -- and hopefully you will see her blog reports on there soon. (watch this space).&lt;/p&gt;            &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7528998139330307888?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7528998139330307888/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7528998139330307888&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7528998139330307888'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7528998139330307888'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/06/new-on-huffington-post-report-from.html' title='New on Huffington Post: A Report from inside as Tehran twitters'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5164120856277989618</id><published>2009-05-20T12:10:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-05-20T12:12:27.771-04:00</updated><title type='text'>India Shining? Not Quite.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Please go &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/india-shining-not-quite_b_204928.html"&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt; to the Huffington Post and post comments on a very different perspective on the Indian elections. It is better if comments are posted on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/india-shining-not-quite_b_204928.html"&gt;the Huffington Post page&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt; to generate a discussion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5164120856277989618?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5164120856277989618/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5164120856277989618&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5164120856277989618'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5164120856277989618'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/05/india-shining-not-quite.html' title='India Shining? Not Quite.'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4996341981949015215</id><published>2009-04-22T08:41:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-22T08:41:49.700-04:00</updated><title type='text'>There are no direct flights from Tel Aviv to Tehran</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The Facebook Universe is remarkable. After my recent post "Poor, Israel? Sure, and I am Barack Obama" I got a flurry of immediate responses. I had blogged hastily, still shaking with anger at the events that unfolded yesterday on a panel organized by UN Watch, an organization with a very particular worldview, as I now know. I blogged pretty much on the run and realized that in an instant world, people do react instantly. One gentleman took it upon himself to berate me repeatedly in comments that came fast and came furious.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;He said: "I was responding entirely to what you wrote in your HuffPost piece: ‘an erudite Canadian professor. . . threw around a baffling and hard-to-explain term: “genocidal anti-Semitism.” Only he knows what he means, I certainly do not!’ As far as I can figure, there are only two ways to interpret this statement: either (1) you're casting doubt on the existence of genocidal anti-Semitism as a phenomenon; or (2) your vocabulary is so challenged that you literally don't understand the meaning of the words."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;He then proceeded soon after to "un-friend" me making a ceremonious announcement on my "wall" and this of course lead to other messages from "friends" who either agreed with me or with him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;Shattered (!) by the un-friending I have now composed myself enough to offer the following.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I do understand "genocidal anti-Semitism" rather well, at least as it applies to the horrors of the Second World War. As someone said to me once, "Parvez, but all your best friends are Jewish!" This still remains true. On the misguided panel at the UN, sitting next to me was a Rwandan woman, survivor of a rather recent genocide, which receives close to no attention compared to the annual commemorations of the Shoah. Next to her sat a man from Darfur, where the genocide that is now fashionable for Hollywood stars to opine on, continues. Both the Rwandan and the Darfur-ian got time to speak in their accented English and there were collective sighs from the assembled, majority White audience when they mentioned the recent massacres of their entire families. When it was the turn of the moderator to introduce a Canadian professor I felt a complete shift in rhetoric as he chose to preface his introduction with the presence of the President of Iran in the same building. What followed was the Professor’s written argument against the Iranian state and the conflation of the Shoah with the massacres in Rwanda and Sudan. The Professor was not interested in discussing the continuing racism and apartheid of the Israeli nation. He extolled the virtues of a shared history of genocide with the unsuspecting Africans. He went on to share his horror and disgust at Iran’s parading of its missiles and the possibility of its nuclear program. The coming Islamic bomb and its ability to add to the insecurity and neuroses of the Israeli state were cause for immense fear in his argument. What finally did it for me was to use the horrific history of the genocidal anti-Semitism of the second world war as a contemporary argument to denounce Ahmadinejad, who has been more bluster than action and has certainly not yet engaged in any kind of Hitlerian pogrom to annihilate millions of Jews.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I was angry at how the Rwandan and the Darfur-ian were paraded in front of this group, only to have their real loss confronted with the polemics of an obviously well-paid, comfortable, white professor living clearly in the so called “free world”. Later this very shy Rwandan woman thanked me quietly for being ”honest” as she put it. I still wonder if she fully understood the flawed logic of that particular panel and how I atleast perceived her as being “used” to present reductive anti-Iran arguments.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;As the room nodded sagely and mostly in agreement, my turn to speak arrived. I was horrified by his reductive logic and the hysterical fear-mongering that the Israeli state does and most of its Western allies buy into. Most horrific was the idea of a second holocaust, of a second wave of genocidal anti-Semitism wrought forth by the evil and dictatorial Ahmadinejad who had dared to enter the UN.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I was there to speak as a gay Muslim, my current raison d’être, supposedly. The panelists had surely assumed that I would be the perfect candidate to trot out to launch into anti-Iran and also anti-Muslim rhetoric. I knew I could not. In the last year I have often disagreed publicly with some of the content of my own film and certainly felt I would have executed its Iranian content differently if I knew then what I know now. I have treaded a fine line, continuing to defend my religion and somehow successfully criticize it for its alleged persecution of homosexuals. I have insisted that the film cannot be shown in what I view as the Israeli apartheid state and even resisted the possibilities of filming with Palestinian-Israeli gay couples, knowing that to enter that contested land and its politics would merit a separate film. The recent massacre in Gaza and falsehoods of the Israeli state during the bombardment--the loss of more than a thousand lives; the use of white phosphorous on civilians who live in abject poverty, surrounded and hemmed into a tiny piece of land; the very fact that Gaza is nothing but a large and fetid concentration camp created by the Israeli state--these were the issues that came to mind. I could not sit there and attack Islam or Iran. I had to speak out and I did so, briefly also pointing out to the Professor that in his harangue on the missile power of the Iranians and the impending doom of the Islamic bomb, he had conveniently, amongst other things, forgotten to mention the “undeclared” nuclear arsenal that Israel possesses and the infinitely more sophisticated weapons it uses on the Palestinians from its own tiny nation, which has all the trappings of the West, including nice homes, smooth-as-silk roads and constant water and electricity. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I have never been to Israel with the principled notion of not going and submitting to its checkpoints to go and look vicariously at a trapped and stateless people, beaten into submission by the state itself and their own supposed Arab allies that have done nothing for them. But now I would need to speak briefly and get out. The claustrophobia of the room was enormous and I would see later throughout the building not an Israel hate-fest, as surely the US media would portray it back home, but quite the opposite. The ability of the well-funded Zionist lobbies to function as well oiled machines in portraying an Iranian president with limited powers as almost the next anti-Christ and certainly a Hitler, reborn.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;Three other non-white people in the audience clapped when I spoke. As I ran from the room after the panel, they met me outside. Two were Palestinian and thanked me for speaking up for them. I reminded them that I was an Indian and had never been to their land. They said it did not matter and called me “brother,” in the comfortable (for all of us) assumption that there still existed some sense of Muslim brotherhood. As we walked past some young, white protesters holding signs against both racism and Iran—I still fail to see the connection—a young Egyptian activist said simply to me: “One person’s terrorist is another persons freedom fighter.“ That is a powerful statement that does lack a certain nuance of complexity. However coming from India, where similar logic could be applied to Kashmir depending on what side you are on or even coming from a family that had been split apart by the blood of partition that followed the freedom movement from the British colonizers, I understood the truth of that statement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The farce that was this Geneva round became clear to me as soon as I stepped into the haloed confines of the UN. As the much reviled, almost made-to-be Hitlerian Mr. A. was a few minutes into his speech, the all-Caucasian EU delegations (23 members, we are told) walked out ceremoniously only a few moments after the “humble” (his own term) former mayor of Tehran was pelted with red clown noses, also by Caucasian protestors. But as they made their displeasure known, delegates from African and Asian nations applauded. I wonder if a discussion of race, in terms of skin color, and indeed, the institutionalized racism in many European nations, is even noticed by the White gentleman’s club that usually represents European nations at the UN. Where, indeed, were the voices from within Israel who oppose the disturbingly rightwing, bellicose government that has been chosen to speak for the entire Israeli nation?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The schism between the West and the Rest on Israel and its racism or its institutionalized apartheid of the stateless Palestinians cannot be more obvious. As Mr. Ahmadenijad walked into his press conference, again a motley crew of twenty-something, entirely White protestors hissed at him with quickly printed signs and hissed, stressing their sibilants: “Racccissst.” A British Pakistani man and I were the only two who questioned them on whether they actually had any experience of racism, manifest most simply for both of us in just getting around with our brown skins or Muslim names in most Western nations. These well-dressed kids surely had not experienced racism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The vilification of the Iranian state is complete. I am no supporter of the “humble” former mayor of Tehran. If anything my work has been harsh in its criticism of the Guardian council-run Islamic state. However, as I chatted to two Iranian delegates just outside of the press conference, I felt briefly that they were actually the underdogs. Dressed in tie-less suits (since that “Western” appendage is so reviled by the Shia intelligentsia) they agreed when I said that their PR was the worst. I even dared in a brief moment of courage to propose that having an easily caricatured provocateur as President could not help the case. The latter case was met with cautious looks. The former was agreed. As we stood there, two young girls carrying the Israeli flag hissed at me and spat in our general direction and said they were going to the anti-Iran protest.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;“You mean the commemoration of the Shoah?” I said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;“Yes, and you should see what has been done to our people,” they yelled.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;Bewildered, I did stop by the concert held to commemorate the Shoah. Despite the large banner over the stage, it seemed to be was a Bash-Iran concert with signs and banners aplenty and rousing invective. The Iranians were nowhere to be seen. And yes, once again, it was a sea of mostly Caucasians.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I emphasize skin color here for a reason. The way I have understood racism as it pertains to the color of my skin has always been about being a minority in a majority White nation, which now does have a Black president. At the UN there has been a successful conflation of racism with anti-Semitism, which I continue to find problematic. Many of my Jewish friends would hesitate to be identified in reductive terms that disavow the diversity of the people of the Jewish faith. And I do have an immense problem with “White” or “Caucasian” people who, while not aware of their own privilege, accuse an entire nation in which the successfully implemented post-1979 identity has been one born from the Islamic nation state, not based on the colour of one’s skin. These are complicated ideas and certainly the blogosphere and its often off-the-cuff writing style does not invite the easy articulation of complexity and nuance.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;I leave Geneva disappointed and sad. Disappointed at the amazing success and desire, evidently, of the Iranians to add value to their ever growing bad rap. Sad that, at least on my panel, the real victims of genocide, discrimination, and racism in our own time were mostly ignored--the dark-skinned African man from Darfur and woman from Rwanda. Disappointed that the mostly Caucasian room at the sham-panel I spoke at could only understand these dignified victims of painfully fresh wounds in relation to the victims of the horrors of the Shoah, now at least five generations past.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The biggest joke in all of this is the continually ineffective, gargantuan bureaucracy also known as the UN. The joke remains on them in their inability to get a single head of state to attend other than the continually reviled Ahmadinejad, a candidate in an upcoming, contentious election, who clearly speaks neither for all of the Mullahs in the Guardian Council nor the anxious youth of Iran, but is, like George Bush was for the grim period just ended, a convenient scarecrow and bogeyman for the rest of the world. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;The last and only time I was in Iran was as a young student morphing into a journalist, and that was brief. The fact that I have never been to Israel and the lands it occupies makes me now wonder if I really need to go. Perhaps, they, the Israelis need to see “A Jihad for Love.” And perhaps then I can discover the much-touted claims of this most enlightened “Middle-eastern democracy.” If they allow me to cross from their first-world, well-paved streets into the third-world rubble and chaos of Ramallah and Gaza, I should definitely want to go.  I am told that the enlightened Israelis not only tolerate but supposedly love their gays. I also know that the Iranians seemingly do the opposite. I wonder indeed if Mr. Ahmadinejad would now allow me to enter Iran, since I have made some kind of case in the defense of his nation.  I already have stated my regret at portions of “A Jihad for Love” that I would now construct very differently. Maybe, now forgiven, I could cross over into both of these forbidden lands that I have feared in the past. Maybe, just maybe, they will even soon have direct flights from Tel Aviv to Tehran! And maybe, just maybe, we will stop waiting to see who destroys whom first. The Israelis clearly have their nuclear arsenal safe and ready. The Iranians are supposedly working on theirs. The Israelis clearly still have Barack Hussein Obama’s America behind them, which reminds me: Is it time to remove the middle name I adopted willingly and proudly during that most famous American election from my Facebook profile?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4996341981949015215?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4996341981949015215/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4996341981949015215&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4996341981949015215'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4996341981949015215'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/04/there-are-no-direct-flights-from-tel.html' title='There are no direct flights from Tel Aviv to Tehran'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1305212648321465007</id><published>2009-04-20T11:50:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2009-04-20T12:05:50.107-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Poor Israel? Sure, and I am Barack Obama!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I write from Geneva, where I was invited to speak at the UN "Durban II" conference on racism and have just today been spat at by two Israelis. I found myself (unknowingly) on  what turned into a "bash Iran" panel with a problematic Zionist agenda. The expectation, perhaps, was that I, being Muslim and gay, would sit and join in the Iran-bashing choir. In doing the opposite I did not make myself the most popular person in the room.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Later, two Israeli delegates spat at me. Surprisingly, an erudite Canadian professor and member of Parliament threw around a baffling and hard-to-explain term: "genocidal anti-Semitism". Only he knows what he means, I certainly do not!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Still later as the Iranian president walked into his press conference, clueless, young (all White by the way) UN workers stood and hissed, accusing him of "racism" (a term problematically applied in this case).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Today for the first time I was witness to the extent of power the pro-Israel , anti-Iran and anti-Palestinian lobbies wield, even here in Geneva.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Cleary Ahmadinejad made provocative comments which were in poor taste. But the complete lack of discussion of Israel's continuing genocide of the Palestinian people, its use of banned weapons of mass destruction like white phosporous on Palestinian civilians, the shameful loss of Palestinian life and its skewed ratio with the loss of a few Israelis are not topics of discussion here.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A greater dispatch will follow but let me very clear: the first day of this UN conference was not an Israeli hate-fest. Quite the opposite; Israel and its many lobbies in majority Caucasian countries (and sometimes mine like India) are loud enough to drown out the rhetoric of the humble former mayor of Tehran.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1305212648321465007?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1305212648321465007/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1305212648321465007&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1305212648321465007'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1305212648321465007'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/04/poor-israel-sure-and-i-am-barack-obama.html' title='Poor Israel? Sure, and I am Barack Obama!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-644141235991772589</id><published>2009-03-04T21:48:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-03-04T21:55:54.028-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Parvez Sharma is going to die such a bad death...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'courier new';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;So I re-visit my blog, after a long time-many travels, sold out screenings in eight cities in Holland and the day after the film showed on More4 in the UK (that tiny little island that has more Muslims than it knows what to do with!) to find some new fan mail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'courier new';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;I reproduce below. Comment if you wish.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;b&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'courier new';"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"&gt;"Parvez Sharma is going to die such a bad death, one that will startle those that dared to support him. Watch out paddy! every Devout Muslim from here to Azerbaijan will be hot on your trails trying to rid you from the face of this earth, we know what you look like so I guess thats a start. If I ever see you and your homo-herd in public I'm going to beat the shit out of you all, I'm going to tie a noose around your bits collectively, tie the other end to the tow bar of my car and drive off leaving off leaving you without your pistols"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/b&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'courier new';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-family:'courier new';"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-644141235991772589?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/644141235991772589/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=644141235991772589&amp;isPopup=true' title='16 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/644141235991772589'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/644141235991772589'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/03/parvez-sharma-is-going-to-die-such-bad.html' title='Parvez Sharma is going to die such a bad death...'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>16</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-2088169911704967155</id><published>2009-01-08T21:59:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-08T22:01:16.713-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Poor Israel!</title><content type='html'>Please read in their very own newspaper-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.haaretz.com/hasen/spages/1053605.html#resp"&gt;Israel's PR war&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My thought for the day-&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="story_comment_back_quote"&gt;Gideon Lichfiled once again in Haartez says it like it is. Poor Israel cant do PR? Right... And I am Obama...My heart bleeds every minute still, for the terrified population of southern Israel-poor things. I guess they don't have rather fancy bomb shelters, homes, internet, electricity and medical facilities for the useless rockets that fall into their perfectly paved neighborhoods. The rockets that they so fastidiously collect to parade to the foreign journalists they have forbidden entry into a fetid concentration camp called Gaza.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-2088169911704967155?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/2088169911704967155/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=2088169911704967155&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2088169911704967155'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2088169911704967155'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/01/poor-israel.html' title='Poor Israel!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-2948728781514524814</id><published>2009-01-07T17:32:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-01-07T17:35:14.338-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Help us make history!</title><content type='html'>Dear friends:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We have an urgent need.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We must raise $6,766 to subtitle A Jihad for Love in Farsi, Urdu, Arabic, Hindi, and Turkish for global DVD distribution.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If even 14 people gave $500 or 27 people gave $250 or 45 people gave $150, then we would reach our goal. If we add Turkish, it is $1,458 more.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We are very proud of this groundbreaking work and have worked very hard to reach this point. A Jihad for Love has now been seen by 700,000 people in 30 nations with many lives transformed. People are convening, sometimes at great risk, private screenings in homes and organizations in Pakistan, Iran, Egypt and Bangladesh. However, the film cannot reach those in crisis who do not understand English. It is imperative that A Jihad for Love is available in the languages spoken by a majority of the world\'s 1.4 billion Muslims. There are tens of millions of Muslim gay and lesbian people, and their imams, families, and friends for whom A Jihad for Live has been and will be a lifeline. From Tehran to Istanbul, Cairo to Mumbai, Marrakech to Karachi, and Beirut to Dubai, a subtitled DVD will have impact for years to come as it is nearly impossible to screen the film on TV, in cinemas or safely in any public spaces in many countries.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Please help us make history!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Contact us immediately with ideas.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-2948728781514524814?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/2948728781514524814/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=2948728781514524814&amp;isPopup=true' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2948728781514524814'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2948728781514524814'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2009/01/help-us-make-history.html' title='Help us make history!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-135675610501905203</id><published>2008-12-27T19:17:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-27T19:21:23.715-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Parvez Sharma is not a Muslim he is an apostate.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;A new Facebook group called the above has just been started.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;This is how the group describes itself:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;This group is for anyone who believes that Parvez Sharma does not represent the beliefs of the Muslim faith or the Holy Quran, and for everyone who is aware that homosexuality does not exist in Islam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Parvez Sharma has insulted Islam and the Holy Quran. He claims to be a Muslim while he is an openly gay filmaker who directed and produced a film called A Jihad for Love which is about gays and lesbians.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Homosexuality is strictly forbidden in Islam and the Holy Quaran, ayone who is a homosexual and calls themself a Muslim is an apostate. Parvez Shamra needs to stop calling himself a Muslim because he is an apostate. Given the fact that homosexuality is a capital offense in Islam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Right now, it has only two members.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Mohamad Rasheed who is he founder of this group also has posted this on my wall-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Homosexuality does not exist in Islam, it is strictly forbidden in the Holy Quran and a capital offense in Islam. You are not a Muslim, you are an apostate."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Question of the day: What should I do?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-135675610501905203?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/135675610501905203/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=135675610501905203&amp;isPopup=true' title='8 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/135675610501905203'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/135675610501905203'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/12/parvez-sharma-is-not-muslim-he-is.html' title='Parvez Sharma is not a Muslim he is an apostate.'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>8</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-6906390591978739904</id><published>2008-12-11T06:12:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-11T06:24:55.807-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Comments on Bullets in Bollywood</title><content type='html'>&lt;span class="commenter"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/bullets-in-bollywood-no-e_b_149631.html?show_comment_id=18678232#comment_18678232" class="sm-link"&gt;&lt;/a&gt;                                   &lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18678232"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;#1&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Why is it that Muslim majority countries have such a hard time accepting democracy, pluraism and secular courts? Even somewhat moderate countries like Malaysia have a two tiered legal system with non-Muslims placed second class (Dhimmis). Saudi Arabia is an extreme example where even owning a non Islamic scripture can get you a very harsh penalty. Most others including Pakistan have versions of Sharia and hudood ordinances to include thought crimes like apostasy, blasphemy etc. all with very harsh punishments. The treatment of minorities by official law is apalling to say the least. Even non mainstream Muslims (Ahmadis) feel the heat. Women have half a vote, worth half a witness etc., all part of the law. Non-Muslims cannot hold any Government job etc. etc. Even in India, clerics managed to get a Muslim personal law. I am sure you remember the Shah Bano case where the secular court ruling for alimony was reversed by Muslim politicians. The loser was a poor Muslim woman. I feel your pain, but as many scholars have written there needs to a fundamental overhaul (reformation) much like every other religious group has done, to generate a massive majority liberal base. Only then will the influence of the Maulanas (clerics) on young minds reduce, and true democracy prosper. And these constant "Fatwas" are irritating......&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;# 2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18678201" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18678201"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;Sometimes it seems like the most amazing miracle of all is that there are any people anywhere living in peace. But there are. At any given moment, somewhere someone is serene, healthy, secure, happy. It's hard to believe but it's true.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;# 3&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18675761" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18675761"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;Parvez, You are thoughtful and meaningful as always. Not too many people can articulate their feelings and thoughts so honestly. Shukriya.&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;# 4&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18672566" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18672566"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;As an ex-Christian, ex-Catholic, permit me to observe that the inherent barbarism of many religions has turned many people off. Beyond that, their irrationalism and lack of evidence for all their gods and spiritual assertions makes rational people turn away.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Science produces verifiable knowledge, at best, religion produces unverifiable assertions, at worst, rationales for murder.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;You might want to consider separating yourself from al of this nonsense. Personally, I find the picture of the vast and apparently purposeless universe that science produces much more emotionally rewarding than religion.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And it has the virtue of producing measurable, real results and encourages rationality.&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;# 5                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;You must be kidding! The worst barbarisms have been committed by Atheists who rationalizations permit them to kill millions of innocent people. God is not responsible for the ignorance of man. You obviously are a scientific illiterate to think science is anything more than convention. Even you must realize that the "apparently purposeless Universe" is your own illusionary construct.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 6                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Heh. I'm in a similar boat as you, in point of fact. I've decided, weighing the evidence for myself, that organized religion serves no purpose, and my personal code that I've cultivated compels me to reject the worship of any god that would create a world such as the one we live in.That said, I think there's a danger of being fundamentalist even as an atheist. There are a lot of atheists who seem intent on evangelizing their view aggressively -- not you though, arvay, just to be clear -- your post demonstrates a reasonable expression of your viewpoint. I've observed a number of avowed atheists who, on closer examination, seem to be disguising prejudice and ignorance in the cloak of their self-declared "supreme rationalism."Me? I'm an atheist because of my personal experiences, but I can't, as a rational man, completely discount the notion that other people may have had genuine religious experiences that I'm not privy to. In short, if I assume that my own perception must be the extent of the defined universe, that would make me as guilty of bigotry as a Christian who despises Muslims or a Muslim who demonizes Jews.That said, while we have our fundamentalist problems (thank you, Christopher Hitchens), atheists on the whole tend to be a reasonable, peaceable lot, I think. :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 7&lt;br /&gt;I agree that atheist "fundamentalists" can be as insane as the religious kinds. The USSR actively persecuted religion and probably strengthened it. Altho I've seen programs about formerly Soviet Central Asia that show Muslim men happily sipping vodka :-)Basically, it makes sense for all of us to be tolerant and accepting of each other, even if we don't share the same views. We all inhabit the same planet and need to learn to live together peaceably&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#8                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Problems created by organized religions...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="comments-posted" style="clear: both;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18668560"&gt;&lt;p&gt; I think, I must watch Bill Maher's "Religulous."&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;#9                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Don't bother, it's crap. And I'm saying that as an atheist. If you want someone who gives a decent, rational and even-handed case against organized religion, go find something by Richard Dawkins&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 10&lt;span class="comments-posted-text"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/bullets-in-bollywood-no-e_b_149631.html#" class="sm-link cmt_reply b_pixie" onclick="return Comments.displayReplyBox(18673051,149631,1);"&gt;&lt;span style="width: 3px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;                                                                                                                                                 Anybody who opts NOT to kill animals has made an advancement.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_children_18668560" style="display: block;"&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18673051" class="main reply" style="margin-left: 50px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18673051"&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18667403" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18667403"&gt;&lt;p&gt; I met 2 good and decent people involved in the sacrifices today. One had a wounded finger. Although they are friends, part of me felt some revulsion. They may never make the same step you have. It isn't easy to perceive past what we have been taught since childhood.&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;# 11                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Very thought-provoking article, Mr. Sharma. I think what we were all horrified to see in Mumbai was the product of the extreme politicization of religion, fueled in large part by governments in the West, like "with us or against us" Bush, for example. India has long been, with a few tragic exceptions, a place where lots of different kinds of people could coexist, and where it didn't matter so much who/how you worshiped. How will India, with the second largest population of Muslims in the world, fit into this Muslim nation vs. other dilemma?I don't read your piece as pro-vegetarian, but rather as frustration with Islam's glorification of violence and submission.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 12                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;I thought "the West" and Bush were probably involved in the Mumbai attacks. Are you sure the vessels the terrorists used weren't supplied by Haliburton&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 13                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;What I meant by the West's promotion of the politicization of religion was that the vague and ultimately meaningless "War on Terror" has inevitably come to be seen as a War on Islam. I feel like this has seeped into countries with a Muslim population, where us. vs. them battles are being waged where inter-religious relations had previously been tolerable. Of course, throughout history, there have been significant and terribly bloody conflicts in India and all over the world--I'm not naive--due to religion, but this neocon good/evil, red state/blue state dichotomy has a monstrously infantalizing and regressive effect and is doing pluralistic societies no favors&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#14&lt;br /&gt;                                                                                                                                                Really, now. What kind of response is that? If you categorize a whole religion as bad or evil, you only create LESS peace. No, you do not triumph in "enlightening" people. When denigrating a religion that is that old, that is so entrenched in one's ancestral "background" , it is not greeted with kindness. Mind you, religion is not always about theology. It is often about geography, history, and one's ethnicity. Of course not always. However, even hundreds of years before us, Sir Francis Bacon found that one's religion is determined in large part to where they were born and to whom they were born. So, please, your statement is not only so flawed, it is MEANT to divide. This is an archaic practice. Do I need to point out the violence in other "acceptable", PC religions? The slaughtering of animals? I'm also a hardcore animal rights advocate, so get ready to go toe-to-toe in backing up your arguments.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 15                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;"I think what we were all horrified to see in Mumbai was the product of the extreme politicization of religion, fueled in large part by governments in the West."Then why are you contributing to the polarization by pushing this rather tunneled-vision opinion? The West is to blame that Pakistan is trying to detach Kashmir from India? Oh, really. Pakistani people and government have nothing to do with it, of course. Looking for culprits everywhere, but  in your own neighborhood, will not advance the cause of reconciliation&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#16                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;"The West is to blame that Pakistan is trying to detach Kashmir from India? Oh, really. Pakistani people and government have nothing to do with it, of course."Note the word "fueled" and phrase "in large part" in his statement. Where is he reassigning blame from Pakistan to the West exclusively or even mostly? "Large part" doesn't seem to mean "ALL" to me&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#17                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;I believe he said "fueled in LARGE PART" by the West. Note the word "fueled". This doesn't completely reassign blame. Relax.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#18                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Great article, Parvez. On my Pakistani-muslim side of the family, we are all vegetarian. I'm a vegetarian and I'm disgusted with this archaic practice. Please, those in no need to hunt anymore, people. This should be out of complete necessity only, not ritualised.&lt;div id="comment_18666356" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18666356"&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;div class="comments-posted" style="clear: both;"&gt;                     &lt;span class="comments-posted-text"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;# 19                                                  &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/bullets-in-bollywood-no-e_b_149631.html#" class="sm-link cmt_reply b_pixie" onclick="return Comments.displayReplyBox(18666356,149631,1);"&gt;&lt;span style="width: 3px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Parvez the great thing about be American is you can be Parvez Sharma, and anything and anybody you want to be, you can invent yourself and just be you...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="comments-posted" style="clear: both;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18663004"&gt;&lt;p&gt; Isn't that enough..?&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;#20&lt;br /&gt;Mr. Parvez Sharma, I bow to you for such a clear and honest explanation of your feelings. Indians, Pakistanis, and Bangladeshis are of the same history, ethos, and culture, with variations and differences of course, but within the same space of Mother India (Bharat Mata). Music, food, folklore, etc. I believe this feeling you describe is the best way to fix the conflicts facings us with the dangerous divide between Hindu and Muslim. Why India cannot unite? That is the solution, a lose federalism. Bring back the Panchayat. Let everyone's religion worship God as they see fit without interfering with another, that has been the root of Hinduism. But right now India is a giant that cannot walk, as she is missing a part of each leg. India's Dharma is always in peril, as Sri Aurobindo asserted on 15 August 1947, until partition is reversed. This must go. And with India's Dharma in peril, the world's future looks bleak.Yes, vegetarianism is of the essence. Let Sattwic food decrease the animosity and respect for animals - Ahimsa - propel respect for men. Several critical concessions are a must, no religion should believed called to convert the other.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#21                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;The answer in not in going backwards but integrating the NOW. Change in a constant. What you are proposing is regressing to a past...you can never go home. How do you escape the time warp of your own conditioning, and shape those of others? Sorry, I am only good at posing questions...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#22                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;"What you are proposing is regressing to a past...you can never go home. "Only difference is, they ARE home. We're not talking about Dorothy or a band of gypsies. There is an artificial border between these countries and that is a VERY LARGE PART OF THE PROBLEM. Hello? Kashmir, anyone? Al Qeada in Kashmir? Yoo-hoo. I cannot understand why someone would so flippantly dismiss the idea of unity, as if it is silly and because it is of the past (something the British enforced), it's no good and anything already done, is no good. Does it just sound too idealistic? Sometimes what seems peaceful can actually be. Sometimes it isn't just pink fluffy clouds and hearts. There is actually reason behind it. We're not speaking about a nomadic tribe that wants to return "home" and reclaim land. It isn't such a far-out-there idea. I fear some are insisting on a system that is obviously not working and has no reason to exist. Why should these countries be seperate? Any reason for that? Please tell me? Just religion, huh?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#23                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;I was born and raised in Pakistan and I'm one of the (few) Pakistanis who thinks that uniting the South Asian subcontinent is something that will happen, possibly within the next 20 to 30 years. Pakistan is a hollow state that cannot provide peace and prosperity to its own people and can not control the extreme elements within it. Most of the culture, food, music, lifestyle etc of Pakistanis is based on our Indian heritage. We were all Indians not too long ago, and some of us realize that we still are. But due to blind nationalism, extreme defensiveness, and the bloody history between the two nations, Pakistanis have a hard time accepting this simple fact. Extremism on the part of Hindu nationalists doesn't help relations either. But overall, Muslims of Pakistan need to stop acting like victims and start looking at the world differently than they have since 1947. Pakistan is a failed state and it's best for the younger generations there to work towards a more united South Asian region rather than keep fighting over the differences.&lt;span class="comments-posted-text"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;#24                                                  &lt;a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/bullets-in-bollywood-no-e_b_149631.html#" class="sm-link cmt_reply b_pixie" onclick="return Comments.displayReplyBox(18679055,149631,1);"&gt;&lt;span style="width: 3px;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;br /&gt;Yes, Bharat Mata is an organism, a whole that can only be partitioned by violence. Because of missing integral parts, it cannot function properly or fulfill her destiny (Dharma).One of the greatest Indians, Sri Aurobindo (his birthday was on August 15, coincidence?) wrote on August 15, 1947 India Independence from British Raj: "India is free, but she has not achieved unity, only a fissured and broken freedom...The whole communal division into Hindu and Muslim seems to have hardened into the figure of a permanent political division of the country. It is to be hoped that the Congress and the Nation will not accept the settled fact as for ever settled, or as anything more than a temporary expedient. For if it lasts, India may be seriously weakened, even crippled; civil strife may remain always possible, possible even a new invasion and foreign conquest. The partition of the country must go...For without it the destiny of India might be seriously impaired and frustrated. That must not be." Finally, Union is the only real solution.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_children_18652195" style="display: block;"&gt;&lt;div id="comment_children_18665169" style="display: block;"&gt;&lt;div id="comment_children_18666252" style="display: block;"&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18679055" class="main reply" style="margin-left: 150px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18679055"&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_18671595" class="main reply" style="margin-left: 150px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_18671595"&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-6906390591978739904?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/6906390591978739904/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=6906390591978739904&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6906390591978739904'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6906390591978739904'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/12/comments-on-bullets-in-bollywood.html' title='Comments on Bullets in Bollywood'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5123699594798896146</id><published>2008-12-09T14:24:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T14:27:09.722-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Bullets in Bollywood: No Eid for me</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;This is the text of my recent op-ed on Huffington Post about the Bombay attacks.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/bullets-in-bollywood-no-e_b_149631.html"&gt;You can post comments directly on Huff here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;On this Eid-al-Adha, the Muslim festival of the sacrifice, I wonder what aspect of my identity troubles me more: the Indian, the Muslim, or both. And is there more to those troublesome questions as well--perhaps willingly being away from the homeland?&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;For at least a year now, I have very loudly proclaimed the virtues of my religion, which I know are many. I have spoken about a Jihad, for love. I have even made a film called just that. I am profoundly aware that Hindus AND Muslims AND Christians AND Jews AND Sikhs died in Bombay. But I also know that today, Eid-al-Adha, is an annual event that I will not celebrate.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Ever since I became a "prominent Muslim living in America" (quoted from some recent journalistic queries) I get all kinds of email alerts and messages, often unsolicited. So today, in the 1429th year of Islam on this planet with another Hajj ending, the emails continue. One informs me that the (until recently, Hindu) kingdom of Nepal now has its own Quran in Nepalese to be widely distributed in Nepal, Bhutan and Burma! Another informs me that Indian Muslims have been marching in protest of November 26th. I am asked again to join yet another new group called "Muslims for Peace," this time in India informing me that they were the group that pushed the Jamiat Ulema-e-Hind to support the idea of not burying the "terrorists" on Indian soil. Yet another tells me that a teenage Muslim student in a Delhi school was asked if she is Pakistani when she arrived at school wearing a head scarf, something she had always done. Meanwhile the Facebook group entitled "Can u please take Barkha off air," formed in reaction to a particularly melodramatic and histrionics-prone Indian television journalist, now has more than 3,000 members and, yes, I am invited to join, once again. A new group called "Ratan Tata should be India's Obama" now has more than 700 members. Mr. Tata is one of India's richest men--a prominent industrialist who, in addition to a lot else, also owns the beleaguered Taj Hotel. I have been invited to join both groups repeatedly and until I do so, it seems I will get reminders about their increasing popularity. In addition, during the last two weeks, I have seriously been on the verge of becoming a self-hating Muslim--perhaps a new New York "-ism" to join the ranks of all those self-hating Jews. And then, there are way too many "Eid Mubarak" messages. The butter on my almost burnt toast is a detailed message from a group that calls itself "Serenity Fountain" and sends me daily missives on how to be a better Muslim. This email detailing the right way for the ritual sacrifice of "smaller animals" on this Eid ul Adha seems like the final straw. The message is anything but serene and I wonder if I should add them to my spam box. They explain thoughtfully: &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;"First a knee-deep hole is dug. The animal to be killed for qurban (sacrifice) is blindfolded with a piece of cloth. It is made to lie on its left side with its face and throat towards the qibla. Its throat is brought near the hole. The ankles of its front legs are fastened together with one of its hind legs. The takbir of 'Iyd is said three times. Next the following words are said: 'Bismillahi Allahu akbar.' Then, if the animal is not a camel, its throat is cut at any place. While saying 'Bismillahi,' the 'h' must be articulated with due stress and aspiration. In this case it is not necessary to bear in mind that it is Allah's name. If one does not pronounce the "h" clearly enough, one has to bear in mind that one is saying Allah's name. If one does not do this either, the animal becomes as unclean as a carrion. It is not halal to eat it. For this reason, we should not say, 'Allah ta'ala,' but should accustom ourselves to articulating the 'h' always clearly by saying, 'Allahu ta'ala."&lt;/em&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;In the Quran, this Eid, mostly known as "Bakr Eid" in the majority Muslim Indian sub-continent--if you count Muslim numbers in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh together--comes from Bakra, the goat, the animal of choice for slaughter. The Prophet Ibrahim (Abraham to the Jews and Christians) was about to slaughter his son to God (against the wishes of Shaitan or Satan) when God in very timely fashion intervened and provided him a lamb instead.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;I have been a proud, meat-eating Muslim all my life but the details of the slaughter spelt out in the English language make my stomach churn and I think of some of my Muslim friends who have turned vegetarian. I read the message again and wonder, "What about the 'h' in "hate?" For me the last two weeks have not been particularly good to be a Muslim. Even as the closing rituals of the Hajj are being performed in Mecca, a few twenty-something Muslim extremists imported, presumably from Pakistan, with cutesy, clean-shaven faces have shattered my identity to its very core. I know that today, rivers of animal blood will flow down streets in Muslim communities around the world.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;As a child I remember seeing this blood both fascinated and horrified. On moving to the "free world" it was clear, though, that slaughtering animals was not just the prerogative of the poor of the "third world," but was equally celebrated in an annual animal slaughtering ritual made even more miserable for some, by being the one Thursday when escape from "family" was inescapable. Most recently I was reminded about the slaughter elements of the annual American Thanksgiving ritual, when Sarah Palin decided to use it as a backdrop for a press conference. Eid-al- Adha was never my favorite Muslim festival, Thanksgiving is not my favorite American one either.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Ironically, this Thanksgiving, as their turkeys basted, Americans learnt about the bloodbath in Bombay as some kind of Breaking News non-stop holiday special. And now almost two weeks later, this other Eid of Islam for me, as an Indian Muslim, is only about blood.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;The city formerly known as Bombay amongst its 19 million inhabitants, also counts the world's largest film industry and stars of mega proportions mostly unknown to the ordinary American but instantly recognizable in Jakarta, Kabul, Marrakesh and Nairobi. For many years this particular film industry was ruled by three muscle-bound Muslims all sharing the last name Khan. At least two of them (Shahrukh and Amir) still carry the dreams of millions on their shoulders. On this Eid, many of Bollywood's Muslim stars, as India's frenetic and recently reviled media are reporting, will not celebrate the annual slaughter fest but wear black armbands instead. The two aforementioned Khans have already spoken out to the media machine--one talking of the real Jihad (and I feel momentary but proud vindication for the title of my recent film &lt;em&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/"&gt;A Jihad for Love,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt; coming from one of them). Not to be outdone, the third Khan in Bollywood (Salman) has now also spoken out against "Islamic terrorism." I guess they have to watch their backs, as India is no stranger to retribution towards what the media always used to call "the minority community."&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;The blasts in the city, which I refuse to call Mumbai have shaken up the very core of my Muslim and my Hindu identities. Schizophrenic at the best of times, these identities could not, I feel, find an easy home in the India that now seems to be reacting to its own 9-11. As a child I was ashamed of my mixed parentage. As an adult, having made some peace with my own Islam, I now feel despair. As an adult, I chose to not succumb to what I believe was the Hindu nationalist agenda of stripping names of cities to reflect a false, pan-Hindu national identity, when Bombay became Mumbai, Madras became Chennai, and Calcutta became Kolkata. I was also acutely aware of the desire to wipe away the last vestiges of colonialism in this frantic renaming process that seemed to have political sanction. I now wonder if I was and am right in choosing to do so.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Watching India's booming (and "boom" they do, with some of the journalists screaming into their microphones) news networks on YouTube over the last two weeks, I have felt that melodrama may be the central defining aspect of Indian identity, probably fueled by entire childhoods framed by the dream machines in Bollywood. Many of the new stars of television--some with whom I worked in a former life as a television journalist, when the concept of the 24-hour news cycle was still fresh and clean--seem to have taken great joy in accosting hapless people with family members trapped inside burning hotels, always asking them how they felt. Many explained the movements of the "terrorists" and those sent in to conquer them in great detail as the "operations" continued and allegedly as "the terrorists" watched while planning their next moves within the hotels. The same journalist who now has so many Facebookers starting a cult of hating her, in her reportage "even put her arm around a conservative Muslim man" (quote from FaceBook) during the sixty-hour media circus.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;The bloodbath in Bombay thus led to unprecedented media mayhem in India and certainly in the US as well. It was certainly enjoyable to see Indian New Yorkers of every shape, size and political opinion pontificating on India's 9-11 on the networks here. And as frantic American shoppers trampled a Walmart worker to death, we got a brief respite from the bombs in Bombay. I felt ashamed that my country had never before elicited such attention in the American media. Most Americans were certainly not informed in such detail about the train bombings in Bombay in July that killed more than 200. And the Gujarat riots of 2002, where more than 2000 people, the majority of them Muslim, were killed also did not occupy the Breaking News cycle on American television with such intensity. But as millions of turkeys were slaughtered and then roasted and basted in America a couple Thursdays ago, the media in this country were obsessed with the live television intensity of reporters from their "sister networks in India," standing and screaming into their microphones outside the Taj. I watched horrified as CNN did a breaking news phoner with a man in Istanbul who said, "My parents went into the hotel corridor and identified themselves as Muslims to the terrorists... My father even did the prayer...and they are now safe. I know, because the terrorists just asked them to lock themselves up in their room." That for me was a defining moment in feeling the Muslim shame I feel today.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;As we in the US entered the "holidays" and the endless holiday parties, I listened in horror to a diamond- and daiquiri-dripping Indian socialite opine on how the blasts in Bombay would improve box office numbers for everybody's new favorite movie, &lt;em&gt;Slumdog Millionaire.&lt;/em&gt; She was just one of the many "deeply concerned" Indians and Pakistanis in the room that night pledging to hold marches and benefits.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;In the two weeks that have followed, much has been made of India's own 9-11 now uniformly being called 26-11 by the Indian media. Much blogging angst has also been spilt over the fact that India's elite who haunted plush five-star hotels were the target and therefore the media hysteria. And in fact, the presence of Americans, British and Israelis in the middle of the mayhem certainly can be seen as contributing factors to the media blitz here in the States. Watching the carnage unfold on YouTube and the websites of the 24-hour television networks in India--now too many to name--I have also been horrified by the quality, or rather lack of it, in the reportage. Friends in the media here point out that it is "immature." I wonder what they think of cable television in this country. This I know: Sixty hours of Breaking News madness on Indian television has been enough to get millions of young Indians to collectively vomit on social networking groups and in public protests. The signs at these protests have been emailed to me and leave little doubt in my mind that the world's largest democracy is going to have to seriously shake up its political and media elite if it is to survive.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;As I write this, another email "alert" tells me that in New Delhi this Friday some prominent journalists and filmmakers will gather to debate in a discussion entitled "Who is to blame for media hysteria on terror? Journalists or viewers?"&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;This, perhaps, is reason to cheer and perhaps, indeed, also is the fact that the "Bomb! Bomb! Pakistan" rhetoric has been somewhat muted. But as an Indian Muslim, why should I celebrate at all?&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;I also realize that the sense of shame that overcomes me may have a lot to do with being Indian and choosing to live far away from it all, somehow "protected" in New York. As my mailbox continues to flow over with Eid blessings and wishes, I wonder how many Muslims it is going to take to end this bloodbath in the name of the Quran. I wonder how many of us indeed are going back to the Quran and back to the Imams that define right and wrong for us with the questions that we need to ask more urgently than ever before.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;In India, many years ago, I knew that the line was drawn in blood from 1947 on with the hurried and horrific re-mapping of the sub-continent. The line, amongst other things, was between the cow-worshiping Hindus and the cow-eating Muslims. On this festival of sacrifice, which I, like those hot Bollywood superstars, am choosing not to celebrate, I wonder how much more blood it will take.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;It remains easy, of course, to pontificate from thousands of miles away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5123699594798896146?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5123699594798896146/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5123699594798896146&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5123699594798896146'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5123699594798896146'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/12/bullets-in-bollywood-no-eid-for-me.html' title='Bullets in Bollywood: No Eid for me'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4588891542059214510</id><published>2008-11-16T20:52:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-16T20:59:35.074-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Obamaran! Iran and Obama</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;Following Obamas election and all the Obamamania and the Obamanation and Barack the Vote and the Obamafuture...two recent blog entries from Ava in Tehran...(my own thoughts on all the recent crazy travels will follow soon)...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" &gt;# 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Last night  I stayed up till late. I was following the news and after getting confused  with the political mess in the country I started reading a book by a  Dutch writer whom I met last week in Dubai: “Communication and Management” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Even though  this new law that forbids smoking in public might have affected the  nice mood of cafes, it could actually be the cause of such pleasant  coincidences and offer unexpected chances to different people to meet  and chat while standing next to an ashtray under the burning sun. Though  this burning could be dangerous.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I wonder why  I keep following the news. Does it make any difference if I know what’s  going on in the country or how we manage our international relations  and communications?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After all how  authentic and reliable our news is? We must be happy with what we are  supposed to know and more interesting is that most of the people prefer  to be unaware of state of affairs. As long as the economy goes well,  they feel happy in their own imaginary Island. And a few small groups  have got the chance to be aware of the necessary news: “When to buy,  what to buy and where to invest”. And these news cannot be found in  the media or in our daily papers; where you just read how soon America  is going to be demolished or follow the American presidential campaign  instead of our own presidential so-called campaign.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; So basically  there is no need to follow the news; even our Minister of Culture has  realized that and has warned BBC channel for launching a new Farsi satellite  channel for Iranian audience. We all remember this unforgettable phrase  of Khomeini: Britain is worse that Russia, Russia is worse than Britain  and America is worse that both of them towards Iran.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;We don’t  even need the management skills. This is a city where one manager decides  to renew the asphalt of an area and the day after the other manger decides  to dig it out to put in a new gas pipe. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Therefore in  this society that tiny group is happy, the managers are happy and the  majority of people who are not counted in the public and have not been  taken seriously, can read the daily papers and books and improve their  “Communication and Management” skills.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;How incredible  is when the majority is considered as minority and the minority is considered  as no body!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;This morning  while I was working on my computer I received a phone call from my manager  and was called for a short meeting in his office. On my way to his office  while I was waiting for the traffic light to turn green, a number of  young  boys and girls and small kids ran into the cars to sell their  stuff: window shades, kitchen knifes, socks, screw driver, Rayban sunglasses  and flowers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;They were carrying  all those unnecessary stuff and were begging people to buy them. One  of them with a very dark skin; probably from the southern parts of the  country, looked like a potable shop. His white teeth shone behind the  roses and daffodils.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Next time….  I really don’t need any of them.” I said. But he was insisting to  sell and kept telling the drivers that how useful and practical his  stuff were.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;A young man  with huge mussels whose car was next to me shouted: “Hey Obama, come  over here! How much do you want for the daffodils?” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The black guy  immediately ran into him as if he had been called by this name many  times before. The guy bought the flowers and gave it to the girl who  was sitting in the passenger seat. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Before the  light turns green, the young boy was happy, the girl was happy and Obama  was happy too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;Even I was  happy, I have decided to improve my communication skills and    to meet the Dutch writer again.  Communication is an inseparable part  of the living!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:courier new;"&gt;# 2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Obama's name associates    with change everywhere as well as in Iran. Everyone in Iran is hoping    for a big change for better, including ordinary people, reformists,    liberals, hardliners and even the morose anchor woman who is always    covered in black chador. When she was announcing Obama’s victory from    channel 6, her eyes were shining and she was not able to hide her big    smile from ear to ear. So she was not frowning for the first time and    we were honored to be the first to see her teeth. Actually I felt that    she was even ready to take out her black Chador in front of the live    camera and jump over her desk and shout out the victory of Barak Hussein    Obama. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I started to think    about the changes she is hoping for and I’m sure it cannot be just    connected to economy. I compared that with the changes I  desired    or did my religious neighbor or my gay friend or the kids who sell flowers    in the street or my depressed friend in her bed. Today, we all have    something in common: we all woke up with hope!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;And because of this    fact I feel closer to the people I know and I can share more with the    people I don’t know and I pray that our hopes meet somewhere at the    end.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Immediately after announcing    the news SMSes started. Everybody congratulated Obama’s victory. After    half an hour my father called me to say that his mobile phone is making    noises non-stop. I’m just wondering why my father is not willing to    learn how to open and send SMS at the age of 70, while our anchor woman    has learnt to smile at the age of 35!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Hey daddy, please    put your glasses on, you need to take part in the changes, Obama is    not going to do it all alone!” This is what I told my father.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;All the reformist papers    covered this news on their front page with huge headlines as if they    are Washington Post or NewYork Times. Keyhan Farsi, the hardliner wrote:    “A falcon in pigeon’s grab”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The day after everyone    at work was talking about the reaction of our media on this news and    I noticed that this was the first time we didn’t discuss the news    on VOA (Voice of America) or other American based Iranian channels.    We all had followed the news from Iranian based news channel and this    change felt great. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After speaking all    day long on the movies and in the studio with Colleagues, on my way    back home I stopped at a small supermarket to buy a juice. The fat guy    who is working in Daryani supermarket close to my home offered me to    buy a new canned coffee.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;     &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“This is wonderful.    It’s both delicious and fat-burning coffee too. If you take it you    cannot eat anything for the rest of the day. It helps lose weight."    The fat guy said and I looked at my tight Mantua and the buttons which    were ready to jump out any second and then looked at the fat guy’s    belly and said: “Did you lose weight with the help of this?” And    everybody in the supermarket burst into laughter.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Mr.Daryani, the owner    said: “He lost weight after he got married because his wife calls    him every 5 minutes and he continued  to say: “but things are    going to  change a lot after Obama takes power!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I paid for the drink    and the canned coffee and got into my car. I was thinking of a diet    and hoping to lose weight but at the same moment I received a SMS: “friends    are coming over for dinner, please be here at 8:00”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;   &lt;p  style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:100%;" &gt;And that was from my    father.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4588891542059214510?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4588891542059214510/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4588891542059214510&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4588891542059214510'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4588891542059214510'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/11/more-from-iran.html' title='Obamaran! Iran and Obama'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1630121299446820902</id><published>2008-11-04T21:52:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T21:53:21.064-05:00</updated><title type='text'>ओबामा जीतेगा आज !</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1630121299446820902?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1630121299446820902/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1630121299446820902&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1630121299446820902'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1630121299446820902'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/11/blog-post.html' title='ओबामा जीतेगा आज !'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-185994402469670919</id><published>2008-11-04T19:10:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T19:10:49.667-05:00</updated><title type='text'>obama</title><content type='html'>&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-185994402469670919?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/185994402469670919/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=185994402469670919&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/185994402469670919'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/185994402469670919'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/11/obama.html' title='obama'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-120365257382320767</id><published>2008-11-04T18:32:00.005-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-04T18:42:31.908-05:00</updated><title type='text'>O</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SRDcs6EvmYI/AAAAAAAAAEo/6iS9v5Lj6TY/s1600-h/honorees_4-1.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 234px; height: 320px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SRDcs6EvmYI/AAAAAAAAAEo/6iS9v5Lj6TY/s320/honorees_4-1.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5264950628457617794" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;font-size:100%;"  &gt;We all wait for American history, and a great deal of the future to change....&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also, I have been named one of the OUT 100, an annual compilation of "The Men and Women who made 2008 a year to remember" (OUT magazine) (their most influential, interesting and newsworthy LGBT people)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.out.com/index.asp"&gt;Here is the video&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.out.com/out100/nominees_4.asp"&gt;Here is a link&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here is their description:&lt;em style="font-style: italic;"&gt;A Jihad for Love&lt;/em&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; is the heartfelt debut film from Muslim Indian-born director Parvez Sharma (far left), tackling a subject never previously addressed in a feature documentary: the complex intersection of homosexuality and Islam. Traveling to 12 countries—including India, Iran, Pakistan, South Africa, and Turkey—writer and gay rights activist Sharma’s dispatches from the very edges of Islam portrayed and sought to change the plight of gay Muslims.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And finally, I include the photo...&lt;br /&gt;O for Obama...(and also OUT)&lt;br /&gt;No going back into the closet now ; (&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;*&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Photographed by Greg Lotus at Gramercy by Starck in New York City&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-120365257382320767?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/120365257382320767/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=120365257382320767&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/120365257382320767'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/120365257382320767'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/11/o.html' title='O'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SRDcs6EvmYI/AAAAAAAAAEo/6iS9v5Lj6TY/s72-c/honorees_4-1.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3882538550211442493</id><published>2008-11-03T14:40:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-11-03T14:56:23.486-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The "Race"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;The race...these last breathless hours. I have just returned from Charlottesville in "red" Virginia. On Halloween night, amongst other encounters in this quaint little town, I also met a Sarah Palin, walking right by the Barack Obama headquarters...she winked and was happy to pose for photographs with her dress covered in pricey Neiman Marcus tags. (picture will follow soon). Across from the Obama office also stood a young man on a chair holding up a sign with the ten commandments and asking all sinners to repent. A pubescent young man in the small crowd, asked me if I had repented-and when I told him I was a Muslim-he just stared.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;In a few hours Americans will probably choose a man who would be Muslim- according to the Islamic laws of patriarchy- as their President. History will be made, or not. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-family: courier new;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/the-unbearable-whiteness_b_128594.html?page=2&amp;amp;show_comment_id=16001138#comment_16001138"&gt;Here are a few comments that came in after I wrote about "race" in this race on Huff.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt; These comments may offer some clues on how post-racial this country really is (or perhaps not-given the demographic that reads Huff).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16442835"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;As an Asian-American who grew up largely in the East Coast and Midwest, I can definitely attest to the truth of Sharma's words. Unfortunately, whatever lip service is given to "equal rights," is also belied by action. Remember, evidence of racism does not exist merely in the form of slurs or lynching. Nor is it confined to any one socio-economic group, even if it's mostly associated with the lower middles. There are still far too many assumptions made about race: if you are X, you must be talented at this and bad at that. And there are far too many assumptions that many of us will settle for substandard treatment (driving or shopping while "black" or non-white, period). In my own experience, I have found racism most pronounced amongst upper middle and upper class whites. Many of them resent minorities moving into their neighborhoods. Many, particularly older white women, resent the presence of well- bred, well-read, and well-dressed minority women. (Which helps us understand why they hate Michelle Obama with a passion.) Like how dare a non-white be anything other than "the help!" But of course, what is most disturbing to upper middle and upper class whites is the mere mention of prejudice. (Again, which explains why they resent Michelle's thesis on race.) Jim Crow may never have existed in the North, but that mentality is as present here as it is in the South, even if less overt.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16431690" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16431690"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;thank you, Parvez, for sparking this conversation. It seems clear to me that the concept of 'white' in the United States is always changing, and should change. as an oft-cited example, we're at least 150 years past a time when German immigrants were thought of as foreigners outside the pale of the accepted and conventional, and our definitions of what is now the cultural mainstream are radically different from the days of the Puritans and even from twenty years ago. that's the case for innate characteristics such as ethnic or national origin, native language, social or economic class, sexuality, and gender, and also for the standards on more malleable characteristics such as style of speech, dress, or gender roles. As a country, we have a long way to go - Tim Wise in his Sept 13 "This is Your Nation on White Privilege" captured a lot of the double-standards still existing in this country. But our definitions of what anyone has to conform to are opening up a lot. And that's good for everyone. I'm inescapably white - descendent of John Alden, multiple generations in the same town, the whole thing. I personally want a broader societal definition of who I can be and how I can act. I'm inescapably white, but fighting against being unbearably white. I'm voting for Obama and for change. And I've got a Obama bumpersticker on my truck, and among my neighbors in rural Pennsylvania, I'm not the only one.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16430472" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16430472"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;This is smart, thought-provoking and broad-ranging. I come from Italian Americans and many of them are isolationaist, anti-immigration, socially conservative Republicans. They are always shocked when I tell them that when my grandparents were born (here in the States) they were not considered white. But they can't accept -- digest -- the thought because now they're on the other side of that very dangerous, malleable and culturally relative line. It's just too threatening, and of course, the price for not having to look at the constructed color line is that you have to perpetuate and shore up the color line like a dike in New Orleans. Infuriating.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16427460" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16427460"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;It does work both ways, however--i.e., it is equally sad to me when a person of color makes a snap judgment of a white person without bothering to get to know that person's individual humanity. If this sickness is going to be cured, it will require ALL of us to look beyond surface-level appearances and to be willing to engage in deep conversations with each other. With regard to A Jihad For Love--a brilliant film that is thought-provoking on many levels--my first thought was one of profound joy that a brown Muslin and a white Jew were able to come together to engage in this collaboration in this time of such deep mistrust and divisions.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And while I certainly understand the frustration behind the comment that "there were too many White names in the credits", I think this can be turned around to look at the beauty and the hope that come from differing peoples coming together to address a certain cause (in this case, homosexuality in the Muslim religion).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;In my view, questions such as "who is White" and "who is Black" do absolutely nothing to address this deeper level upon which we must all begin to communicate and connect if we hope to survive into the future.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16427454" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16427454"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Thanks so much for the very thoughtful article on a topic that is in serious need of deep discussion. As a white woman who is originally from the U.S. but has lived abroad (in Japan) for ten years, it still jolts me every time I return to the U.S. (or often when I am around other Americans) how much importance is given to the issue of someone's outer appearance (i.e., skin color). There is nothing sadder to me then when a person is standing face to face with someone else for the first time, and rather than being open to what this individual's particular humanity and spirit might have to offer, someone else immediately makes generalizations based upon stereotypes of that person's race. This is indicative of a deep sickness that must be cured from its roots--and yes, since White racism against people of the color is pervasive throughout history, white people bear special responsibility to take steps to correct this reality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16421134" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16421134"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;White Supremacy is tightly woven into the fabric of America and I am afraid, that even after Barack Obama gets elected, that fabric is unlikely to unravel, at least in my lifetime. Much like&lt;br /&gt;the apartheid of caste and class in Indian society, racism in the US&lt;br /&gt;breaths freely and unchecked, under the surface of supposed integration&lt;br /&gt;of the races into the imaginary melting pot.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am originally from India and have lived in the Pacific Northwest for&lt;br /&gt;over 40 years.  Much has changed in my lifetime.  Racism that was very&lt;br /&gt;overt when I first got here is now below the surface.  The most&lt;br /&gt;profound sea change that I have seen is the rapid increase in the&lt;br /&gt;non-white population and the change in the master narrative&lt;br /&gt;of what being an American means.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The world has changed.  The homogenous has now been replaced by&lt;br /&gt;heterogonous flavors (no pun intended here).  White Supremacy will&lt;br /&gt;persist, but we will have an option to build communities where class and&lt;br /&gt;color are happily embraced.   How do we as individuals, aid and abet the furtherance of&lt;br /&gt;that deceit?  Many in our own immigrant Indian communities have carried&lt;br /&gt;our bigotries from the birth country and transmogrified them into a&lt;br /&gt;license to practice unfettered discrimination against African Americans&lt;br /&gt;in this country?  Many of us like to be trophy friends in a room full of&lt;br /&gt;well heeled white power brokers.  When we are the only people of color&lt;br /&gt;in this room, we need to question our own motives.&lt;/span&gt;  &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16021731" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16021731"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The stupidity of the American voters is what gave the world Bush TWICE! It's a terrible embarrassment to educated Americans to have a country run by such dolts as our electorate. Let's hope that a small percentage of them have wised up after eight years of the Bush fiasco they are responsible for, and will now want to throw the rascals they elected OUT. But I'm not holding my breath. The ignorance of the American mob truly is a wonder to behold.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16021195" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16021195"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I don't feel "white," although my government is now classifying me as such. North African people are now specified in the U.S. government's definition of "white," which I noticed recently. My North African ancestry was part of why I have long felt as you describe. Ever since I converted to Islam, I have not identified as white--it doesn't feel accurate, since white in this country means by default blue-eyed blonde, not olive-skinned Mediterraneans. Especially for women, the beauty and fashion industries have a default bias in favor of blondes, I never got any useful beauty advice until I found the book Latina Beauty. People who meet me see a Middle Easterner, I've been asked if I speak English, I've been told to go back where I came from, I'm frequently told "You don't look American." My official "white" classification has not shielded me from this alienation by color.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I converted to Islam many years ago after reading the Autobiography of Malcolm X, in particular where Malcolm says Islam has the only solution to America's race problem. He said of the white Muslims he met during the Hajj: "The 'white' attitude was removed from their minds by the religion of Islam." This made me an enthusiastic convert, since ending racism had been a major concern of mine since my formative years growing up during the Civil Rights movement in the 1960s. Malcolm, bless his heart, was sort of misogynist, but he lived before feminism...&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16018100" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16018100"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Oops in my haste to respond to foolery, I meant to type, BLACK PEOPLE DO NOT HAVE TO TAN TO BECOME BLACK. Americans are some funny, shallow, insecure creatures who will NEVEr see the error in their ways. Never.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16014625" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16014625"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;During this election cycle, my eyes have really been opened to the amount of racism, overt and covert, that still exists in America. However, I find the characterization of fear of certain neighborhoods at 3 am as racist rather simplistic. I wouldn't feel comfortable walking through many black urban neighborhoods for two reasons: 1) statistically, urban blacks have a high poverty rate, and areas of concentrated poverty have statistically higher violent crime rates; 2) I'm Pasty McWhitey, so if someone who, following reason number one, is looking for a target, I stick out like a Yankees fan at a Red Sox game. I don't stand in fields during lightning storms either. Does that make me paranoid? No, it makes me not a complete idiot.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16011636" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16011636"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;It"s an embarrassment and a disgrace that Obama may lose some otherwise Democratic voters because of the color of his skin. I don"t think he will lose many but as we all know from the last two elections; a candidate can lose by the slimmest margin (remarkably even after getting more votes).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Race is an issue in this country but is not the simple racism most people think it is. Most of white America is not part of the elite but rather the ordinary middle class. They don"t particularly feel they have enjoyed advantages or preferential treatment because of the color of their skin. They believe in equality; they just fear it will come at their expense (resulting in a lower standard of living for them). In a society that rewards failing CEO"s incompetence with obscene severances while the middle class gets to shoulder the burden, this fear is not unfounded. The politicians and in particular the Republicans exploit this fear. By addressing this fear the Democrats can gain far more Republican voters than they potentially would lose. Convince the white middle class that it doesn"t need to lose for disadvantaged minorities to gain and the Republican party will no longer enjoy the majority support of white middle class voters.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_children_16011636" style="display: block; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16443033" class="main reply" style="margin-left: 50px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16443033"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I agree it's sad when some refuse to vote for Obama merely because of his color. I've always been attuned to double standards since I'm a minority myself, but this election has truly hit home. There is something deeply wrong with our nation when Obama, who is much better qualified in terms of education and experience, is considered weaker than Palin. There is something wrong when the average American criticizes black teenage pregnancy but tolerates it in Palin's white teenaged daughter. And of course there's nothing wrong when the owner of a gun is a white hunter, but God forbid when it finds its way to a black person!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16018337" class="main reply" style="margin-left: 50px;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16018337"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I thought Obama stated it well on "60 Minutes". He said that he knows some people will not vote for him because he is black, but he knows some people are voting for him only because he is black. He said it's a wash.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16010330" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16010330"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The two quoted sayings from the top of your post scared me - do people like these really think like this? My personal "prejudice" is that the only people thinking like this are people with practically no education and little experience with the world, narrowminded bigots having never seen enough to have their prejudices challenged. Bitter losers, in other words. Def. not human-rights-working people. (And the "prescribed medicine" against such prejudice, I've always thought, is meeting other people, getting an education, seeing the world - realizing as one goes that people are people, we're all individuals, and our personalities aren't defined by our physical features, but our psychological features.) Oh, my. Good post, though, thought-provoking.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As for Obama as a hope for the world - my impression is that huge parts of the world, black or white or brown or yellow, see him as the best candidate. Whether that means the rest of the world is better at looking beyond hues than the US is, or whether it's a sign the rest of the world can be politically correct and pretend to look beyond hues (the rest of the world can't vote in the US anyway, and so what one says in the rest of the world doesn't really matter), I can't say.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16003771" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16003771"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Whoa! Having a half-Irish greatgrandmother means I can call myself white, in spite of my clearly cappuchino skin color, foam not withstanding? Oops, of course, back when her mother and her father got together, Irish weren't full-count Americans either (refer to Constitutional section on how to count the Census for verification!).&lt;br /&gt;How times have changed! (Hollow laugh time, folks) Well, we've had a president of Irish descent..... it's high time some of my other demographics were represented, like the black one or the Native American one. I'll save the female one for when Mrs. Obama decides to throw her Chanel hat into the ring, should she have one.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_16003153" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16003153"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I think it is really sad.  Racism is playing a small role in the election.  I hope it isn't big enough to swing the election.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems that the economy and foreign policy has to reach total disaster before some people decide they are willing to put aside their racial fears and take a chance on moving forward.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;That McCain makes so many gaffes and runs such a dishonorable campaign and that the race is still close just boggles the mind. McCain has no ideas or solutions, just pandering to whoever he can pander to in his desperate quest to win at all costs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think there are some people who are willfully looking for reasons not to support Obama, and will ignore anything negative campaign to do so. There might be a few Hillary holdouts who will cut off their nose to spite their face, but I think there is more racism in this country that I dared admit. I think living in a mutlicultural metropolis in a blue state has kind of blinded me to the way too many people still feel in other parts of the country.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I hope I am wrong. I wish I were wrong. But we would be naive to think that race wouldn't at least be turning away some votes that would have gone to Obama if he had been white.&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;                  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16001488"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Mr. Sharma--thanks for a thoughtful and thought-provoking post. You write as a citizen of the world--there are some Americans who also think this way. They are few, but I hope their numbers are growing. Generally, they are not Republican-leaning.&lt;br /&gt;Here's a link to an interesting discussion of social psychology "What Makes People Vote Republican?".&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/haidt08/haidt08_index.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;http://www.edge.org/3rd_culture/haidt08/haidt08_index.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I kept thinking about it as I read your post. While conservatives may come in all shades (in their own countries)round the world, in the US they are mainly white. It comes down to three notions favoured by social conservatives according to Prof. Haidt:ingroup/loyalty, authority/respect and purity/sanctity. It's the last one that Republicans have particularly taken to heart.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is what the more worldly, more secular Democrats don't particularly understand. It may be the source of the divide in America.&lt;/span&gt;    &lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_16001138"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The Republican Party gets shunned by minorities because of an agenda that is anti-anything that is not reflective of its base.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_15998067" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_15998067"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;It's the White Supremacist Party running on the Southern Strategy of race-baiting as its principle tool of keeping poor, low-information white voters on the Republican plantation. It's no secret. If you watched the Democratic Convention and the Republican Convention it should have left no doubt which party clearly mirrors the diversity that is American society.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div id="comment_15997386" class="main" style="margin-left: 0px; font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;div class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_15997386"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Generally, there are a couple of token blacks at each GOP event, and they always are situated purposefully directly behind the candidate (Bush in 2000 and '04 and McCain this election cycle) so that the viewers see them. Otherwise, the crowds are as pasty-white as they come.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Wilbur&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-style: italic; font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" class="comments-body" id="cmt_txt_wrap_15996974"&gt;                                                                                                                                                 &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; "Does the Republican Party now represent primarily a demographic of one skin colour only?" Aside from a very few minority members, who all seem to be spokesmodels for the party, nearly everybody on it is white, despite the fact that a century asgo, the Republican Party was known as 'the party of Lincoln. Since 1964 and the passage of the Civil Rights Act, the Republican Party has received the majority of the white vote, and has won the Southern states in every election except when white Southern males receive the Democratic Party's presidential nomination. Republicans have led the counter-attack against equal pay for minorities, equal housing, raising the minimum wage and have called for the abolition of the Department of Education and welfare. All these policies put them up against the interests of most minority voters, which has very often been a winning strategy. So to answer your question succinctly, I will adopt a Palinesque response: Yup.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                                                &lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3882538550211442493?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3882538550211442493/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3882538550211442493&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3882538550211442493'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3882538550211442493'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/11/race.html' title='The &quot;Race&quot;'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-6626178557763266062</id><published>2008-10-29T17:20:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-29T17:25:25.907-04:00</updated><title type='text'>George Clooney winks in Tehran...and Ava gets her US visa ; )</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Ava writes again, and thanks everyone for making her entries so popular.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Post # 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;During the  last weekend when I spent in Dubai, I realized that walking under the  sun in 45 Celsius degree can be even pleasant when the wind is blowing  your hair and you know that you are the only one to select your own  outfit.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;How limited  this sense of freedom is, but it’s still enough to drag minimum 2000  Iranian nationals to Dubai per day.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The dominant  culture in Dubai is defined in shining shopping malls and plastic luxury  and it meets the needs of the neighbors who are deprived of any means  of entertainment in the best way. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;There were  staying quiet a few bearded business men in our hotel who were staring  at young Russian girls with their greedy eyes and were running to discotheques  and night clubs every night, though they would prefer not to be seen  and judged by other Iranians.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;An old lady  who had come to Dubai to apply for US visa to visit her children looked  at those guys at breakfast table and said: “You already are the owner  of our country, isn’t that enough?” The bearded guys stared at the  old lady but didn’t dare to say anything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I thought elderly  people are braver than youngsters. They have nothing to lose and no  one dares to punish them. So they might make a change in the world in  future!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;There were  also a group of young religious Iranian girls staying in the hotel.  They had kept their Hijab the whole time and were behaving the same  as if they were in Iran.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;They had received  admission from American universities for PHD studies and had come to  Dubai to apply for US visa. I was wondering whether they appear veiled  in US consulate or they would give us a surprise by their double standard  too.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The next morning  I got really happy to see them with the same appearance. They were wearing  the same hijab at the US consulate but I was ahead of them and couldn’t  wait to see if  visa was issued to them or not.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After two days  all of us who had a reason to be in Dubai said good-bye to those golden  castles and Ali baba villas and headed for Tehran.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After 2 hour  delay, we arrived in Imam Khomeini airport at 2 am. Three flights had  landed almost at the same time and it was a chaos at the airport. People  were tired and had become aggressive. After we succeeded to get our  luggage we faced 10 long queues to go through customs. We spent 2 more  hours waiting for costume officers to search our luggage. Regardless  of the big crowd, timing and overtiredness of the passengers, the costumes  officers took their sweet time to search all  baggages one by one and  charge those whose shopping value had exceeded  80$. I could see the  satisfaction in their frowning faces.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I saw that  old lady standing ahead of me in the queue; she was cursing everyone  from head to toe and people around her were laughing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Among all those  heads suddenly I saw those girls. “Did you get the visa?” I asked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Yes, we  got it.” She said and I got very happy. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Before we chat  about the visa and relevant stories, one of the girls pointed at the  bearded guys at the beginning of the queue and said: “Look, they didn’t  open their luggage!” “Only God knows how many trips they have made  with government’s money.” She added.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;When finally  I made to get out of the airport after having waited for hours, I jumped  into a cab and headed for home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;It was quiet  and dark and the whole city was asleep. We passed by Khomeini’s golden  shrine and it reminded me of all the gold and shines I had seen in the  last few days.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Then I saw  George Clooney standing in his huge billboard offering a golden Omega  wrist watch. He smiled at me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Hi George….umm...  I don’t believe in gold, Stop this gold business!” I told him.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"  &gt;He winked at  me.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;"&gt;Post # 2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The best card  shops in Tehran are located in Armenian-populated areas: Villa or Sanaee  streets. You can also find some food shops owned by Armenians in that  area, where they sell good quality snacks which are the best appetizers  to be served with vodka. Armenian car mechanics are known to be the  honest mechanics in town, while most of shop keepers take advantage  of this good name to sell their goods in double prices.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Christians  are the only minority, after the Islamic revolution, which are allowed  to drink or make alcohol for their own use, which has consequently resulted  in many of them having a side job as a wine or vodka maker or seller.  Therefore everyone in the town who hunts for alcoholic drinks knows  a Monsieur Sergic or Georgic or Vachik who makes and delivers forbidden  drinks at doors.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;One of my girl  friends and me got into a gift shop. We were browsing through cards  and small gifts when 2 ladies covering in black chador from head to  toe came in. The only part of their entire body which was not covered  in that hijab was their noses. If I were one of them I would have covered  that nose and revealed another part.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Why are  the cards so expensive? They now cost double what they did before.”  I asked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;The old shop  keeper said: “Armenians need to make a living too!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;My girlfriend  said: “He is a cheater and rude, let’s go to another shop.” Before  leaving the shop we got surprised by this question: “Why didn’t  Monsieur Serjic show up last night?” Nose number 1 asked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Me and my friend  looked at each other; I could see 2 big exclamation marks in my friend’s  eyes. “Have they ordered vodka?” And that was the big question of  both of us.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“He will  bring it tonight; the job was not done yet.” Monsieur said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt; We couldn’t  leave the shop anymore, so we pretended that we are still searching.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Tomorrow  is my eldest son’s birthday and I wanted to ask your wife to make  a few nice dishes for us.” Nose number 2 said and our eyes were about  to jump out of the socket. After Monsieur passed her message to his  wife he said that his wife wanted to make an appointment with one of  the ladies in Clinic.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;At this moment  Nose 2’s mobile rang and she answered: “That’s not an urgent case,  I have 2 caesarian surgeries tomorrow morning; we’ll do that on Tuesday.”  Nose 1 said: “Tuesday morning we are doing a hysterectomy, but the  afternoon is free.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I looked at  them all over and noticed their simple dusty shoes. Gynecologist was  the last profession I could have ever imagined for them. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Normally strict  Muslims refrain from buying food from Non- Muslims but this deal was  an exception. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Our big question  was still not answered: “What Sergic was supposed to bring to her  house?” My girlfriend said: “If I find out that the guy was supposed  to get them alcoholic drinks, I’ll say it to their face and make them  embarrassed of their black chador.” With a big smile, she went to  the Nose 1 and said: “Hello ladies, how interesting to see you order  food in a card shop!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Nose 1 said:  “Yes, we know this family for years; Monsieur Leon’s wife is a great  cook.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;“Since when  strict Muslims eat Christians' food?” My friend asked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Both noses  said: “purify your heart and it will be all right!” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;Monsieur laughed  and we left the shop. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I was thinking  if you ever ask an Armenian “Where are you from?” They always say:  I’m Armenian, even though their preceding ten generations have been  born and raised in Iran and they know it the best how to integrate in  the society. Kurds would give the same answer to the same question:  “I am Kurdish.”  None of the groups would ever say it is Iranian  or from Iran. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;I remember  once after hearing that sentence, I said to a Kurdish: “Oh…I’ve  been in your country, what a nice place!”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;After half  an hour window shopping, on the way back we faced the same ladies, Monsieur  and another guy in the street. They were standing next to a car.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;He was Sergic  who had repaired and brought back their car. The ladies looked at us  and smiled.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-family: courier new; font-weight: bold;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;We got embarrassed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-6626178557763266062?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/6626178557763266062/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=6626178557763266062&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6626178557763266062'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6626178557763266062'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/george-clooney-winks-in-tehranand-ava.html' title='George Clooney winks in Tehran...and Ava gets her US visa ; )'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7830031393910981602</id><published>2008-10-15T23:58:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-16T00:04:13.578-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Kids Keep Writing!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;font-size:100%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I must say that after my experience at the High School in Chicago last week, I have a lot of hope for America. If these young men and women go on to have a stake in the future of this country and if they do not constitute an anomaly in the nationwide High School demographic...there is tremendous hope. And yes, they would make a group of very interesting pundits on cable news...on this, yet another debate night...And now that it is clear that Islam is one of the hottest topics in this election season, their comments on this film and indeed Islam are important to read.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;From Maliha&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Dear Mr. Sharma, &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I would like to congratulate you on making such an outstanding documentary and I would like to thank you for presenting your years of hard work to Senn High School. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was astonished when you stated that you were nervous to talk a room full of students because I thought you did a wonderful job and you did not look nervous at all. I was very much interested in the topic of your documentary and the thoughts the people had on homosexuality. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ever since I was little, I was taught not to judge a person under any circumstances whether it is a persons skin color, race, gender etc. I feel that this documentary will help people not judge others. God has created everyone differently for a reason and I think that no one should question nor judge another person. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I hope the message that you are trying to deliver spreads throughout the world and creates a positive change. I wish you all the best with your documentary and I hope to see another work of yours in the upcoming years. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;From Maab:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I want to begin by saying thank you for coming to our school and for creating such an inspiring film. You did an amazing job!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Being a Muslim myself, I’m aware of the controversies revolving the idea of homosexuality and the phobia that exists. However, I didn’t know about it being mentioned in the Quran and people using that to condemn it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;There’s a saying in Islam that I heard multiple times that says homosexual relationships shake the throne of god. I think that is quite ironic because if that is true, why would god create people that way? I personally believe that homosexuality is something you’re born with, which questions the validity of it being a sin. Well I guess what I’m trying to say is that I don’t really know whether homosexuality is a sin or not, but I know that at the end, it’s the person and their god and I have no right to judge that person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Again, I’d like to thank you for coming to Senn and sharing your ideas. You’re a true inspiration because you stood up for what you believed in despite the opposing viewpoints and controversies that might have created for you. Great job!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7830031393910981602?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7830031393910981602/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7830031393910981602&amp;isPopup=true' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7830031393910981602'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7830031393910981602'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/kids-keep-writing.html' title='The Kids Keep Writing!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-484915790881670088</id><published>2008-10-11T13:10:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-14T20:04:18.018-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Best Little High School in the World</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPIkLMlCmI/AAAAAAAAAD0/H-GJk265_0Y/s1600-h/IMG_7836.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPIkLMlCmI/AAAAAAAAAD0/H-GJk265_0Y/s320/IMG_7836.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5256765713877895778" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;dl style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;" id="comments-block" &gt;&lt;dd&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;From the students:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;&lt;dd style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Email 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;&lt;dt&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Hey Mr. Parvez!!&lt;br /&gt;I just wanted to inform you that your visit to Senn was amazing! I'm glad that I got the opportunity to see your documentary because it informed me of an issue that I consider important. I admire your courage to stand up for what you believe and fight for what you think is right. I found A Jihad for Love a touching documentary that opened my eyes to the struggle of homosexual Muslims. I just wanted you to know that I respect you and that I believe that your film will spread courage to those who are still hidden and who think that they can “cure” themselves with prayer. I believe that your film has not only reached homosexual Muslims but also other people that don't accept themselves for who they are. I believe that in the end we are all humans, no matter what religion, ethnicity, or sexuality. Thank you for making such an inspiring movie.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;                 Andrea &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;&lt;dd style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Email 2&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;&lt;dd style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Hello Mr. Sharma.I was one of the students there at the film screening and I have to say that, as a film, it was incredibly engaging.As a documentary, the themes and issues it presented are mind boggling. I've never liked Islam because there are things in it that seem beyond demanding. I just find it intriguing, some of its rituals are fascinating, or the symbology is. However, I respect those who do believe in it.&lt;br /&gt;It makes me wonder if these homosexual people will ever find a middle ground to their struggle. In the film one of the women said that she couldn't be like that because it is evil but then she still loves that other woman. So it makes me think if they will continue their lives like that, always aware that what they are is a sin, how will they reconcile themselves with their religion?&lt;br /&gt;I am glad I got the chance to see this movie because that kind of dilemma happens in every religion just because every religion considers homosexuality a sin. I imagine that is a fine line not just muslim people have to walk.&lt;br /&gt;Thank you for taking the opportunity and time to come to my school.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/dd&gt;&lt;dt&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Email 3&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;&lt;dt style="font-style: italic;" id="c3333765860351686036"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;That was quite an experience that I will never forget. It really did open my eyes to so many other things that are going on in this crazy world of ours. I understand that the whole idea of homosexuality is forbidden in any religion, but what is really complex for my mind to wrap around is the teachings of loving one another. I mean, isn't that what most religions teach to the thousands of years of generations? Why isn't that those who have created the written words think twice on not making such a contradiction with the message being told?Perhaps they weren't trying to find a contradiction and many scholars throughout the centuries have MADE it difficult for anyone to get a grasp and to fully understand what is being taught.Eh, I probably didn't make a lot of sense with my babbling but it was something I wanted to bring about.Once again, thank you so much for coming to Senn and showing us this remarkable film.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/dt&gt;&lt;dt style="font-style: italic;" id="c3333765860351686036"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Paolina G.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/dt&gt;&lt;/dl&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;"  &gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;From a teacher, after yesterdays event and talk:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:courier new;font-size:130%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Parvez, thank you...for visiting our High School, for making such an important film, and for sharing with us your insights on its creation and, more importantly, on its themes. This was an educational experience my students and I will not soon forget.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I cannot believe you were nervous to speak in front of high school students; there are many veteran teachers who are less engaging than you were yesterday. These students are used to 45-minute classes filled with a variety of instructional techniques; but after sitting silently through an 81-minute film, they remained engaged for nearly another hour&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;while you responded to their questions - and not a single paper airplane adorned the skies :) You're a natural.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;It is unrealistic, I think, to expect that our Muslim (and non-Muslim) students will all come to accept the reconciliation of homosexuality and Islam (or any religious orthodoxy), though some may do so. I am confident that all of the students, however, learned the more powerful lessons that we can disagree while still engaging in civil discourse, and that we must not fail to acknowledge the human consequences that accompany our beliefs. We saw those lessons applied in the respectful and engaging discussion that followed the screening.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-484915790881670088?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/484915790881670088/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=484915790881670088&amp;isPopup=true' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/484915790881670088'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/484915790881670088'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/best-little-high-school-in-world.html' title='The Best Little High School in the World'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPIkLMlCmI/AAAAAAAAAD0/H-GJk265_0Y/s72-c/IMG_7836.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1314704768746463476</id><published>2008-10-10T09:48:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-10T09:54:29.870-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ahlan Chicago</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So here I am in Chicago and will update you all soon. Today I will speak at a High School where 25 percent of the students are Muslim! And then at the University of Chicago, where unlike Michigan, the MSA refused to participate. Inshaallah they will show up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Some more emails:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;# 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hi Parvez, indeed it was a fabulous night and Gabe did a great job. Thank you for having directed A Jihad fo Love, it took a lot of time, bravery and generosity to get to such a brilliant result... it's amazing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Two questions for you: is it easy to broadcast this documentary in Muslim countries? Then, the document seems to suggest that atheism is just not an option. is it because you wanted to focus only on muslims with faith or because it is much too difficult to be openly atheist in Muslim countries?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thank you for your attention,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;maxime &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;# 2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I admire you greatly you have a great sense of faith and courage. It takes a lot to stand up for who you are and what you believe in.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;# 3 (and RICH, I am not from this film ; (&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Do you claim to be an expert on knowing whether gays are interested in religion or not? Most queers are religious/spiritual beings. They are not welcomed in one place they should be, as should all outcasts of society...and that's in a place of worship. Because God doesn't discriminate, people do. Neither Jesus nor the Prophet rejected those on the fringes of society or a minority...they embraced them. Also, what's the connection between a documentary and getting rich off of Islam bashing?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;and the lovely # 4:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;You will be stoned in the after life.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;faggot poop eating sissy boy.      &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1314704768746463476?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1314704768746463476/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1314704768746463476&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1314704768746463476'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1314704768746463476'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/ahlan-chicago.html' title='Ahlan Chicago'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1017380828099622316</id><published>2008-10-08T06:59:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-13T18:18:28.554-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"Thank you for humanizing Islam..."</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPJLZoBlGI/AAAAAAAAAD8/wsQYocvKX58/s1600-h/IMG_7817.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPJLZoBlGI/AAAAAAAAAD8/wsQYocvKX58/s320/IMG_7817.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5256766387766006882" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;150 students and faculty showed up to watch, debate and discuss at the 1929 building of the Michigan League in Ann Arbor last night. The University of Michigan Campus had put together an excellent program.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;One of the key members of the Muslim Students Association, Mohammed Safi, offered by way of introduction to the evening- a case for why theologically, Islam and homosexuality cannot be reconciled. He started with prayer and armed with Quran, also offered particular evidence of why this was not possible. Interestingly, he also made a case for civil discourse.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was deeply touched by his presence as well as the presence of other members of the MSA who came and stayed for an intense discussion that followed, right after they finished their Maghrib prayers. Some of them were missing a meeting of their Executive Board.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Out of everything that Mohammed said, this stays-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Thank you Parvez for humanizing Islam (and Muslims)..."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What also remains is our civil discussion based on his opinion that the two can never be reconciled (Islam and homosexuality). &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Also present was another young Muslim man-Amer Ahmed, who is also a spoken word artist-and can be found at www.dawahpoet.com. Amer spoke eloquently, as a co-sponsor but again left me with a heart warming thank you and a CD of his own work.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Parvez, I am so glad that you (as a Muslim) made this film. I am afraid of what could have happened f this subject matter had fallen into the wrong hands"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A big thank you to Gabe and the Spectrum Center, who worked so hard to include the Muslim students on this 40,000 strong campus and spread the word.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1017380828099622316?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1017380828099622316/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1017380828099622316&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1017380828099622316'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1017380828099622316'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/thank-you-for-humanizing-islam.html' title='&quot;Thank you for humanizing Islam...&quot;'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SPPJLZoBlGI/AAAAAAAAAD8/wsQYocvKX58/s72-c/IMG_7817.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4767452625744639359</id><published>2008-10-03T20:30:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-03T20:31:50.963-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Interesting Email on Race</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Dear Parvez&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; I read your delightful essay on the Unbearable Whiteness of Being on the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Huffington Post.  Yes, White Supremacy is tightly woven into the fabric&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; of America and I am afraid, that even after Barack Obama gets elected,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; that fabric is unlikely to unravel, at least in my lifetime.  Much like&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; the apartheid of caste and class in Indian society, racism in the US&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; breaths freely and unchecked, under the surface of supposed integration&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; of the races into the proverbial but imaginary melting pot.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; I am originally from India and have lived in the Pacific Northwest for&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; over 40 years.  Much has changed in my lifetime.  Racism that was very&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; overt when I first got here is now below the surface.  But the most&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; profound sea change that I have seen is the rapid increase in the&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; non-white population and the concomitant change in the master narrative&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; of what being an American means.  That is what Barack Obama represents.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; The world has changed.  The homogenous has now been replaced by&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; heterogonous flavors (no pun intended here).  White Supremacy will&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; persist, but we will have an option to build communities where class and&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; color are happily embraced.  I reside in a community of friends of all&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; colors who are very mindful and informed on the deceptions of White&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Supremacy.  How do we as individuals, aid and abet the furtherance of&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; that deceit?  Many in our own immigrant Indian communities have carried&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; our bigotries from the birth country and transmogrified them into a&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; license to practice unfettered discrimination against African Americans&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; in this country?  Many of us like to be trophy friends in a room full of&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; well heeled white power brokers.  When we are the only people of color&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; in this room, we need to question our own motives.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; I am myself a filmmaker and would like to see your film Jihad for Love.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Please do let me know how I may be able to obtain a copy of your DVD.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Keep up the good work.  I look forward to hearing from you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; Many Thanks&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4767452625744639359?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4767452625744639359/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4767452625744639359&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4767452625744639359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4767452625744639359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/interesting-email-on-race.html' title='Interesting Email on Race'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8700141157084939999</id><published>2008-10-03T15:26:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-14T20:06:18.836-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ramadan in Tehran...</title><content type='html'>&lt;p style="font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ava, has been writing more from Tehran-and here are two latest posts. She writes with such honesty and in some ways is a perfect window through a 'female gaze' into Tehrani life today. Please read and post your feedback here or send it to me, as you have all been doing (and I will forward your messages to her).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;BLOG POST 1&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;It was around  Iftar time and I was waiting in my car for one of my girl friends. She  was standing in a restaurant's long queue to buy some take away food.  All restaurants and eating- houses get quite busy at this time in Ramadan  because none of them is allowed to sell or serve food to people; even  to children, pregnant women and non Muslims before Iftar.. Drinking,  eating or smoking in public violate the Ramadan ban and is considered  as a crime.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Behind car  windows, I could see people sitting behind the tables, listening to  the prayer from radio with their lips busy murmuring while they were  waiting for the Azan to start eating. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;“Will you  please move your car a bit?” A small boy around 7-8 years old whose  back was bent under a huge white sack asked me. He had collected lots  of dirty used plastic stuff out of people’s trash to sell them as  recycled wastes and make money. My heart shrank. His face was red and  I could see his jaw and face muscles were tense because of that heavy  burden he was carrying on his small arch-shape back. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I moved my  car and said: “Do you want me to get you some food?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;“No, I’ve  got some, God bless you.” he said and slowly went away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I turned and  looked at the people who had already started eating.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt; “Heh…What  a spiritual moment!! Hopefully we will be all blessed and forgiven.  Shame on me, shame on you, shame on all of us.” This was how I felt  at that moment. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;       Suddenly I replaced my own kid’s face with that boy’s face and couldn’t  stop my tears anymore.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I haven’t  seen my son for more than a month. Since the custody of the child goes  to the father according to Islamic civil law, he lives with his father.  Every Thursday his father wishes not to bring him to me, he comes up  with an excuse and sends him away and takes my only chance to see my  own son. I know I’m not the only one but that doesn’t reduce the  pain. I can make a legal case of it in the court and fight for it, but  I’m sure that it just makes the situation worse and more complicated.  I’ve decided to cope with the situation because I cannot imagine him  coming  with his father back and forth to the court and see me  there desperately crying. I’ll cry alone and share my feelings with  you, what are friends for?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Finally my  friend picked up some food and we went home. Far away from the spiritual  moods, we had our dinner and watched a French movie; something that  threw us in another world and space: Diving bell and butterfly. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Later at night  I was home watching the news and reading papers at the same time. I  was glancing over pages and surfing on the words that some pictures  took my attention, the photos of 10 juveniles. At first I thought they  were top students of the year or the Olympiad champions but I got awfully  shocked after I read only the beginning of the article.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;They were all  executed because of the crime they had committed during their adolescence.  One of them had killed his friend during a fight over his dove.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Their faces  will remain in my mind forever. They looked too shy in the photos. They  have now rested in peace without having to demand for justice. But where  the dove is flying to now?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I lit up my  cigarette and went to the balcony. I looked at the high buildings around  me and looked down to the street. It was late and quiet, though some  young boys were standing in a corner chatting and laughing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I reminded  this Ahmad Shamloo’s poem:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;I turn  down from veranda to the dark alley and cry for all the  oppressed in the world.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;BLOG POST 2&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Most of my  friends and the people I know suffer from unpleasant relationships in  their marriages. They’ve either broken up or about to break up. I  hardly see any happy couple around me. Most of the recent marriages  come to an end before the first anniversary, and they end up in court  and have to go back and forth this road three times more than the period  of the marriage. The only friend of mine who succeeded to divorce with  full agreement and with less trouble is still living with her ex in  the same house after 6 years of her divorce. Given the high prices to  rent  a place in Tehran none of them could afford to pay the rent on  their own. Perhaps this is a similar story in all societies. People  are looking for a right match and then when they think they have found  it; they look for the easiest and fastest way to get out of it. Although  there’s no fast way in Iran and most of the divorce cases take ages  to finalize, unless the woman gives up all her legal rights and gets  herself out of the marriage.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt; According  to the statistics since divorce cases take long time to be taken over  by the court, the number of women who committed suicide or killed their  husbands have increased in the last few years. But surprisingly a group  of genius parliamentarians passed a bill in PEOPLES HOUSE to allow  men to have a second wife without their first wife's consent. I wonder  while our young generation who forms 60% of the population is far behind  the costs of a normal decent living and further more not able to pay  the rent and form a simple family, why our parliamentarians come up  with the idea of promoting polygamy? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Sometimes I  feel we are living in medieval era or standing out of space. In this  ironic society where I live, nothing is allowed yet everything is possible.  Having sexual relationship out of a marriage is considered as a big  crime which could lead to stoning to death. But our parliamentarians  might have thought that by passing this bill and expanding the size  of the family men and women won’t have affairs or commit a so called  immoral action. I think they’ve forgotten this old saying: A Haram  one always tastes better! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;But regardless  of the rules and regulations, how far are we allowed to interfere in  people’s privacy? Which point is to be achieved by polygamy? Except  one more step to be taken against the women’s rights and women’s  rights activists! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;And of course  this hot topic of the last week and protest of the women’s rights  activists in front of the  Parliament were not important enough  to be reflected in the State media. Although the government spokesman  openly attacked the State television for having acted independently  and not supporting the government enough!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Instead, in  the other part of the world where people’s privacy is expected to  be respected more than in my country; the hottest news is the pregnancy  of the daughter of Republican Governor of Alaska! And no wonder this  woman knows how to take advantage of her family problems to win people's  hearts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;By all these  extremist rulers either from East or West, where the world is leading  to? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I was thinking  and asking these questions from myself while I was walking toward the  office at the first day of Ramadan.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;When I entered  the building the first thing that took my attention was the fog and  the heavy smoke which was standing half a meter down the ceiling. I  got into the corridor and looked around and saw nobody. Only a couple  of colleagues were standing in a corner.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;“Hi, where  is everybody?” I asked one of them.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;“Happy Ramadan!  They are around.” One of them answered.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;When I opened  the ladies room to wash my hands, I saw all my female colleagues hiding  there. Some were biting their sandwiches and some were smoking!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;-“May your  prayers and fasting be fulfilled.” I said that and laughed.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;-“Same as  yours.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8700141157084939999?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8700141157084939999/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8700141157084939999&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8700141157084939999'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8700141157084939999'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/ramadan-in-tehran.html' title='Ramadan in Tehran...'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7541211284560683539</id><published>2008-10-02T11:40:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-14T20:06:40.487-04:00</updated><title type='text'>A voice from Tehran</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Once again, I reproduce a diary entry from my friend Ava, who blogs from Tehran.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="margin: 1ex; font-weight: bold; font-family: courier new;"&gt;      &lt;div&gt;    &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Today I was  thinking what to write on my weblog for the coming week. I was thinking  of the crazy party I attended last night and was also watching the news  at the same time. Accompanying an old friend of mine I went to a party  50 km away from Tehran in a luxurious villa surrounded by mountains.  When we finally found the place and got there everyone was already stoned.  When I left the place before everyone else, I looked at them wearing  posh clothes with extraordinary heavy make-ups and felt something is  going wrong. I didn’t say good-bye to anyone. The house music  was too loud to even hear any other voice and no one was conscious either.  In the parking lot I saw all the brand new cars which were all bought  by their wealthy parents and asked my self: “What are they trying  to say through this self-destruction?”  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I didn’t  want to think about it anymore and started watching the news of the  State television and then switched to Iranian news channels from United  States which are produced by Iranian residents of The States.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I hardly tolerate  all these channels. The American ones are more based on their wishes  and dreams than reality. It’s amazing that after all these years,  they still interview Shah’s doctor and ask him to explain Shah’s  health condition during the Revolution! &lt;u&gt;And  the Iranian media regardless of the reality and audience’s needs  reports what it is ordered because it is to the best interest of the  society. &lt;/u&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt; “Some people  nag out of boredom but everything is under control and everybody is  happy and our politicians have paved all the ways to help improve the  country more than ever and everything is going to be all right.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;This is the  general impression of our media and daily papers. However compared to  last Ramadan there is a250% inflation on price of Domsiah rice according  to Etemad newspaper. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;Today at 14:00  hours news I saw a western journalist was interviewing our president.  He asked about Iran’s role and it’s influence on the Middle East  and our president replied: ‘What’s America doing here? Tell me where  is Bin-laden?” and the journalist said: “Where?” And then our  president said: “Where?” And the journalist said: “Where?” They  looked at each other and smiled and no comment was needed! I though  should we really follow the news? I left home for the petrol station.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;I couldn’t  stop reading the paper while I was waiting an hour in petrol queue and  some headlines got my attention: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;A young actress's  passport was confiscated at the airport when she intended to leave the  country in order to play a role in an American film! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:130%;" &gt;And 200 parliament  members and a few high clergy men signed a letter asking the government  to punish president's advisor for his positive comment on Israeli citizens  and so on….I asked myself: do those young boys and girls I saw last  night care about this news? Do they know what’s going on in the world?  I concluded that they were satisfied if they could forget the reality  and at the end they would say “We did it! In spite of all restrictions  we made it.” And that makes them happy.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;When it was  finally my turn to fill gas, they ran out of petrol. I got off my car  and went inside to check when it was less busy to come back. The young  boy said: “Come back around 5.” I said: “Okay, see you in a bit.”  And got into my car, then he shouted: “No, I meant 5 in the morning!”  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: courier new;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7541211284560683539?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7541211284560683539/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7541211284560683539&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7541211284560683539'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7541211284560683539'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/10/voice-from-tehran.html' title='A voice from Tehran'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-2396307850161097863</id><published>2008-09-30T12:38:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-30T13:12:42.461-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"The Muslims" and that Annual "Eid Thing"!!!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So just had a conversation with someone who said to me-"Isn't your Eid thing today?"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Well...someone also just told me that I should be a "social satirist"...when I was traveling over the weekend.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Given all of that, here's the deal...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Ok Fellow Muslims and soon to be Muslims!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A Muslim professor friend of mine canceled her class tomorrow after talking to a Jewish professor who was doing the same for Yom Kippur! Enough of us not having our holy days! More Power to her! If "the Jews"can have their holidays and eat them too, so can "the Muslims"! (and then once the whole world has been 'converted' to Islam according to plans afoot for that infamous "caliphate", it will of course be a different story!) ; ) Because, if, we allow that to happen then everybody will be a Muslim, right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I think Sarah Palin and Mr. Ten Percent (the randy husband of the slain Dukhtar-e-Mashriq-Mr Asif Zardari, now calling himself the President of Pakistan!) had an early Eid, when he almost wanted to "hug" her! Only Allah swt knows what was going on in his dirty little mind (always in the gutter?) May Allah swt bless Sarah Palin and her "ideal "Muslim" family" in these times of the tremendous hardship she faces...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Also amid the annual confusion about when Eid actually is, the Fiqh Council of North Amreeka says it is tomorrow!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Now I am an out, loud and proud servant of the Fiqh Council, so I feel my Eid will be tomorrow. When is your Eid, my friends?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Check out this latest email from Eric:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Hi Parvez -- enjoyed your film "A Jihad of Love" over the weekend in Seattle at the South Asian Film Festival! Well done! The film introduces the subject with compelling narratives from the individuals you met and interviewed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" class="text_exposed_hide"&gt;...  &lt;span class="text_exposed_link"&gt;&lt;a onclick="'CSS.addClass($("&gt;Read More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" class="text_exposed_show"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;, and offers audiences a rare glimpse into their lives experiencing personal and religious change, and reveals the politics of identity, culture, nationality, and place. Thanks, again, for sharing your film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And this from Atlanta:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Thanks for stopping in Atlanta with the film. It was both painful and beautiful to look in on those lives. I appreciate your work, man.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Andres writes about my &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/the-unbearable-whiteness_b_128594.html"&gt;op-ed on Huffington,&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt; last week&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;read your piece in the huffington post and have to say that one line reverberated with me: i too was at a fundraiser dinner for a statewide lgbt organization and was seated with 3 guys from the local chapter of the log cabin republicans. since i have light skin, i guess they felt free to talk about how they loved george w bush (this was during the 1st term) and a discussion on whether jeb bush would be the 3rd bush president. then they started talking about the brown one... his nephew george p. bush, and the thought of his children - or all those little brown feet - walking through the white house&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So, please go there and comment if you agree and more importantly, if you disagree...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;NOW LETS JUST PRAY TO ALLAH SWT THAT OBAMA IS NOT SECRETLY CELEBRATING EID TODAY!!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-2396307850161097863?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/2396307850161097863/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=2396307850161097863&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2396307850161097863'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2396307850161097863'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/muslims-and-that-annual-eid-thing.html' title='&quot;The Muslims&quot; and that Annual &quot;Eid Thing&quot;!!!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5203472091253245359</id><published>2008-09-28T11:15:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-28T11:16:11.659-04:00</updated><title type='text'>How do you put up with this Parvez?</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;This email from Raazi:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; How do you put up with this Parvez? :( I feel sorry for you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Don't you, at times, wish to sleep for a couple of centuries, and wake up in a world free of homophobia?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Peace, my friend. I admire you for your relentless courage. Love and regards. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5203472091253245359?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5203472091253245359/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5203472091253245359&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5203472091253245359'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5203472091253245359'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/how-do-you-put-up-with-this-parvez.html' title='How do you put up with this Parvez?'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-6696723087179293258</id><published>2008-09-26T07:57:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-26T08:38:42.497-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"Thank God You are NOT Irshad Manji" and Syracuse MSA: This film is disingenuous in its claims...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;That first comment came from a young Saudi student who had listened to a talk with the aforementioned author. She said that even as a woman, deeply "aware" of all of Saudi Arabia's problems, she had found that talk "revolting". Interesting, to be compared...&lt;br /&gt;More than 200 students and others showed up to debate the film with me last night at the swank new theater on the Syracuse campus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;After an afternoon talking to a class of documentary filmmakers about the challenges of making this, my first film, I expected the evening to be fiery.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;And fiery it was. Members of the Muslim Students Association, who incidentally did not co-sponsor my visit to this campus showed up including a young African American Muslim man who made the comment above. He was quiet clear about how the Quran explicitly condemns homosexuality and we engaged in a compelling back and forth. A young Arab student who agreed with some of the principles of the film was extremely disturbed by the scene that depicts Mazen belly-dancing in Paris. (This is not the first time an Arab audience member has raised that concern).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A great deal of discussion ensued about 'hudud' (simply, boundaries) in Islam, about the different 'Madhabs' (schools of thought) and about the validity of a discussion on homosexuality taking place at all in these times of Islamophobia.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The young MSA students continued talking to me after and yes, it was a civil debate.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;However an older Egyptian 'hijabi' woman and her husband intervened and said:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"You should give him (that would be me) a Break! Its Ramadan!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;They got drawn into the discussion as well-they live in the neighbourhood and did not hear about the film from the MSA but through 'American' friends. They came and they appreciated it tremendously, and disagreed as well. This couple in their fourties are one of many who were questioned (unfairly) by the FBI in the aftermath of September 11. Interestingly my discussion with the older lady moved into the idea of men and women being separated (with a separate section for women) in the mosques. This is a debate she is having with her husband. She believes there should not be a separate section for women. Her husband disagrees. I urged them to contact my Muslimah Love Jihadi friend, Asra Nomani who has written urgently and articulately about that very subject.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;What an amazing night! As the Muslims debated furiously, some of the "Americans" watched in fascination and many pointed out similarities with the Christian Church!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;And yes we even managed to discuss Sarah Palin and Obama ; )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;More soon as I head to Seattle!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;And here is an email from Thomas who also just saw the film:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hello Parvez,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  I just returned home from watching A Jihad For Love.&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  I would like to take the time to thank you for your effort and determination in making this movie! It is extremely important. I was touched by what one of the ladies at the counselor workshop said, about the duty of every person to educate themselves and learn about their spiritual believes. This is so true for every religion, not just Islam!&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  Also, I would like to mention a thought, in the hope it might help you or any of the people you're in contact with: I find, that Allah, God, Jehova, the Universe - no matter how you call it - does not work by super-natural actions. Rather, divine intervention is always (at least in my experience) implemented by a human. I find we are equipped with our talents (and homo-sexuality, I feel is a special talent in this context) and placed in the environment we find ourselves, because there is divine intervention necessary. We are the change-agents that cause the change to the status quo. Some of us find ourselves in a very difficult, and dangerous position. I see that as an indication, that we are special, as we have to endure suffering to cause positive change. The lady in Saudi Arabia, who was raped on the beach, and then sentenced to lashes, is another example. Through her suffering, the rest of the world has learned about the grim legal situation in this country. Through her change has been initated - not yet completed, but started. I have a credo, that is helping me make it through difficult times: &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;It is not so important what happens TO me;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;What matters is, what happens THROUGH me!&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  I am the tool of the Universe, through which the devlopment of this creation is continued... It doesn't matter what religious background one comes from. The essence of all religions is the same: love, respect of god's creation, of which all of us are part of.&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Like one of the girls in Turkey said: God made us the way we are. I am sure, he wants us that way. He knows what he is doing. Just because I may not understand the reason, doesn't mean he didn't have one...&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  There is one more thing I would like to mention, in regards of the scholar in South Afrika, who said that one con not make an interpretation of the Qu'ran. Our langugae does not allow us to explain spiritual ideas and concepts clearly. We need to use analgoies, pictures, models. Any explanantion of a spiritual model is an interpretation. Just because that interpretation is centuries old, doesn't make it not be an interpretation. I find, it is time for us to follow the lead of the lady in South Afrika, and think for ourselves about what was meant with what is written in various spiritual texts. And it is time, that outdated, obviously human, non-divine content is slowly removed from our interpretations.&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;p style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  Again, thank your for your work! It is very important what you are doing - Allah depends on you to help break through the petrified misinterpretations, and bring the message to this world. All my best and much success!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-6696723087179293258?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/6696723087179293258/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=6696723087179293258&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6696723087179293258'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6696723087179293258'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/syracuse-msa-this-film-is-disingenuous.html' title='&quot;Thank God You are NOT Irshad Manji&quot; and Syracuse MSA: This film is disingenuous in its claims...'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4396109693921436780</id><published>2008-09-25T06:08:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-25T06:11:07.083-04:00</updated><title type='text'>May Allah protect us from this.</title><content type='html'>&lt;p style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Another email from Amina, after Muhsin responded citing some of the Quranic 'evidence'. I withhold comment at this point.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Hello muhsin and parves,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Sorry for the late reply, been busy. Yes I would like to continue talking about this issue. The following is my opinion based on my education thus far, I have derived some othe wording from an Islamic website.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;First, I would like to appologise for calling you a non-Muslim or detesting your righteousness, I have no right to do so, however, when something that is undoubtedly prohibited in Islam is made permissible by someone on his own accord, then that person is deemed a kafir (non-Muslim). Homosexuality in all its dimensions is forbidden (will explain soon) and you as an imam are declaring it halal, you are a sympothiser and an advocate for it, and parves, you're adopting it! Hence strictly speaking, homosexual 'muslims' aren't really muslims, just because they believe in Allah or God means nothing because you have atheists and other non-Muslim homosexuals who also believe in God.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Second you say homosexuals struggle with their sexuality as it is something innate and cannot be wished away.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The fact that Allah orders homosexuals (as He did via Prophet Lut to the homosexuals in his place, Sodom) to repent and leave it, shows that homosexuality is something that is not compulsive brought upon them by their genes without a choice, but rather Allah's ordering them to stop shows that they are able to stop it if they wanted. If they couldn't have stopped this, Allah would not have ordered them to nor punished them for something not in their hands. But Allah referred to it as a fahisha (an obscenity and a sin) and the homosexuals as those having &lt;em&gt;"transgressing all bounds,"&lt;/em&gt; [Quran 7:80-81]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;وَلُوطًا إِذْ قَالَ لِقَوْمِهِ أَتَأْتُونَ الْفَاحِشَةَ مَا سَبَقَكُم بِهَا مِنْ أَحَدٍ مِّن الْعَالَمِينَ"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;إِنَّكُمْ لَتَأْتُونَ الرِّجَالَ شَهْوَةً مِّن دُونِ النِّسَاء بَلْ أَنتُمْ قَوْمٌ مُّسْرِفُونَ&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;And (remember) Lut, when he said to his people: &lt;em&gt;"Do you commit the fahishah (worst obscene sin) such as none preceding you has committed in the worlds? Verily, you practice your lusts on men instead of women. Nay, but you are a people transgressing beyond bounds (musrifoon)."&lt;/em&gt; [Quran Surah A'araaf 7:80-81]&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;To this day, I have never heard of Prophet Mohamed asw sympothising with 'gay' people who upheld prayer. I do not know who Everett Rowson is but it doesn't sound very Islamic. On the contrary, the Prophet asw said that what he feared for his ummah after him, the most, was homosexuality. And I am sure you know some of the signs of the day of judgment is man immitating women and women immitating me, men going after men and women going after women. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;It is our responsibility to point out the error in your deeds, for a Muslim is one who wishes for his brother what he wishes for himself, I dislike to see you guys so utterly misguided, yes I agree Allah sw is our judge but we also need to enjoin good and forbid evil, a commandment placed on us since day one. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I don't think you can say this is your right, or gay pride or anything like that, you and all your rights are the property of Allah sw.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;As for a Muslim, it is sufficient for him to know that his Creator, Who has more right on him than he himself, severely detests a homosexual act to be committed by anyone, as learnt from the Quranic verse quoted above [Quran 7:80-81].&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I agree you said lets be Muslims about this and provide burhan (evidence). I have provided you with some burhan, I hope you can accept it for what it is, rather going around circles and making up commentaries to suit your unnatural desires. I disagree about your interpretation of homosexuality being innate as explained earlier. And in the Quran, it's quite clear that sodomy, homosexuality, anal sex, rape, desire for the same gender...are all dirty and abhored in the sight of Allah. Allah sw has not allowed one and forbidden the other. They are all equally sick. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;But having said that truly all praise is for Allah – not a door did He shut (such as homosexuality) that would lead to extreme behaviour by prohibiting it in Islam, except that He left others (such as heterosexual marriage) wide open – paths that are balanced, upright and in conformity with the sound human nature that He Created us on, for a noble purpose.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Marriage to the opposite gender is natural and is encouraged. The fact that homosexuality is forbidden is testified in nature, you will never find 'homosexual' animals, otherwise, our very existence would seize to exist. And Im sure you know of the creation story where Allah sw created Adam (a man) and Hawa (a women) so that they may find comfort with each other and placed love and mercy between the two. There is a lesson in that for us. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;Regarding the punishment I mentioned earlier with which the sodomites endured, here is the Quranic verse:  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Verily, by your life (O Muhammad), in their wild intoxication they were wandering blindly. So As Saliha (torment, awful cry etc) overtook them at the time of sunrise; and We turned (the towns of Sodom in Palestine) upside down and &lt;strong&gt;rained down on them stones of baked clay&lt;/strong&gt;. Surely! In this are signs for those who see (or understand or learn the lessons from the Signs of Allah). And verily! They (the cities) are right on the highroad (from Mecca to Syria, i.e. the place where the Dead Sea is now). Surely! Therein is indeed a sign for the believers." (15:51-77 Quran). The commantary I have at home supports what I mentioned earlier about this 3 fold punishment being such that no previous nation endured...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The punishment aside, I am not interesting in having a negative effect you, I simply want to point out its gravity and filth in the sight of Allah sw.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Regarding respect for Ramadan, I agree that we should respect everyone and be good all year round but my point was, we should at least feel ashamed because it is Ramadan, a month that is more beautiful than the others and deserves our utmost respect.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;color:#000000;"&gt;And finally &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="color:#000000;"&gt;"A`adhana Allah min dhalik" May Allah protect us from this.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;I look forward to hearing from you, please be specific and address all the points I raised as I addressed all the points you raised. I pray Allah sw will guide us all and bless us with His mercy. I also pray that you guys will inshala find beautiful, pious women whom you will get married to and have children from.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;Ameen&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;Thank you both for reading this and take care&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family: Arial;"&gt;Amina&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4396109693921436780?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4396109693921436780/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4396109693921436780&amp;isPopup=true' title='5 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4396109693921436780'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4396109693921436780'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/may-allah-protect-us-from-this.html' title='May Allah protect us from this.'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>5</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-4874241019723898664</id><published>2008-09-23T12:25:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-23T12:28:56.664-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Unbearable Whiteness of Being</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;My latest op-ed on the US election is on the Huffington Post&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Click here to get directly to that page&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/parvez-sharma/the-unbearable-whiteness_b_128594.html"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The Unbearable Whiteness of Being, by Parvez Sharma&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-4874241019723898664?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/4874241019723898664/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=4874241019723898664&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4874241019723898664'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/4874241019723898664'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/unbearable-whiteness-of-being.html' title='The Unbearable Whiteness of Being'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7258050543968040213</id><published>2008-09-23T09:45:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-23T09:48:36.191-04:00</updated><title type='text'>700,000 LOVE JIHADIS</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;Thats right, and that is a conservative number.&lt;br /&gt;But after one year-this, my first film in its first year has been seen in an estimated 25 nations and by atleast 700,000 people after also being broadcast in France and Germany (and beyond on Arte/ZDF) last week.&lt;br /&gt;This is cause for celebration and finally the overwhelming success of a very Muslim film with a very Muslim voice!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7258050543968040213?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7258050543968040213/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7258050543968040213&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7258050543968040213'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7258050543968040213'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/700000-love-jihadis.html' title='700,000 LOVE JIHADIS'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1365819103228634843</id><published>2008-09-22T09:26:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-22T09:30:36.202-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Two Telling Emails</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This one from AMINA GHAFOOR (who I dont think has seen this film) and it is helpfully titled "gay/leso "muslims" '&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;That's discusting and false terminology. There is no such thing as gay and lesbeian 'Muslims' because a Muslim is one who submits to God, and God orders humans not to engage in sodomy. So if someone engages in sodomy, then they are NOT muslims hence cannot be called Muslim gay/les.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Secondly, I feel sorry for you parvez, I wonder what made you lead such a lifestyle. I hope you see the error in what you are doing and repent before it's too late. The people of Lut who were homosexuals were punished like the way a nation was never punished before, 3 folds of torment overtook them, their nation was turned upside down, the wind stopped blowing and furthermore stones from hell with their names on it were pelted at them. I think there is a lesson in that for us. I don't mean to scare you with punishment, rather to enlighten you about the gravity of your crime, yes it is a crime in Islam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; It's the month of Ramadan, can't you show some respect for it? And do turn to God, may He guide you before you misguide any more people.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; And regarding the 'imam' Muhsin, dude, what have you got to say about all this? Are a fake imam or something? Be a man and stand up and speak out against this. If it is done in the name of Islam (i.e. Muslim gay/les) then we shall speak out against it, if you don't want us to speak out against it, then do your dirty thing in another name, don't try and seek popularity and fame in the name of Islam. I also fear for your safety.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Hope you see the sincerity in this email&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This one below from CLEO in Atlanta who just saw the film there:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Parvez - &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Just caught your movie here in Atlanta. I was deeply moved and found this incredibly enlightening. I have been following the problems of gays and lesbians in the middle east for some time, especially since problems in Iraq and Iran. Especially as the US has stepped into Iraq and turned a blind eye to this suffering. I even edited a poetry anthology of poets in the US writing on the subject "Outside the Green Zone", we even had fundraisers for some of the human rights groups to help with the safe houses and raise awareness. It's a very frustrating thing to see how easy it is for people to look away from this problem. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;You may ask "why does any one from Atlanta - care so much about this" as I said in the forward of my book, I grew up in a very fundamentalist baptist household and conserative culture in rural North Carolilna. Home of Jessie Helms the very right-wing congressman. People (especially gays) in this country forget we are not so far from this situation ourselves. I grew up with the KKK, the Klu Klux Klan, they were a self-appointed cultural enforcement group that wore hoods to hide their true identities. But they charged themselves to enforce "cultural laws" that were becoming increasingly attacked by a liberalizing society in the 50s and 60s. They were often lawyers and judges, policeman, and politicians, they would drag anyone they felt threatened our society out of their home and lynch them or burn them alive, often leaving their bodies out as warnings. This included, particularly blacks, foreigners, gays, jews, and anyone that seemed to help or aid these groups. the first warning you would get would be a burning cross in your yard, a warning of the coming "wrath of god." When i was twelve I was actually taken to a KKK rally, this was seen as something any teenage boy in our area was expected to do. My parents looked the other way while my older friends took me, but they all knew what was going on. The whole rally was just pure hate, vitriol against all the people that were threatening society, and were not following god's word, all the misfits and deviants , made less than human - needing to be killed and made examples of. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;So you can see, when I hear what is going on in the middle east under Islamic extremism I'm reminded of that rally with the burning crosses, and dozens of hooded men, meeting in secret deep in the woods, around a bonfire. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;It's a battle we all face in religious communities. How do we fit in? And each commuinty must learn from each of these challenges. We suffer in the South from some of the same problems as seen in your film, Biblical literalist that pick and choose and interpret verses to reinforce their own prejudices. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;But about your movie - I found the representation of all the different facets of Islam very interesting. That it's not one monolithic religion. Much as we here in the states have traditional Christianity, but we have fundamentalists, baptists, presbyterians, catholics, etc., etc. all reading from the same book, but comging away with different readings. Some taking each verse literally and looking for what makes people sinners, what punishement they should be given - then some looking for the underlying love of a compassionate loving power. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Some of the most promising words I heard were the older woman in the group discussion on homosexuality and Islam. That each person was challenged to grow and learn from birth, to always question, to always think for themselves - we need much more of that. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;So many of the people featured in your movie are such brave heroes. Such unbelieveably brave and heroic figures. I fear sometimes that gays and lesbians here in the U.S. have it too easy. It's always a struggle, but compared to what so many of these characters of going through, we only suffer a small splinter, a small discomfort. I hope that Ameican audiences will realize when they see your film, that in this country, where our community is so blessed we owe it to our brothers and sisters everywhere in the world where they are oppressed to raise our voices and do what we can. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thanks so much for you wonderful film. I will do what I can here in Atlanta to talk it up and insist my friends see it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;- CLEO&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1365819103228634843?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1365819103228634843/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1365819103228634843&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1365819103228634843'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1365819103228634843'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/two-telling-emails.html' title='Two Telling Emails'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5981405927582293843</id><published>2008-09-19T11:44:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-19T13:11:33.306-04:00</updated><title type='text'>"you're actually showing this movie DURING Ramadan?"</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This is the title and content of an email I have just received! I think it speaks for itself...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5981405927582293843?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5981405927582293843/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5981405927582293843&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5981405927582293843'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5981405927582293843'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/youre-actually-showing-this-movie.html' title='&quot;you&apos;re actually showing this movie DURING Ramadan?&quot;'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8011059189056268880</id><published>2008-09-19T11:44:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-19T11:50:12.580-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Atlanta Opens Tonight and College Tour Begins</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The amazing theatrical run of Jihad continues across the United States!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Today the film opens at the Landmark Midtown Art Cinema in Atlanta. We need huge weekend numbers so please tell all your friends in Atlanta and buy your tickets at &lt;a href="http://www.landmarktheatres.com/Market/Atlanta/Atlanta_Frameset.htm"&gt;this link&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There are so many reasons to see this film. One of them is right here in a message from Pierrick, a recent viewer:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;A beautiful testimony of belief, strength, life &amp;amp; love! This movie can have meaningful &amp;amp; intense aftershocks ;)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;ALSO I AM TAKING MY JIHAD (and NOW YOURS) across the US on a College Tour! Email me at parvezsharma@gmail.com to get details on how to bring this film to YOUR campus.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8011059189056268880?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8011059189056268880/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8011059189056268880&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8011059189056268880'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8011059189056268880'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/atlanta-opens-tonight-and-college-tour.html' title='Atlanta Opens Tonight and College Tour Begins'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7021803149035641392</id><published>2008-09-18T12:30:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-18T16:11:51.151-04:00</updated><title type='text'>European Broadcast TONIGHT!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Jihad will be on air on ARTE and its affiliates across Europe tonight watched by millions in Europe and also in the Middle East.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Check showtimes, tell friends and watch this history making documentary, TONIGHT!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7021803149035641392?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7021803149035641392/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7021803149035641392&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7021803149035641392'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7021803149035641392'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/european-broadcast-tonight.html' title='European Broadcast TONIGHT!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1298780410218088836</id><published>2008-09-17T12:22:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-17T13:08:34.875-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Pain, Palin, Jihad</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;As the Sarah Pain-McSame ticket becomes increasingly indistinguishable from the platform Ahmadinejad (of Eye-Ran) ran on (and won) in 2005 and as we commemorate the fact that like Ms. Palin, Mr. Nejad was also a mayor. One big difference-Tehran has more than 15 million souls, Wasilla has about 6, 000 people and Alaska has about 700, 000 people- (some of this does not need to be connected, but when you look at the issues, SarahBull sounds like Ayatollah Ali Khameini)...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Well as all of this happens and it becomes easier, always to connect the dots I ran into two interesting little articles about the film- (there are many more but I only post the ones people send me links to)...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;One in the mostly pro-Zionist, Jewish Daily Forward, problematically (and hardly originally) titled 'Trembling Before Allah'-I had a few reservations talking to them initially primarily because of their editorial slant...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.forward.com/articles/14174/"&gt;read it here &lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;and decide for yourselves.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Another nice little feature runs in Williamette Week and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://wweek.com/columns/qw/#34.45"&gt;that is here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jihad continues doing strongly and opens in Atlanta this weekend-please tell all your friends!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;There are hundreds of emails I continue getting and some I do reproduce here (not possible for all to fit in...and certainly not possible for me, right now to reply to all of these wonderful people...)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"I saw your film on Sunday @ 4 along w/discussion. I just wanted to let you know how moved and informed I was by your work. Thank you for making the film. For me, as a white American, I knew very little about the details of the gay struggle for Muslims in their home countries. I was very drawn into to all of the stories. Again, thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"      Keep going Parvez! The only way to open firmly closed minds is to keep drilling little holes in them.     "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"To every one who is happy about this .. do you know what the sentence for this act is .     "&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"That's a necessty to work more on this subject.Thanks a lot Parvez Sharma for this work and this courage. We needed it in the muslim world."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"This is insane, just getting fame in the name of islam. huh!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"There is NO CONCEPT of being gay or a lesbo in ISLAM, It prohibits such homo things and a muslim would never do this i repeat a MUSLIM WOULD NEVER DO THIS. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Just read the verses from Quran, where it mentions the whole nation i.e Kaum - Loot (of lesbian n gays) was destroyed since they didn't obey words of GOD (Quran).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I'd say only this is Bullshit!!!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"You are a cunt and you are gay﻿ fuckin propagandist no propergaandoo"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;(my footnote on this last one: "Gandoo" is the pejorative in Hindi/Urdu for someone who 'takes it up the ass", literally)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1298780410218088836?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1298780410218088836/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1298780410218088836&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1298780410218088836'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1298780410218088836'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/pain-palin-jihad.html' title='Pain, Palin, Jihad'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-5082301663052004006</id><published>2008-09-08T22:09:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-08T22:51:37.489-04:00</updated><title type='text'>The Best Review</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" class="Apple-style-span" &gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;Knowing that most opinions are not humble, in my humble opinion the best review of this film so far was written by Philip Kennicott for the Washington Post, and indeed was read widely by the sell out audiences in DC this weekend. Philip seems to have done a thoughtful viewing of my layered film and offers analysis as opposed to frustrated (or ignorant) judgement.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2008/09/04/AR2008090403231.html"&gt;You can find it here&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I quote:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Sharma is right to keep his focus tight. He is interested in the faithful, and their conflicts, not the broader cultural issues surrounding sex and Islamic society -- though he can't help but show the second-class status that women generally suffer in many Islamic countries. His focus on religion -- and this particular religion's almost universal hostility to same-sex love -- means that there can be no answers to the spiritual searching of many of his characters. Which leads to a strange division of sympathy in the viewer. Sharma's characters want acceptance from people who refuse to give it, and at some point, you want to tell them: Leave. Get out. Be done with the madness that oppresses you. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-5082301663052004006?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/5082301663052004006/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=5082301663052004006&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5082301663052004006'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/5082301663052004006'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/best-review.html' title='The Best Review'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7334058340855899919</id><published>2008-09-08T07:48:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-08T22:53:23.762-04:00</updated><title type='text'>THIRD NIGHT is a SMASH HIT</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So DC loves Jihad ; )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The third day had two almost capacity shows at 4 40 and 7 20&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Make sure that your local theater knows how much all of you love this film&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This interesting email from a Muslim woman in the audience who gets it...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Parvez-As Salaamu Alaikum Ramadan Mubarak:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I saw your film last night and as a Muslim I was proud of your thoughtful and poignant film. You presented Islam intelligently which promoted the beauty of Islam while also, exposing Muslims to their own heterogeneity and presumptions. Culture drives much of the way Muslims respond to things and their subjected interpretations, the cultural expressions were powerfully displayed and meaningful. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Islam would never reject the believer. The people you introduced us to were undoubtedly believers whose immutable beliefs could not be shaken even if the cultural interpretations are narrow and inhumane. Thank ALLAH, for the mothers and children who showed their love unconditionally. I am spreading the word to Muslims in my community challenging them to see this most important film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hajjah Benita from Baltimore &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Will be writing more soon about others who have been deeply touched here including the Indian Muslim father of a dear friend last night.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7334058340855899919?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7334058340855899919/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7334058340855899919&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7334058340855899919'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7334058340855899919'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/third-night-is-smash-hit.html' title='THIRD NIGHT is a SMASH HIT'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-358161285674933768</id><published>2008-09-07T11:54:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-07T11:54:39.845-04:00</updated><title type='text'>SECOND NIGHT IN DC SELLS OUT AS WELL!</title><content type='html'>More coming soon....&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-358161285674933768?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/358161285674933768/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=358161285674933768&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/358161285674933768'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/358161285674933768'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/second-night-in-dc-sells-out-as-well.html' title='SECOND NIGHT IN DC SELLS OUT AS WELL!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3669486335766207084</id><published>2008-09-06T11:29:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-06T11:49:47.318-04:00</updated><title type='text'>SELL OUT IN DC!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;With a hurricane approaching this town (which one hopes the Republicans will soon leave) the film sold out last night...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;SOLD OUT, YES! IN DC...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A South-Asian man said to me:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; "We have been so excited-this is the first non-white gay film we have felt strongly about in a long time!"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This is not a surprising comment to me at all, given the Caucasian-ness that is so pervasive all around us and in this year, when all of Americas dirty racial laundry will be up for everyone to see...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Regardless-it was a moving night with a 40 minute Q&amp;amp;A- Joining us on stage were two people who are very special to me-both straight Muslims- Asra Nomani, author of 'Standing Alone in Mecca' and a fellow fearless love jihadi; ) and Zahir Janmohamed from Amnesty International.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Shirine was so inspired that she wrote a poem and here it is!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A poem inspired by Jihad for Love...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Why Choose Hate?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; By Shirine Hossaini&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; I sit and watch their pain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; displayed before my eyes&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; what do people gain&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; from suffering and lies?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; I cannot hold my tears&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; my feelings are too strong&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; though I've tried for years&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; they always say 'you're wrong'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Why should people struggle&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; when all they want is love&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; life is such a juggle&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; it's noone's right to shove&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; for every stone you throw&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; a count is being kept&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; when you die you'll know&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; how many mothers wept&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; every tear they shed&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; for every lonely night&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; will haunt you though you're dead&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; so why not make it right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; use your faith to guide&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; and open up your mind&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; nothing left to hide&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; you'll leave this world behind&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; learn to live&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; before it's too late&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; learn to give&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; and I'll reciprocate!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3669486335766207084?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3669486335766207084/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3669486335766207084&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3669486335766207084'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3669486335766207084'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/sell-out-in-dc.html' title='SELL OUT IN DC!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7387237626287214258</id><published>2008-09-01T10:56:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-09-01T11:01:16.219-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Ramadan 1429</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span&gt;As Ramadan begins I share with you this new email. Ramadan Karim to all of you and your loved ones. And as a friend said:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Wishing you one month of Ramadan,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Four weeks of Barakat,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;30 days of Forgiveness,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;720 hours of Guidance,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;43200 minutes of Purification,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;2592000 seconds of Nur....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Good afternoon, Mr. Sharma.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I had the great fortune of meeting you on Monday, August 25th and a screening for your film at the Lumiere Theater in San Francisco.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The journey began with an email sent by my dear friend Marc Smolowicz to support the film soon after I heard a piece on Up Front's radio show about the piece.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was drawn to see the film when I heard the clip of the South African imam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was working in another part of the city and am trying to commit more to public transportation, so was rushing to the busstop after a full day of setting up interviews for teaching artists for our school programs. I am a program director of a youth arts organization in San Francisco. My treat after a long day was to be infused with your film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The bus arrived late and I got to the movie ticket window to purchase my ticket a few minutes after 7 pm. The kind woman took my card and ID and the purchase came back denied.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;It's an ATM card and indeed had a positive balance so I insisted that I call my bank. I was going to see the film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The staff at the Lumiere was gracious enough for me to use their phone, sit in the ticket office, and resolve the issue. Sure enough there was an error on the bank's end. While the bank representative was on the phone the ticket agent ran the card and my ticket was purchased.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was so relieved!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I quietly and quickly rushed into the theater. The lights had gone dark and the film had started. I moved near the front and settled into my seat and placed my backpack next to me.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was overlooking the ocean in South Africa and then following a penguin.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The dialog in the car between the imam and his children was sweet and honest. It reminded me of working with the youth I serve. The questions and responses come from a place of honesty one rarely gets from adults in "official" contexts.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Then on to Iran. Then on to Turkey...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I didn't know what to expect. I suppose I expected another lovely film about gay life, but this time set in the Muslim world. But I was touched to see Islam portrayed as a faith and not as a "regime", "other", "evil", "conservative", or "extremist".&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was raised Catholic, so I laugh whenever I see catholicism mis-portrayed by the news and media. There are still times when I have to explain the whole "3-in-1" God thing.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;And I have some friends who are Muslim, so I feel I have a little handle on tradition and faith. I'm not surprised when Ramadan suddenly starts up again with its roving location on the Gregorian calendar because of how it falls in the lunar cycle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;But, honestly, I know Islam more factually through the news I seek. Some alternative news, but I don't understand Arabic yet in a way to get a non-news take on Islam. (Unless the Axis of Evil Comedy Tour counts.) Until this film, I had never seen women engage in Islam so intimately.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;And I knew that was because of the gender holding the camera.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I've only ever seen men in mosque and set out prayer rugs.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I was so touched to see loving devotion in this way by women.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Thank you for filling in a blank spot in my understanding of how women devote themselves in their faith.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I also wanted to thank you for taking the time to answer the questions in the audience and being so kind as to shake my hand at the end of the screening. You allowed yourself to be vulnerable and shared how profound of an experience this was to create.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;And I am excited for your next project, especially if it's a Bollywood film!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Please continue to pursue your work with the care and craft that you have in this movie. I'd be honored to thank you with a meal the next time you come to the Bay Area.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I look forward to continuing to support your work.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7387237626287214258?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7387237626287214258/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7387237626287214258&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7387237626287214258'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7387237626287214258'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/09/ramadan-1429.html' title='Ramadan 1429'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1213498684669179210</id><published>2008-08-25T13:25:00.000-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-25T13:27:17.466-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Islam 'recognizes homosexuality' (Jakarta Post)</title><content type='html'>&lt;h1 style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 24pt;"&gt;Islam 'recognizes homosexuality'&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Abdul Khalik&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt; ,  The Jakarta Post ,  Jakarta   |  Fri, 03/28/2008 1:38 AM  |  Headlines&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Homosexuals and homosexuality are natural and created by God, thus permissible within Islam, a discussion concluded here Thursday.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Moderate Muslim scholars said there were no reasons to reject homosexuals under Islam, and that the condemnation of homosexuals and homosexuality by mainstream ulema and many other Muslims was based on narrow-minded interpretations of Islamic teachings. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Siti Musdah Mulia of the Indonesia Conference of Religions and Peace cited the Koran's al-Hujurat (49:3) that one of the blessings for human beings was that all men and women are equal, regardless of ethnicity, wealth, social positions or even sexual orientation. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"There is no difference between lesbians and nonlesbians. In the eyes of God, people are valued based on their piety," she told the discussion organized by nongovernmental organization Arus Pelangi.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;   &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"And talking about piety is God's prerogative to judge," she added.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"The essence of the religion (Islam) is to humanize humans, respect and dignify them." &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Musdah said homosexuality was from God and should be considered natural, adding it was not pushed only by passion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;em&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Mata Air&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/em&gt; magazine managing editor Soffa Ihsan said Islam's acknowledgement of heterogeneity should also include homosexuality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;He said Muslims needed to continue to embrace &lt;em&gt;&lt;i&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;"&gt;ijtihad&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/em&gt; (the process of making a legal decision by independent interpretation of the Koran and the Sunnah) to avoid being stuck in the old paradigm without developing open-minded interpretations.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Another speaker at the discussion, Nurofiah of the Nahdlatul Ulama (NU), said the dominant notion of heterogeneity was a social construction, leading to the banning of homosexuality by the majority.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"Like gender bias or patriarchy, heterogeneity bias is socially constructed. It would be totally different if the ruling group was homosexuals," she said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Other speakers said the magnificence of Islam was that it could be blended and integrated into local culture.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"In fact, Indonesia 's culture has accepted homosexuality. The homosexual group in Bugis-Makassar tradition called Bissu is respected and given a high position in the kingdom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"Also, we know that in Ponorogo ( East Java ) there has been acknowledgement of homosexuality," Arus Pelangi head Rido Triawan said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Condemnation of homosexuality was voiced by two conservative Muslim groups, the Indonesian Ulema Council (MUI) and Hizbut Thahir Indonesia (HTI).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;"It's a sin. We will not consider homosexuals an enemy, but we will make them aware that what they are doing is wrong," MUI deputy chairman Amir Syarifuddin said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:100%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size: 12pt;"&gt;Rokhmat, of the hardline HTI, several times asked homosexual participants in attendance to repent and force themselves to gradually return to the right path. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1213498684669179210?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1213498684669179210/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1213498684669179210&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1213498684669179210'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1213498684669179210'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/islam-recognizes-homosexuality-jakarta.html' title='Islam &apos;recognizes homosexuality&apos; (Jakarta Post)'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-2591042974179276961</id><published>2008-08-24T12:53:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-24T19:04:45.709-04:00</updated><title type='text'>In the Bay</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span&gt;The audiences here are loving the film. I am surprised and happy at the number of people showing up and yes I am really happy with the Desi and Muslim turnout. Big thank yous to TRIKONE, 3rdi and SWANABAQ. Many touching and compelling Q and A's and interactions have happened and I have been talking with audiences for up to 40 minutes!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;More updates and experiences from the road here in the Bay area will follow-meanwhile here are two emails from a Muslim and a non-Muslim after they saw the film in Berkeley last night...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;From the Muslim:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Salaam, Parvez:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I was very nice to meet you last night at the 7:20 screening.  Your film was very poignant.  My objective is to open dialogue within the ummah so that people who are dealing with myriad issues feel like they can stay within the family and receive compassion and understanding.  It hurts my heart to think about people abandoning Islam because they don't "fit."  That is such a Western concept, and one I don't believe is inherent to Islam.  If I am wrong, let Allah be the judge. Please let me know if I can be of future assistance.  If not, just know that I'll be thinking good thoughts for you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;From the non-Muslim:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Thank you for making such an amazing movie!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; Not only did the movie do a good job at exploring the subtle religious and cultural differences of the gay community in different Islamic countries, but it managed to retain the commonality in all of them: the Jihad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; The struggle was what unified all the men and women in the movie and what made it relatable to me, who is pretty far away from Islam, but really close to similar struggles in the Catholicism.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; It also brought focus to one connotation of the word Jihad, which is often trampled by those pushed by what we read in the daily papers: the sense of struggle.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; An Italian dancer/chemist fan,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; Massimo&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;and this from FATIMA:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;" id="friend_add_597708400"&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hey Parvez, it was nice meeting you on Friday night. Thanks for making this wonderful film. Your movie has greatly touched and inspired me to embrace Islam.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-2591042974179276961?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/2591042974179276961/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=2591042974179276961&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2591042974179276961'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2591042974179276961'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/in-bay.html' title='In the Bay'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-6290043632648063302</id><published>2008-08-19T13:06:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-10-14T17:27:09.979-04:00</updated><title type='text'>INTRODUCING: A NEW VOICE FROM TEHRAN!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;font-size:130%;"  &gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;My dear friend Ava writes a blog in Farsi in Tehran. As I have pointed out in my interviews everywhere, amongst other things- Iran has the worlds largest, most meaningful and active blogospheres-alive with profound thoughts and everyday experiences of living within a theocracy. Ava and I talk a lot and she and I have connected in so many special ways because of 'Jihad'. I will now begin to share with all of you some of her blog entries from Tehran. This is a remarkable Iranian woman writing regularly from the Tehran of 2008. Please post comments and I will forward them on to her. So I am very happy and excited to introduce all of you to this new and hopefully continuing blogger-these are words from one of the smartest, and most attractive ; ) Iranian women I know and yes she does live in Tehran-the capital of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that &lt;/span&gt;nation- so many fail to understand and love to demonize.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;AVA WILL BE BLOGGING FROM TEHRAN REGULARLY here on the Jihad Blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;BLOG ENTRY 1&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" type="disc"&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Salaam&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Ss….( unclear    sound out of boredom and ignorance)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The Iranian  officer in passport control at Imam Khomeini’s airport made that sound  when I said hi and put my passport on his desk. He avoided any eye contact  until he wanted to check if the photo in my passport conforms with me.  He stamped the passport and put it on his desk and turned his face away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I loved  to tell him that this is my homeland country as is his and he had no  right to frown at me instead of welcoming me just because he feels superior  by wearing that uniform and sitting behind that desk. But I swallowed  my words.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The concierge  of my building was happy to open the door for me in middle of the night.  The poor old man who lives 70 km away from the city and his salary is  only 150 $ per month was the first one to smile at me. I wonder how  on earth he could manage to feed his family with that little sum of  money!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The next  morning when I saw my car in the parking place I didn’t recognize  it. My car was shining! The Afghani boy who works as a cleaner in the  building together with one of my neighbors had washed my car. My telephone  and electricity bills which were more than 100 $ were temporarily paid  by the other neighbor of the first floor! The one with a religious wife,  whose face was always covered behind her black Chador, knocked my door  and gave me a nice welcome with fresh bread first thing in the morning.  It’s amazing that with all the economical and social crises that people  are facing in their daily life, the culture as well as relations have  still remained strong. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Unfortunately  apart from the people the rest of life in Tehran is not that pleasant.  For the first few days it was difficult to drive in Tehran. Not only  because of too many cars and heavy traffic, but also because of difficulty  to adjust myself again with the driving style of Tehran, though the  style is very simple: no rules! I wish disciplinary forces had made  tight rules over driving instead of women’s outfit. It’s unbelievable  that moral Police forces are standing at every corner of this big city  under a 40 degree heat to check out women’s dress code while this  crazy driving manner is out of control.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Electricity  goes off once or twice a day each time 2-3 hours, even in banks or hospitals.  Inflation has affected everything: 30% on rice, 20% on dairy products,  30 % on rent and so on…&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I remembered  when I wanted to pay the departure tax at the airport before leaving  the country; I asked the guy why the fee was always changing?   And he replied: “Do you guys expect me to answer all your questions  with 200 $ (Tuman) salary per month? Instead of getting angry I got  embarrassed and sad.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;However  the TV anchor woman, while being, happy to be shown on the TV is giving  a report of the new agriculture method in Zimbabwe, unemployment in  The States or the bus  that was off the road and caused 17 injuries  in a far corner of New Zealand. I’d love to tell her how I felt about  her but again I swallowed my words. Later on when she reported on the  scientists’ latest discovery of Apes cells in Tanzania my words were  blurted out. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Later at  night I was lying down on the couch and watching the State TV proud  report on Olympic opening ceremony and the presence of our athletes,  although all the girls and the so-called nudity shots were cut out of  the scene. How proud we are!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I was turning  like a pancake on the couch, a few minutes on my back and then on my  stomach. I asked myself: How does it feel being back home after a while?  Home? Where is home? I remembered this little poem: &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Oh,  God!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;What  bridge in which part of the world has broken?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt; &lt;ul  style="font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;p style="font-style: italic;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;That  no one reaches home.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;BLOG ENTRY 2&lt;i&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;-“Is your  pass card still valid?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I said yes  to the security woman and placed my bag under the X-ray to be checked.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;-“May I see  it?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I nodded with  confident, took the bag and put my hands into my purse to grab the card  while hiding my fingernails from her. Although the security room was  dark, I kept my sunglasses on to make sure she can not see that I’m  wearing mascara.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I showed her  my card as quick as possible but before putting it back in my purse  she said:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;“Oh, do you  have nail polish?” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;-“No, this  is just a varnish! As you can see there’s no color.” I said.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;-“But I see  the shining, you are not allowed to get into the building like this.  It surprises me that after 20 years of work in here that you still want  to round the rules.” She said with a big smile on her face while smelling  like fried sweet onion.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;After a brief  discussion, she gave me a pad and nail-polish remover. I removed it  and left the room, heading towards my own department.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;This is how  I entered the State Television building yesterday.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;My colleagues  were watching a live report on an Iranian wrestler in the Olympic Games  when I entered the room full of anger and hatred. When the Iranian athlete  lost the game, some shouted and cursed him and some got happy and said:  “Yeah…, we don’t deserve it…the government doesn’t give a  damn about the sports or sportsmen, but now when it comes to the Olympic  Games they want to be proud of their gold medals!” One of them said:  “They had even censored the report, because the Chinese girl walking  along with the athletes to the ground was wearing a short skirt.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I was surprised  to see my colleagues criticizing everything from head to toe so openly.  Everyone was aggressively complaining about the 20 to 30% inflation  on daily costs without caring about the security man who was walking  through the corridor.  I was imagining how Dutch people would react  if suddenly facing some 30% inflation rather than their 4%? The big  difference, at least, would be their permission to react!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Instead of  welcoming me back home, my colleagues asked: “Couldn’t you have  stayed there? Why did you come back?”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;The hot subject  for chatting in the office was the fake honorary doctorate certificate  of the new Minister of Interior from Oxford University which was reported  in the website of a conservative parliament member.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Late in the  afternoon, I paid a visit to my bank, the electricity was cut and 38  people were ahead of me waiting to be served if electricity comes back  before the end of official working hours. Before leaving the bank, I  received a message which was awfully appropriate for the situation:  Blackouts always remind us of four people: Edison’s mother and father,  and our president’s mother and sister!!!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;On my way back  home, when waiting for the green light, I saw a little boy asking people  to buy his flowers. I told him: “It’s hot, do you want me to get  an ice-cream for you?” He replied: “I’m not a beggar, I need to  work and make 7000 tumans (7$) a day”. My heart shrank.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;When I got  home, I turned on my computer to check that website and the articles  about the fake certificate. After half an hour dealing with the super-slow  dial-up connection, the webpage popped up but the website was filtered.  I tried to visit the other websites: BBC Persian and YOU TUBE were filtered.  I even checked my Face Book account and realized that it was filtered  too. And that was the moment for repeating my favorite Dutch phrase  for 10 times: “God ver doma.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;p  style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:arial;" align="justify"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Later at night,  when watching “Sex and the city” TV series on my DVD player which  I had borrowed it from my friends, there was a sudden blackout. I lit  a candle and laid on my couch, thought how gezilig is my life in Tehran!  I grabbed my mobile to chat with a friend and kill the time. I dialed  the number but there was the same old voice saying: “The network is  busy!” I dialed again and there was another familiar phrase: “This  recipient is not in the coverage area.” I dialed again only to hear  that: “The connection canceled, please try again later.” &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;font-family:Times New Roman;font-size:130%;"  &gt;I took the  telephone and dialed my own mobile number to check if it was working,  but it said: “This number does not exist in the network.”&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-6290043632648063302?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/6290043632648063302/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=6290043632648063302&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6290043632648063302'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/6290043632648063302'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/new-voice-from-tehran.html' title='INTRODUCING: A NEW VOICE FROM TEHRAN!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-193766960356283993</id><published>2008-08-12T17:44:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-14T14:48:39.835-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Great Interview</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This is a good interview about the film and the fundamental inequalities of the film industry (here in 'Amreeka')&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;h3 style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.asiaarts.ucla.edu/080808/article.asp?parentID=95668"&gt;Muslim Pride&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h3&gt;&lt;p style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" class="abstract"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.asiaarts.ucla.edu/080808/article.asp?parentID=95668"&gt;Gay and lesbian Muslims struggle to reconcile their homosexuality with their faith in Parvez Sharma's documentary A Jihad for Love. &lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-193766960356283993?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/193766960356283993/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=193766960356283993&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/193766960356283993'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/193766960356283993'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/great-interview.html' title='Great Interview'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8915333348798946501</id><published>2008-08-12T01:20:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-12T01:33:18.567-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Watching 'Jihad...' in Tehran</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Another screening....this time in private, with curtains drawn, presumably...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;A friend in Tehran invited some trusted friends including filmmakers over and they watched the film-I will not reveal names here but here is part of the email I got...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;Hi Parvez,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I haven't heard from you for a long time but I know you are very busy with presenting your film around the world and The States.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I think it's a big success and I hope it goes perfect with everything.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I came back to Tehran....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;I watched your beautiful film again yesterday with a few of my friends,they were all so touched by it---it &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;is a powerful film and specially the story of the iranians were more touching for us.We have some similar scenes in our films....&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8915333348798946501?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8915333348798946501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8915333348798946501&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8915333348798946501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8915333348798946501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/watching-jihad-in-tehran.html' title='Watching &apos;Jihad...&apos; in Tehran'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1127957728026569532</id><published>2008-08-08T17:49:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-09T22:40:23.814-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Extended Run in LA and Palm Springs!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Here is a new review of the film in the LA Independent&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.laindependent.com/default.asp?sourceid=&amp;amp;smenu=84&amp;amp;twindow=Default&amp;amp;mad=No&amp;amp;sdetail=4006&amp;amp;wpage=1&amp;amp;skeyword=&amp;amp;sidate=&amp;amp;ccat=&amp;amp;ccatm=&amp;amp;restate=&amp;amp;restatus=&amp;amp;reoption=&amp;amp;retype=&amp;amp;repmin=&amp;amp;repmax=&amp;amp;rebed=&amp;amp;rebath=&amp;amp;subname=&amp;amp;pform=&amp;amp;sc=1014&amp;amp;hn=laindependent&amp;amp;he=.com"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.laindependent.com/default.asp?sourceid=&amp;amp;smenu=84&amp;amp;twindow=Default&amp;amp;mad=No&amp;amp;sdetail=4006&amp;amp;wpage=1&amp;amp;skeyword=&amp;amp;sidate=&amp;amp;ccat=&amp;amp;ccatm=&amp;amp;restate=&amp;amp;restatus=&amp;amp;reoption=&amp;amp;retype=&amp;amp;repmin=&amp;amp;repmax=&amp;amp;rebed=&amp;amp;rebath=&amp;amp;subname=&amp;amp;pform=&amp;amp;sc=1014&amp;amp;hn=laindependent&amp;amp;he=.com"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;A Jihad For Love” is at once a heartbreaking and hopeful documentary written and directed by Parvez Sharma about the plight of homosexuals (men and women) within the Islamic faith."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.laindependent.com/default.asp?sourceid=&amp;amp;smenu=84&amp;amp;twindow=Default&amp;amp;mad=No&amp;amp;sdetail=4006&amp;amp;wpage=1&amp;amp;skeyword=&amp;amp;sidate=&amp;amp;ccat=&amp;amp;ccatm=&amp;amp;restate=&amp;amp;restatus=&amp;amp;reoption=&amp;amp;retype=&amp;amp;repmin=&amp;amp;repmax=&amp;amp;rebed=&amp;amp;rebath=&amp;amp;subname=&amp;amp;pform=&amp;amp;sc=1014&amp;amp;hn=laindependent&amp;amp;he=.com"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I have been on my endless travels talking to audiences around the world and learning new things about my work through their eyes. This is satisfying in many deep ways and also has an element of the surreal about it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Anyway I have just returned from a very successful week in LA and Palm Springs and I have understood deeply that the intellectual vacuum we assume exists down there in Southern California may be a myth after all!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I was also surrounded by the love of Mickey and Tom, Firoozeh, Reza and Amanda, Richard and Sussan, Larry and all of my lovely desi friends- Rashmi, Sanjay, Ayesha and Khadija, Juhi, Naveed and Mushtaq who even organized a delicious dinner ; )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;I have had remarkable conversations with the inhabitants of la la land and have learnt profoundly how much the legacy of that fateful day in February 1979 when the Marja-al-taqlid with those penetrating eyes (Ayatollah Ruhollah Khomeini) returned to Tehran- creates fissures in Tehrangeles for the Iranians in exile. More on that will be posted on my blog soon at www.ajihadforlove.blogspot&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;.com, which I do as always encourage all of you to visit. Some of the new and amazing press on the film with comments that pour in every day is also posted there.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="font-weight: bold;" class="text"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On another note:&lt;br /&gt;We have been extended for another week in both LA and Palm Springs. My main mission has always been to prove to the US Box Office that this very Muslim film, made with a very Muslim lens can succeed at the US Box Office. Jaded as I feel sometimes, I still get the greatest satisfaction when I hear an 'American' audience member stand at the Box Office and ask for 'a ticket for Jihad please!'&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So humbly and hopefully I do request all of you to send everyone you know to this second week and especially this weekend (if we do great box office numbers this weekend- we could even have a third week!)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Here are the showtimes in LA&lt;br /&gt;Fri 7:30 pm&lt;br /&gt;Sat - Sun 3:30, 7:30 pm&lt;br /&gt;Mon - Thurs 7:30 pm&lt;br /&gt;Regent Showcase Theater&lt;br /&gt;614 N. La Brea Ave. Los Angeles, CA. 90036  323-934-1770&lt;br /&gt;Website: &lt;a href="http://www.regenttheaters.com/nowplayingSHOWCASE.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;span&gt;http://www.regenttheaters.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;wbr&gt;&lt;span&gt;com/nowplayingSHOWCASE.htm&lt;/span&gt;&lt;wbr&gt;l&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And for Palm Springs:&lt;br /&gt;Fri - Thu: (12:30), 3:00, 5:30, (8:00)&lt;br /&gt;Camelot Theatres&lt;br /&gt;2300 E Baristo Road&lt;br /&gt;Palm Springs, CA 92262&lt;br /&gt;760.325.6565&lt;br /&gt;Dolby Digital&lt;br /&gt;website: &lt;a href="http://www.camelottheatres.com/index.html" target="_blank" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;span&gt;http://www.camelottheatres&lt;/span&gt;&lt;wbr&gt;.com/index.html&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1127957728026569532?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1127957728026569532/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1127957728026569532&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1127957728026569532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1127957728026569532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/extended-run-in-la-and-palm-springs.html' title='Extended Run in LA and Palm Springs!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7611860946177029797</id><published>2008-08-07T03:27:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-08T17:12:47.016-04:00</updated><title type='text'>La La Land</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;I leave La La Land with a heavy heart. Too often many of us on the East Coast and elsewhere assume a kind of intellectual vacuum in this town. While West Hollywood many times does appear to be out of touch with reality and conversations about Islam or global politics at the Abbey (for example) are not destined to go very far- I have been amazed with the quality of discussions I have had with the media here and indeed with audiences. The film will be held over both here and in Palm Springs for another week (I will update that information as soon as I have showtimes).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A highlight of my trip was being asked to sit for Don Bachardy. Don is Christopher Isherwoods lifelong partner and now a 74 year old widower. I spent the day sitting still for this remarkable man who has lived history-and whose hands have worked the faces of remarkable people from Anais Nin to Aldoux Huxley and so many more. I am told it is an honour to be asked and I feel humbled. I spent much of the time in his Santa Monica studio observing his hands. They show signs of age but move across canvas with remarkable alacrity and an almost spirtual certitude. Don does not talk much. He is shy and very childlike in some ways. The energy he exudes is of one who has lived a remarkable and full life, who has met most of the important people in the last century of Western history and who still retains an amazing curiosity for his subjects. I am told three portraits with him is enough for him to get a sense of your being.&lt;br /&gt;He told me I was very 'still'. I know I was that day, mostly out of awe and in as much as I was in a meditative and observational state. Stillness however is not a quality that I think I usually posess. But on Monday I was watching Don Bachardy watching me.&lt;br /&gt;I read Isherwood when I was 12, so this portrait session was like coming full circle with this phase of my life.&lt;br /&gt;I remain, deeply fascinated by 'The Hands of Don Bachardy'.&lt;br /&gt;I hope, one day, to ask him for permission to use one of those portraits on this blog.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Finally-John who saw the film here sends this touching email:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;dear Parvez,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;my friend and i saw "Jihad" on saturday night and enjoyed both the film and the question and answer period after.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;i must apologize, however, for using the term " Islamists" in place  of Moslems when i was speaking with you.  please attribute that to being a bit tired...but not because of the film.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;as i had said during our exchange this film really pointed up, for me, the great faith and devotion of the subjects in the film to Islam.  i felt that this demonstration of their faith was the highlight of the film for me and spurs my hope that more non- Moslems  would see it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;it is my great pleasure, and good fortune, to have as my close friend a very devout Moslem who demonstrates to me daily what a loving and inclusive religion Islam is.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;we had both come to "Jihad" with sincere hope that some answer to the question of homosexual love's place in Islam would jump out at us.  though we didn't experience any epiphany our love as friends will continue to grow as will our respect for one another's beliefs and "jihads".&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;thank you, Parvez, for this fine film, and your commitment to your subjects struggles.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;be well,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;" class="nfakPe"&gt;John&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;p.s.  much better than any sequel to " another gay movie"!  :)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Parvez,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; You're documentary was very well done.  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; I hope the film, "Jihad for Love", has the power to bring some beneficial changes to the injustices that exist in many parts of the world.  Not being a religious person myself, it's difficult to understand gays that remain faithful to a religion that does not tolerate their uniqueness.  My partner is a former Mormon from Salt Lake City where his family still live.  We have similar problems in our own country, though maybe not as extreme.  I do work with Muslims in my office from Yemen, Iraq, Jordan, and Iran.  They have been accepting of my being gay, so there is hope.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt; Thanks for making this colorful, interesting film.  I wish more people will see it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Here are some links to features:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.presstelegram.com/lifestyle/ci_10128366"&gt;The Long Beach Press Telegram has a nice feature with interviews&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://archive.kpfk.org/parchive/"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also this excellent interview with Yatrika Shah-Rais. Click on the Link and then click on the Global Village Icon from August 6, 2008 to play&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7611860946177029797?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7611860946177029797/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7611860946177029797&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7611860946177029797'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7611860946177029797'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/la-la-land.html' title='La La Land'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3315442218981450544</id><published>2008-08-03T21:23:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-08-04T11:58:29.563-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Tehrangeles</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span&gt;So here I am in La La land having some really amazing conversations. We are trying to get more of those Iranians (also known as Eye-rain-ians on Fox Noise) and I will update you all soon!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;But meanwhile a choice email has arrived from Fadia Darwish:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I just wanted to say that this whole thing about being gay, or lesbian and calling youself a muslim is a disgrace.I am so sick of this. YOu cannot be this way and call yourself a muslim. Its against the religion. you are not a muslim just because you say you are. In order to be a muslim you have to follow the religion. In the religion homosexuality is &lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;u&gt;HARAM.&lt;/u&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;  ALSO this gay Imam, he is a JOKE like the resty of you. I how can he preach about Islam and he doesnt even follow it.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;Not sure if she saw the film? But she did chose to include her email address and in this case I have no qualms in making it public, for anyone interested in her comments to reply. Fadia can be found at famuha21@yahoo.com&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Also there is this email from Arash in Iraqi Kurdistan:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hi Mr. Parvez&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; I thank you for creating a movie on homosexuality.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; My name is Arash, I am 24 from Iraqi Kurdistan. I cannot wait until I can see your film. People across the muslim world and middle east has been very ignorant of this issue.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; I want to talk to you about my personal problem, as muslim, i could have written down on your site but i prefer a reply and to get to know you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; thank you&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Arash&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;This one from Melbourne:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hello Parvez&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I just saw your film tonight at the Melbourne Film Festival in Australia - very large audience. Congratulations - it was both a moving and  entertaining film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Normally I don't send emails to directors but I read on your blog that you have been getting hate mail so I wanted to do my bit in sending you a positive email!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Cheers&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Bree McKilligan &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold;" href="http://www.edgenewyork.com/index.php?ch=entertainment&amp;amp;sc=culture&amp;amp;sc3=&amp;amp;id=78367&amp;amp;pg=1"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There is a great write up on EDGE NY&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span class="slugline"&gt;New Film Examines Being Gay + Muslim&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3315442218981450544?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3315442218981450544/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3315442218981450544&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3315442218981450544'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3315442218981450544'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/08/tehrangeles.html' title='Tehrangeles'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1553519948849148196</id><published>2008-07-26T15:51:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-26T15:54:38.670-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Chicago is BUZZING!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Samaha Ivanovic, is a wonderful Bosnian Muslim woman here in Chicago. She came to see the film yesterday and has posted this below, on her blog. She has also posted this message on the AMAL listserve which has been buzzing with a discussion about this film coming to Chicago. This can only mean, that more Muslims will come and see the film this weekend! Just what I want.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;The movie hadn't even hit the Chicago screen, nor had anyone seen it, but it caused quite a stir amongst a group that seemed to be sleeping through the summer except for a short burst in regards to Obama's visit to Michigan.  Opinions were there and a few references to sources that were enriching.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; I expected that I would be moved by what the Muslim LBGT community goes through throughout the Islamic world, that was a given - the movies title means "a struggle for love".   What I hadn't expected was the sheer power of this movie to move me on so many different levels.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; Up until tonight, I could only imagine the struggles that they must face to be free to be who they are but I couldn't quite imagine the spiritual struggle.  I've been able to read essays and books relating to LGBT and Islam.  I'm in a Muslim society that I feel is open to discussion and in a society where there exists a movement that is pro-equality so I could never fully understand that there would be a spiritual 'jihad' of this magnitude.  Tonight, watching the movie, I could feel their jihad within me and there is this pain that isn't going away.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; The movie takes you through a journey of guilt, pain, confusion and suffering but though they have perservered through many different trials and some even eventually fleeing their home countries they hold onto their faith.   Images of the charachters praying, visiting mosques and their conversations about their love for Allah and the Prophet (pbuh) overpower the tribulations that they have experienced due to thier lifestlye.  While a person will never forget the brutality and cruelty they have faced one comes away with a greater understanding of the internal 'jihad'.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; The movie itself is pretty much Muslim friendly, you won't find any scenes of passionate kissing or the such although their is one scene in which a young man performs a belly dance (someone refered to him as 'scantily clad') but quite honestly we're just as likely to see as much being revealed out at the mall, in restaurants, pedestrians crossing the street but it doesn't keep us from leaving the house.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; In some sense for the Muslim community this movie is a success.  Such a highly controversial subject would draw condemnations and protestors of other faith believers if the movie was just a portrayal of [your religion here] LGBT community.  Surely, one would jump to the conclusion that this subject matter would draw some sort of negative reaction from the Muslim community.  I asked Parvez Sharma, the director and producer of a Jihad For Love" if he found such a reaction from the Muslim community in North America and the answer was no.  Emails though - yes, he gets his fair share of hate mail.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; While last nights audience of about 100 people was a mix of Muslims and non-Muslims and a Tanzinanian couple, who were as Parvez put it "about his parents age", walked up to Parvez and told him that this movie was really about family, this movie still symbolizes a failure of the Muslim community.  We fail to support those who are unlike us.  We've got our Ayaans out there and we insist that it's not that we won't accept their criticism because they left our faith.  We insist that we would be open to dialogue if it weren't an attack on Islam if we felt that their was no hidden agenda.  We insist that we could deal with all of these issues if they were presented in a tasteful way.  Here it is.  Here is a movie that is not only sensitive to Muslims and tastefully produced and where are we?  I'm talking to the MSA's that weren't willing to put the effort into being open to the movie.  I'm talking to my friends at the listserve who may be considering sitting this one out. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt; Are we going to sit this one out people?  Is the voice not loud enough for you to draw a reaction?  This movie would have drawn huge audiences if the charachters were angry apostates. Such a movie that portrays 'jihad' in it's true sense a movie which has focused on Muslim who stayed within Islam, whose love for Allah is great .. this movie is for YOU my fellow Muslims.  Go see it!  Support it!  Don't just let it go.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;" href="http://samaha.wordpress.com/2008/07/26/review-a-jihad-for-love/" target="_blank"&gt;http://samaha.wordpress.com/&lt;wbr&gt;2008/07/26/review-a-jihad-for-&lt;wbr&gt;love/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1553519948849148196?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1553519948849148196/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1553519948849148196&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1553519948849148196'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1553519948849148196'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/chicago-is-buzzing.html' title='Chicago is BUZZING!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-8364662998310730074</id><published>2008-07-26T12:39:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-26T13:56:26.495-04:00</updated><title type='text'>LA and Chicagoland</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So I am here in Chicago and have just found this excellent feature on the film in todays LA Times by the newspapers religion reporter, Duke Helfand&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Please read and comment ; )&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;h1 style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.latimes.com/news/local/la-me-beliefs26-2008jul26,0,4447210.story?page=1"&gt;Filmmaker uncovers the struggle of gay Muslims in 'A Jihad for Love'&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;The film opened last night here in Chicago at the Gene Siskel Film Center. Right across the street Bill Maher was doing his routine at the 'Chicago'-a popular event and some tough competion, no doubt.&lt;br /&gt;But almost a 100 people came on the first day with the second screening fostering one of the most compelling Q and A sessions I have had. The audience was remarkable and engaged and included Muslims. I was deeply touched when an older Tanzanian (probably Muslim) married heterosexual couple (probably my parents age) came up to me and said ' This film is also really about family'.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Powerful words, and definitely true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Meanwhile a minor controversy has also broken out here with my Muslim and straight friends here trying to do outreach at the Downtown Islamic Center. Yesterday the Imam at the mosque said he would not be willing to associate the mosque with the film. This was when my friend who is also on the board of the mosque requested him to make an announcement. Flyers of the film, however were distributed just outside the mosque after Friday Jummah prayers.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I am continuing to work towards the goal of engaging with many Muslims in the Chicago area. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is Obamaland afterall! And that means, Change is in the Air, right?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-8364662998310730074?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/8364662998310730074/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=8364662998310730074&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8364662998310730074'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/8364662998310730074'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/la-and-chicagoland.html' title='LA and Chicagoland'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-7662479597202324692</id><published>2008-07-21T06:05:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-25T06:26:41.633-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Toronto Again!</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span&gt;After almost a year, Jihad is in theatrical release here in Canada and audiences at the Royal theater in Torontos hip College area are loving it. More updates and comments to follow. The film plays through Thursday at the very least.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;Read this in the Globe and Mail, Canadas newspaper of record- &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.theglobeandmail.com/servlet/story/RTGAM.20080718.wvaughan18/BNStory/Entertainment/"&gt;Coming out as a warrior in the struggle for love&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;And this feature in NOW magazine (the Village Voice in Toronto)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.nowtoronto.com/movies/story.cfm?content=163996"&gt;Gay, Muslim and Unafraid&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span&gt;And finally this special feature on ABC News with many interesting comments from the Middle East (will post some here) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/Story?id=5336130&amp;amp;page=1"&gt;"Breaking Silence on Being Gay and Muslim"&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This email from Anas:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Dear Mr. Parvez Sharma,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I reside in Chicago and hope to see this film at its debut tomorrow/weekend. I have seen the trailer and several interviews on youtube. I am excited and thrilled to see this film. As a Muslim-American my personal Jihad with my sexuality has been in the forefront of my mind since I came out 15 years ago. It never goes away and the loneliness I feel at times balancing my spirituality and my life as gay man seems overwhelming, but I knew there are other Muslims dealing with the same issues. I THANK YOU and may Allah bless your efforts! &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I hope to add more after I see your film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-7662479597202324692?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/7662479597202324692/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=7662479597202324692&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7662479597202324692'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/7662479597202324692'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/toronto-again.html' title='Toronto Again!'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1351412902859457312</id><published>2008-07-17T12:30:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-17T12:33:50.034-04:00</updated><title type='text'>NPR Today</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;I was on NPR this morning-their leading show 'Morning Edition' talking about Jihad.&lt;br /&gt;More soon, including the Osama Bin Laden t-shirts selling on the streets of Tokyo. (click below to listen)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;h1 style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=92552774&amp;amp;ft=1&amp;amp;f=1001"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;What Does 'Jihad' Really Mean?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/h1&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1351412902859457312?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1351412902859457312/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1351412902859457312&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1351412902859457312'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1351412902859457312'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/npr-today.html' title='NPR Today'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-9137787732523227630</id><published>2008-07-14T22:22:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T12:06:12.023-05:00</updated><title type='text'>A gay muslim in TOKIO</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SHzLwSQVD6I/AAAAAAAAADk/Ke5269x085Q/s1600-h/IMG_5898.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SHzLwSQVD6I/AAAAAAAAADk/Ke5269x085Q/s320/IMG_5898.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5223273698237419426" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;This is another planet, honestly.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Many national obsessions and I will write more soon.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;The film has been overwhelmingly well received by 250 Japanese and expats two nights ago at a multi storeyed downtown Tokio theater in Shinjuku.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Some responses have come in...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;div bg="" style="color: rgb(255, 255, 255);"&gt; &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Dear Mr. Sharma,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;   &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I'm Masaki Urakawa, and &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I am the one who asked you a question about  being a muslim yesterday in the film  festival&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Thanks again for your great  film.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;That expanded my view about being a gay in  the world.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Also, I was amazed by your very clear  answer to me about being a muslim.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Though it might be impossible for me as a Japanese to perfectly sympathize those muslim gays but your answer greatly helped me to understand how their struggles were taugh.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;I would love to access your blogspot and  watch the discussion there.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;  &lt;div  style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;Sincerely,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;div&gt;&lt;span style=";font-family:MS UI Gothic;font-size:85%;"  &gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;font-size:130%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-family:arial;"&gt;Masaki URAKAWA&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt; &lt;script&gt;&lt;!-- D(["mb","\u003cspan class\u003dsg\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cfont face\u003d\"MS UI Gothic\" size\u003d\"2\"\u003eMasaki URAKAWA\u003c/font\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\u003c/span\u003e",1] ); D(["mb","\u003c/div\u003e\n",0] ); D(["ce"]);  //--&gt;&lt;/script&gt;&lt;span class="sg"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-9137787732523227630?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/9137787732523227630/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=9137787732523227630&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/9137787732523227630'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/9137787732523227630'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/gay-muslim-in-tokio.html' title='A gay muslim in TOKIO'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SHzLwSQVD6I/AAAAAAAAADk/Ke5269x085Q/s72-c/IMG_5898.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-3592035323152846712</id><published>2008-07-05T11:42:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-06T14:07:40.336-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Love</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Even on my mini vacation-I cannot resist sharing the following emails with you all...including the first one that brought tears to my eyes...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Salaam alykum&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; My  name is Asmaa. I am a lesbian muslim from Canada. I have been suicidal for the past years. Because I thought I was the only homosexual muslim in the world. Thank you for letting me know that I'm not alone. And I can still be a lesbian if I was a muslim. The muslim community around the world needs to wake up and realize there are gays and lesbians in there community. And not punish theme for who they are. Keep up the good work  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; P.S &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="sg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Asmaa&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;  &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Dear Parvez,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;We spoke briefly after your screening of A Jihad For Love on Tuesday. I found it extremely moving. I'm half-Egyptian and gay and feel very lucky to have been born in a country where my sexuality is not a crime. I was so devastated by the film, I had to leave in the middle of the Q &amp;amp; A. You've articulated through your film, an oppression that feeds off of silence. Thank you.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Best,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Chris&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Sakura says:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Hi,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I think it's fantastic that a film like this exist. Because for one, there's finally a piece of media out there that doesn't portray Muslims as terrorists. It seems that gay Muslims are invisible.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Keep up the good work&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Anonymous (In response to my 'Am I Homophobic' post) says...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I agree totally. I think that the Western queer 'community' is insular: we don't give a damn about queers in other parts of the world who are suffering. I wish that we would turn our focus to the sufferings of queers the worldover instead of just fighting for our rights to have the trappings of a middle class existence. It's pride weekend where I live in London and I can't bare yet another day of flagrant hedonism whilst our brothers and sisters are executed or tortured in Iran, Pakistan, Nigeria, and countless other countries.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-3592035323152846712?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/3592035323152846712/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=3592035323152846712&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3592035323152846712'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/3592035323152846712'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/love.html' title='Love'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-2079792295936630751</id><published>2008-07-03T02:44:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-03T02:46:13.198-04:00</updated><title type='text'>I value this...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;I value this persons opinion for many reasons, and therefore reproduce it below-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"Moving narrative and heart felt aesthetics.  I think it would make a sceptic pause and think about question of sexual orientation with compassion because of the authenticity of the lives presented.  The racial and cultural diversity underlying the film reinforces its pluralist message.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt; Its definitely one of those films that can cause a paradigm shift in an ecosystem.  Will keep an eye and ear out for its progress.  Wishing the film and you success!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;BM"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-2079792295936630751?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/2079792295936630751/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=2079792295936630751&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2079792295936630751'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/2079792295936630751'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/i-value-this.html' title='I value this...'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-1030648574053357331</id><published>2008-07-03T01:13:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-12-09T12:06:12.312-05:00</updated><title type='text'>The Bostonians</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SGyJzfBJh-I/AAAAAAAAADY/auD5CV3HgQo/s1600-h/marquee2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SGyJzfBJh-I/AAAAAAAAADY/auD5CV3HgQo/s320/marquee2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5218697585808213986" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;So I just had an amazing Q and A with a packed audience. Some pretty thoughtful thoughts including an interesting question about what the future of Islam might be....I guess all of the claustrophobic academia in this town and its ivy leaguey-ness produces ideas and intellectual curiosity....Regardless spent an amazing evening talking to an Indian architect working with MIT on a new design project for Jerusalem, another MIT professor working in visual design and a super engaging Shia Pakistani woman who is a professor of English, trying NOT to talk about the film (some success there)...we had just seen BRICK LANE-which I found remarkably engaging and thoughtful with many themes that are close to my heart and my experience of life (up until now atleast)-recommends it strongly, and just wished that the the gorgeous Bangali actress did not voice her letters to her sister in the film (an interstitial theme in the film) in accented English-when we write home sometimes we write in our own languages-my most heartfelt curses are always in Urdu or Hindi and sometimes even Punjabi or Bengali...&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Here is an email from someone who just saw and liked the film-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;"I just saw the screening of your film in Coolidge Corner, and I wanted to tell you that I think it's wonderful! I came with a friend of mine; we both saw "Trembling Before G-d" when it screened at Tufts University, and so we were very interested to see what "A Jihad for Love" would be like. It's so thought-provoking for me, because I am not secure in either my religious faith nor in my sexuality, so I can't quite grasp what it would be like to fiercely hold onto both...especially when they are so at odds with one another. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;I am curious...did you ever get angry during the filming process? At one point, I think it was when the gay Imam was talking to the Quran scholar, the scholar said something to the effect of, people can't just interpret the Quran to suit their own personal beliefs...and I wanted to yell, "But isn't that what YOU'RE doing??" I am wondering if you experienced similar frustrations/anger, and if so, how you managed to handle that and still hold fast to your faith?&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Thank you for making this film and being so generous with your time during the Q&amp;amp;A afterwards!&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Best,&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span class="sg"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;Rachel&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/2965628469210024710-1030648574053357331?l=ajihadforlove.blogspot.com' alt='' /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/feeds/1030648574053357331/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=2965628469210024710&amp;postID=1030648574053357331&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1030648574053357331'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/2965628469210024710/posts/default/1030648574053357331'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://ajihadforlove.blogspot.com/2008/07/bostonians.html' title='The Bostonians'/><author><name>Parvez Sharma</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/13664570550701959269</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='16' height='16' src='http://img2.blogblog.com/img/b16-rounded.gif'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_5LF7CWObm5A/SGyJzfBJh-I/AAAAAAAAADY/auD5CV3HgQo/s72-c/marquee2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2965628469210024710.post-844484350248626620</id><published>2008-07-02T00:38:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-07-02T00:45:33.957-04:00</updated><title type='text'>Boston 180</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;More than 180 people at the 7 15 show here tonight. They say the film is doing very well. Mostly a non-Muslim audience with a very intense and engaging discussion afterwards.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;One comment-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:130%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"Your film is profound, complicated, layered, gentle and not angry. Thank you for making it."&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Another one-&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold; font-style: italic;"&gt;"Thank you so much for mediating this for the audience afterwards. Thank you for coming and talking to us-I dont think the experience of the film would be as rich if we did not have you talking to us later"&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt; &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Lets now bring some Arabs, Muslims, Desis in tomorrow when there will be another Q&amp;amp;A.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.co
